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Search Results: first thing a guy notices
I can't figure out if this girl is uninterested or shy. Please help?
So, there's this girl (F18) I noticed looking at me a lot a few months ago. At first, I didn't think it meant anything. But then, I saw her staring my way, even when she wasn't looking directly at me. Just to be sure, I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Ever had a bad day, and then at the end of said bad day, have that ONE more thing happen, and you’re like “OF COURSE”?
Woke up in a good mood, feeling considerably better after being sick a few days. Left the house… that’s when it turned on me, lmao. I went to the hockey rink to warm up for my beer league game at night. First off,...
Guy being vulnerable with me?
So I share a lot on here because this is my advice platform (my friends can only help me so much). I’m certain this guy is into me, we hold a lot of eye contact and speak to each other a lot. We text each other (it’s not...
Sunshinexoxo95
Xper 2 Age: 30 Is it weird for a stranger to approach you and say something totally random?
Today after I finished putting the groceries in my car, I decided to take a second to take a picture of my outfit because I dressed up today and didn’t have time earlier to take a picture but anyways I was behind my car...
xoierra
Xper 2 Age: 24 
Dat-Alpha-Lion
Guru Age: 26 How do I cope with someone who has borderline?
Hi everyone, I have a friend who has borderline disorder. She told me this when I first started getting to know her. I didn’t know much about the disorder and I didn’t want it to be a reason to stop getting to know...
Yasm1nlove
Xper 1 Age: 25 How to best handle a competitive female?
There’s a man I liked. I’ve noticed in the more recent posts, where some of my questions were about him, a younger woman keeps popping up, saying things like that he’s not interested and to find another guy; and sharing...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do guys show interest then stop when I show interest back?
Growing up I never had like male attention except here and there. Only up until my first year of college. Now I get a lot of male attention, and a lot of guys approach me but some don’t come off too pushy like first...
Anonymous
(18-24) What should I do?
Guys, I’ve been through a really long path love wise. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15.. he passed away in a car accident when I turned 17. I was devastated.. years later I got in a relationship with another guy. We...
Anonymous
(30-35) Some guys use "we" or say things like they're going to make me their signature dishes when we've only been on one dates?
I noticed that a lot of guys would use "we" when I've only gone on one dates with them. For example, I said that I had not traveled much but would like to do so more. One guy said "We need to change that." Um, "we"? 😄...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it possible he loves me?
So there's this guy (of course... I'll call him "max") I've known him since childhood, he gave me a diamond bracelet when we were kids. We hung out as teens (almost hooked up, but didn't, I chickened out), we lost touch...
Anonymous
(36-45) He apologises to me for little things?
this guys I work with he always apologises for little things he doesn’t need to be. Like he says “ sorry ( my name) can I use your computer?” Or “ sorry ( my name) I’m just getting something here” like every time he comes...
Anonymous
(25-29) What am I doing wrong?
single for 3 years. Had many first dates, met many men, and have never found myself “dating” someone. Every guy I like, only sees me as fun and is either newly out of a relationship and “isn’t ready” or just isn’t...
Jam888
Xper 3 Age: 44 How to know if she truly loves me or she is just using me for now until her crush/her ex give her some attention?
I met this girl on a dating app, and we've been seeing each other for about 3 months. We recently entered into a relationship. It's worth mentioning that she was the one who gave me her number, expressed her liking and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Cutting contact with toxic friend. Should I tell him I'll cut contact or just do it?
I used to be friends with a guy from a mutual friend group. We often went to do things with the same group and spoke often. After a while I noticed that he kept sending flirty messages and double/triple texts with gifs...
Anonymous
(25-29) I think my guy friend is projecting, how should I approach him about it?
So first my friend is about 2-3 years younger than me (I’m 24 he’s 21) we used to be coworkers but now we work at other jobs now. A quick little background about him, he used to be bullied and picked on a lot by girls in...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Why do Men only want to sleep with me?
I will turn 26 this month and I have never been in a relationship. I am never taken serious, I am always with no exceptions sexualized. Even if the guys i was with had good intentions at first they turned sexual a few...
Sandraxxo
Xper 2 Age: 28 Before a guy notices other things about you that makes you attractive does he always notice how attractive your face is first?
Like if he tells you “Your voice is cute.” Or “I love your laugh.” Will he usually only say those things only after noticing how pretty he believes you are. I know for me, any guy that I found their voice or walk or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever dated a person you didn't find attractive at first glance?
Also... how did it go? I'm a guy and i've noticed that a girl likes me (her friend, who is also my friend, told me). She's not exactly my type... i like some things about her (both physically and mentally), but she's not...
Anonymous
(18-24) There's these two guys who are too different?
The first guy who is my friend is someone who i seem to cannot live without. I gravitate towards him and he to me. Whenever i think of him, im happy. We just reconnected last year but i noticed that our bond is the...
Ofoceansbeaches
Xper 5 Age: 32 