Guys, Is he really oblivious or is he playing hard to get?

[NoonaH8]

So I have this crush on a guy we were in college together we used to talk on and off, he was engaged at the time so i thought that's why when I've tried flirting he didn't react ( i didn't know he was in a serious relationship. Then he broke up with his fiancée so i started to text him back to see how he's doing and we talked fine but does he really not notice i like him?

[spartan55]

No, he doesn't. How would he know you like him? Read your mind? Guys don't play hard to get, so cross that one off the list.

[NoonaH8]

I've dropped some pretty obvious hints actually

[spartan55]

Such as?

[NoonaH8]

I mentioned that i want us to spend more time together and asked him his opinion in some personal stuff like what should i do in bla bla

[spartan55]

Okay... those aren't obvious hints. Guys don't think the way girls do.

[NoonaH8]

What should I do then to make him notice I just want to know if he's interested or should i drop it altogether

[spartan55]

Ask him out for ☕ coffee.

[MrCommodore]

It depends on what signs of interest you have shown him so far, he may not be sure.

[RuthlessAggression]

He may still be trying to get over the breakup

You just don't know. Also, if he's confused, it's likely because you are

[RuthlessAggression]

I know that with me, this girl that I'm "friends" with, says one thing, and then seems to do another, so, I'm not sure

[Anonymous]

What would you do if he’s oblivious? Are u going to ask him out yourself if he never does? I doubt you would.

[PatriceONeal]

Yes he notices. He's not interested. You gave him a greenlight by approaching him and he ignored it.

[altdbob]

Well either tell him how you feel (be prepared for rejection if the breakup hit him hard) or move on.

[Guy13]

Scaredy-cat which is a good sign…

[Guy13]

Once engaged, he needs two full years without scoot-scoot so that he’s worth a damn post grad school.

[NoonaH8]

In my culture actually getting engaged is not that serious it's like being in a serious relationship without the proposal for you

[Guy13]

What’s your culture?…Your interpretation is incorrect and that may be part of the reason. I mean…I would think at your age that you would better understand how man works🙃

[serious]

No, I don't think he is playing hard to get.

[FilmGuy93]

He's really oblivious.