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Search Results: oblivious
Does he like me?
I've only known this guy for a bit, about a few months but recently we've been talking a lot (sometimes we stay up talking until 3am). We sometimes talk about who we like or have liked in the past and he has told me he...
hotperson
Xper 2 Age: 110 Is she flirting or am I jumping to conclusions?
Perhaps I'm just oblivious as always or even being assumptius but I'm a bit stumped with a girl I'm friends with. We share some interests so we often hang out from that with and without others but I started to wonder...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why Do Girls Like Playing The Hot & Cold Game?
Real talk. Like I've seen this behavior a lot and even experienced it myself sometimes lol. What's the reasoning behind it? Do you do it on purpose or are you oblivious about it? And not trying to point fingers here...
Does my guy friend like me?
I've recently started going for drinks after work with a bunch of people and one of my guy friends will always stay behind later with me, I've stayed at his a few times after and he always spoons me and cuddles me and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guy seemed interested in me, is he still interested?
There is this shy guy at my work place that I noticed has been staring and watching my friend for months now and everytime a guy is talking to her he'd find a reason to just come near them and see what they're doing, with...
Anonymous
(25-29) I am unsure if I want to see him again?
I had a first date with someone recently who seemed genuinely nice. However, there’s a few things I’m unsure about. He talks non stop and if I try to speak, he jumps in and starts continuing the conversation rather than...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever been oblivious to signs?
Weather is either recognizing someone likes you, don’t like you, is good for you, his bad or over all a friend. I think I’ve been so terrified that somebody wants the worse that I don’t recognize the positive.
Justneedtokno
Guru Age: 31 Girls what are your interest tells/signals? Guys what do you interpret as female interest in you?
Body language signals of sexual interest are... well... interesting. More than 50 female signals according to https://www.regain.us/advice/attraction/is-she-interested-in-you-female-body-language-signs-of-attraction/ Of...
RavVid
Master Age: 33 Why do women never actually say they like you?
I’ve had a number of experiences like this. Three or four actually. I’ve learned recently that they have all hinted at liking me, and one even told me that she fell in love with me pretty hard. Of course at the time I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you have any oblivious to flirting stories?
Has there been a time when someone was throwing themselves at you and you did not get the hints?
Texaskid1
Guru Age: 49 Why do women have a tendency to assume good looking guys are gay?
I've noticed this phenomenon and I'm not exactly sure why. There are a lot of good looking straight men, why do some women assume they're gay because they're attractive (even when theyre joking)? Maybe I'm oblivious to it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Approach Anxiety: The Eternal Struggle Part II
I've written a couple takes on approach anxiety over what's surly an esteemed tenure on this site (LOL!). You can read the first one here and second one there . I write on this topic because it is my Everest; the one...
JSmuve
Master Age: 37 Romantic Fiction, Where is the Line Drawn on Consent?
So I've noticed when it comes to fiction, particularly the romance genre, certain actions are often perceived favorably whereas irl, they really mess with the line of consent. I'm trying to come up with a system to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he flirting or being friendly?
I decided to switch to a private gym and the owner and I have been training, however, when it comes to flirting I am extremely oblivious. I tend to assume guys are just starting a simple friendly talk and then later on it...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does this guy like me or not?
So there's a cute guy friend I like hanging out with but he's somewhat reserved so I can't tell if he's into me or not, when I compliment him and hint he's oblivious or just says like hey thanks.. 🙄 And I found out one...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Is he really oblivious or is he playing hard to get?
So I have this crush on a guy we were in college together we used to talk on and off, he was engaged at the time so i thought that's why when I've tried flirting he didn't react ( i didn't know he was in a serious...
NoonaH8
Xper 2 Age: 30 How to Flirt and Spot Flirtation?
I’m 26(m), single and have had very few relationships. One thing I’ve never understood is flirting, but recently a friend from years past told me that she had fallen for me and I never knew! Apparently I never realized...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is your "go-to" flirt move?
If I'm really interested in a guy my "go to" move is touching him playfully because guys can be oblivious and need a bit more obvious signs
SayGracePls
Xper 2 Age: 23 Oblivious flirting? Or not - may be. Awkward moment for sure.
There was a post in this group asking if the members were oblivious to flirting at any point of their lives. Here's my take on that. There may have been many oblivious occasions in my life which I still don't know they...
Anonymous
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