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I've only had one girlfriend a few years back, and she did not seem very interested in sex in the year we were dating.

I kept asking her then if it was because I was too small for her. She would always say no but would also seem to avoid the question.

One night we were both drunk and she jokingly said that it 'was the size of a lighter', she apologised a lot the next morning and said she felt bad. We broke up for different reasons and I haven't dated since.

This is something that worries me a lot and I don't feel confident enough to get back out there. I would like to know if you would date someone my size.

For a bit more context I am 5' 7" about 125lbs

How do you determine if someone is young enough to be your child? Is it when you start having kids? Maybe when you get married? When you start having sex? When you reach adulthood? Or when you hit puberty? As someone who doesn't have any kids yet; the idea of someone young enough to be my child is an interesting conundrum. The two most logical options being when I actually start having kids and when I was physically capable of being a father. But the gap between these two is immense (12-40 for me and 0-28 for my imaginary kid). Adulthood seems like a reasonable solution until you think about the fact that I didn't have sex in my early adult years; which is becoming more common in society. Marriage has similar issues with plenty of people having kids but never getting married; or getting married and never having kids. So what do you think? At what point in your life do you think people born afterwards should be considered young enough to be your child?