Is he flirting or being friendly?

[Anonymous]

I decided to switch to a private gym and the owner and I have been training, however, when it comes to flirting I am extremely oblivious. I tend to assume guys are just starting a simple friendly talk and then later on it kinda hits me and I realize it is too late. The owner of the gym is constantly asking me what my plans are for the weekend, the music I like, and a lot of get-to-know-you questions. He has shared a lot of personal stories with me as well about his drug addiction, talks about his son, compliments my extremely baggy clothes, talks about his bodybuilding upcoming competition and I have caught him staring at me while I am talking to other people at the gym. We sometimes communicate through text when I have to talk to him about going to the gym and we have brief conversations about his son or other things. Sometimes when other guys are at the gym and I walk in, they look at him with a smirk and raised eyebrows. But I am just not sure since he is a very friendly talkative person and he has mentioned to a person at the gym people sometimes vent to him and he tends to do the same with others at the gym.

[lilgodjoejoe]

I'm not gonna lie. In my opinion men in places of business like gyms tend to act very friendly to the point where you don't know if they're just being friendly or if they're flirting. I can say from past experience, men find comfort in whoever match they're energy and in whatever gender the are attracted to. Also they will throw hints like asking about your week, being very personal, and overall just kinda bein all up in your business. So while you don't fully know wether he's just being overly friendly or flirting, I would ask him some "get to know" questions and after a day or two I would ask him if he's attracted to you.

[hotwife98]

He has definitely expressed his interest in you. And he most certainly has expressed it to the other guys that go to the gym.

It sounds to me like he is enjoying flirting but you possibly aren't reciprocating it? If you aren't then you must let him know that you aren't interested and of he has any sense of self respect he will stop.

[Marshymallow]

If he does that with everyone then he may really be talkative but sounds like there’s also some flirtations going on between you guys.

[Guy13]

How’s it hoo’in liftin the Owner, these days❓

[Guy13]

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[In_Trance]

Wants to smash