Confused about the guy Im dating, asked him if he sees me a friend or interested romantically and says he dont know?

[Anonymous]

I am dating this guy where we already met 4 times. We had sex the first date and been having sex everytime. I asked the question, and he said he don't know and just wanna see where it goes.

He then tried to do raw sex on the 4th date and said he doesn't wanna have kids. I'm confused on what he wants. What does it mean when he said I don't know? He can just say he considers me a friends with benefits.

[SweetJoyGirl]

That is exactly what you are.

Friends with benefits.

Ghost him and remove yourself from the environment. Nothing good comes from a man who plays with a woman’s emotions.

[Asker]

Thank you! He was not what I imagined him to be. Behind an innocent face is a manipulative mind.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Unfortunately. 😔

[bowenw]

He may be hoping to string you along for as long as possible for sex.

[Asker]

It took me a while to figure that out. I was busy fantasizing an idea of him being a different person.

[bowenw]

I think you need to push him for some answers if you're still talking to him.

[Asker]

He only texts me when we're gonna meet up. And that would be next next weekend. I'll just wait for him to initiate and I might reject him. And if he did not, I'm also forgetting him anyways

[Anonymous]

He prob has another couple girls at the same thing

[Asker]

Learned it the hardway. Kind of done with dating for a while. All I get were manipulative and narcissistic guys.