Is she flirting or am I jumping to conclusions?

[Anonymous]

Perhaps I'm just oblivious as always or even being assumptius but I'm a bit stumped with a girl I'm friends with.

We share some interests so we often hang out from that with and without others but I started to wonder if she was into me at the slightest when she began complementing me on things like one day calling me handsome and good looking.
We've hung out quite a bit just 1 on 1 because of our shared interests and she seems to like my company to some extent, there was a time she invited to see a band she really likes with the excuse that her friend couldn't go so she was stuck with 2 tickets and nobody to go with and it kinda felt like date, I mean nothing inhertly date Like happened but somehow it gave of date vibes if that makes sense? lol anyways she often insists on getting me drinks even though I turn them down in return also maybe it's a weird thing to say but I've noticed she's often reapplying her cosmetic lip gloss thingy (I don't know what's it's called lmao the brush thing) when with me even if we're dancing (or especially if. also techno) probs chapped lips.
I thought I had my answer when she kissed some guy at a rave we went to -said the guy was super weird and stuff after when we were going home- but now I just dont know as its same as before sticking with me rather than her other friends at parties and stuff yadadadah..

Let me also mention again that I'm as dense as a lead brick with these things. Normally I would have just thought she's being friendly but I'm a tad bit confused now 😩

All this text. A badly written essay is what it is 😅

[PrettyPriya]

Yes, she would seem to have a thing for you. Just by your details, it would indicate that she is interested. What details you provide says that she is flirty and trying to (and succeeding) to do things with you. Drinks, band, etc.

I will agree that you are being dense with all of this. It is quite obvious to me and I’ve never met either one of you. You’re already doing date like things. Plus, girls don’t just hand out compliments like she does.

We also don’t offer to pay for drinks and such because we are feeling generous. She likes you and you’re missing your opportunity. You’ve spent one on one time with her. Those are what I call dates. Not sure what you’ve done on those occasions but suffice to say she wanted to be alone with you.

Those are ways she gets to know you more personally. That’s exactly what I would be doing. Using alone time to really learn about him and whether I thought he was a good match for me.

[Guy13]

She’s dating you inside her head…She has a huge thing for you, “handsome” 😂😂

[Asker]

Lmao

[Guy13]

It’s true though…she’s probably already imagined feeling some things….🙃

[Avicenna]

No, she’s not flirting

[In_Trance]

jumping to conclusions

[Anonymous]

She is probably flirting, so make a move.