It's because a women's self esteem will hit a low. Imagine a scenario where a girl ask a really hot guy out. Ex: Guy is 10/10. Lets say girl is also 10/10 or even 5/10. Girls who think this way have experience with this if they call fine guys gay. If the guys rejects her. To compensate for her being hurt and being sensitive to rejection, she will instead of using logic and think, "omg its me, im ugly, or he must have a girlfriend already", she will think. "Their must be a good reason why he rejected me. Its cause he's gay." (To her this is acceptable because even though she made the mistake of asking a homo out, she sees it as a win-win because her ego remains intact and unharmed so she won't have to think or question anything anymore and both can move on if true (obviously 7/10, this is unrealistic case and is false.). And this can mean she may even attempt to have him as a gay befriend or even try to befriend him inorder to slowly covertly make it look as though she was never rejected. Its all really in her head. (the ones who are to full of themselves that say this.) What she will instead do is use her own logic. And by that I mean, instead of rational thinking. She will use feeling. And rationalize something that isn't rational. As long as it makes her feel better. She will force her self to see this way so she won't feel hurt. Because to her this would be her way as if she never got rejected in the first place. And she is still above or equal to this guy in terms of social perception. It varies in the woman where they perceive themselves.
Another less probable likely instance is, she is stereotype thinking which means she's thinking how gay men take care/ groom, moisturize, clean, face mask, a little make up and eat healthy and go to the gym because they want to be feminine as if that is how women are. But still masculine enough to attract a male homosexual partner who is attracted to the similar stereotype. It is true that some gays are like this, but is would be subpar of me to even state that all or to even the majority of homosexual attractive men are like this.
But like I said before, it is mainly to compensate for their hurt feelings and grief from the past by projecting these "maybe he's gay" statements of stereotype on attractive males for lack of high self esteem. Think of it as a way to replenish what was lost because the guy that turned her down sucked it out of her. This is her way of replenishing at the cost of projection. Which depending on if the guy hears this. Can hurt his feeling if he's insecure (that's right people, good looking people are insecure as well.). Or if he doesn't care. This can actually make the girl mad if he ignores her and project more about this. Etc. Etc. I think you get the point now. Comment back if you would like a following response. I made an account just to reply to you. Consider it a blessing. Even though im nobody lol. I just like reading and etc. Observing peoples behavior. And questioning "why"?
Also, the reason people get hurt when rejected is more genetic and psychological than influence by other/socials. Its personal. Its because to put it simply: they are denying your darwinian purpose "to reproduce" (which is your biological reason for living) and thus meaning your brain gets mad because in a way its like saying "your offspring (kids) are not allowed in the next generation" and to top it off you feel as though they said "not your kids, but you yourself are unworthy and unfit to be here and with me". Sorry if this is too long I'm done now. Hope this answers your question.
Because attractiveness is portrayed as androgyny. How many times do you hear about the Hollywood "pretty-boys"... or even "strong-women"..
Literally most models whether on men's or women's magazines are by definition androgynous looking.
And naturally women are attracted to masculine males, not the
soyboys that the TV tells us is "supposed" to be attractive.
A) because they actually care about their beauty and health, unlike many alphas out there. B) because they're celebrities that women adore who either played gay roles, were seen cozying up in a party with same sex or have great chemistry with same sex, so women wonder. C) men shame other men for not being the image of masculinity. Many submissive guys would tell you one of his mates one time commented that he should be gay. D) there's no way women would be fortunate enough to grab of that ass, may as well make gay scenerios in head.
s Whenever I see a good looking man I don't assume that he's gay, I assume that he's taken. Attractive guys are never single.
I don't know why a woman would think that all good looking guys are gay. It makes no sense to me.
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Because they see that most straight men don't take care of themselves.
I have definitely get presumed (either implicitly or asked outright) if I'm gay, by all types of people I encounter (including my students; im a middle/high school math teacher).
I consistently wear colorful bright clothes (any color but rainbow) and brightly colored & large-sized jewelry. I'm the type of dude to wear pink pants, purple shirt, tie-dye designed necktie and pearl earrings. Color is fun to play with outfit-wise and I have a decent jewelry collection, so I dress to stand out. :-P
I don't think im a top-tier looking dude handsome-wise, but I do like to look presentable (styled facial hair, styled hair, skin-care routine, always wear cologne).
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I suppose most straight dudes are stereotyped to be sloppy and apathetic about how they look, but I thought that was an outdated stereotype.
Because the masculine man is not "good looking",
A masculine man is "good spirited".
A good looking man, is good looking by virtue of feminine features. "Good looking" is the domain of the feminine energy.
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Because we are perfect... women are in general OCD and detailed oriented... and we meet those specifics, therefore, we are feminine by nature-or gay.
Women do not mean to be "racist, discriminate, and highly judgmental"...
We all have beauty and ugliness in our Making...
Good looking guys with good grooming habits and elaborate skin maintenance regimes are a lot of times assumed to be gay. Basically if they have the same type of high maintenance grooming habits as women then people think they are gay. Facial peels and exfoliation type of stuff.
Highly coiffed men make me a bit suspicious about their sexuality. Not just because they are handsome.
I look at his walk, listen to how he talks, and watch the way he dresses and moves his hands. I dont base it off looks alone
This is a fantastic question. If you stop abusing the anonymous feature on GaG and repost this using your real name I would be happy to answer it
I mean, in my experience, they are.
Most straight men don't really care as much about presentation as gay men.
Oh I do not assume if they’re gay because they look too good or too kept! That’s just stupid.
Well men usually say that Korean guys who are super good looking and take care of their looks are gay i never ever did so
I don't think that. I just assume they are taken because 99% of the time they are and if not, there is almost always something severely wrong with them.
I don't think all good looking men are gay but some good looking men do give off a gay energy.
Probably the same reason we tend to assume that hot girls are taken? Maybe anyway.
They can't handle rejection or they make these assumptions in order to not feel bad about not getting a boyfriend.
It Took me a while to figure it out 😂
When I was younger i used to act like little uzi and be all feminine, I thought femininity attracted girls. I wonder why I didn't have a girlfriend when I was younger, its because girls thought I was gay and plus girls are attracted to masculine men.
Well they are... any guy who spends a lot of time in the mirror is suspect
because men, don't care as much about how we look, as women do
It's either to think he's gay, or that he's straight and wants her.
Because we don't tend to give enough fuks to lust an be there little bitches, we're enough for ourselves. 🥱
