Take touching for example, a girl putting her hand on your arm doesn’t necessarily mean she’s flirting, it could be.
compare that to a girl touching your waist, stomach, chest, etc. is that flirting since those areas are way more private?
Take touching for example, a girl putting her hand on your arm doesn’t necessarily mean she’s flirting, it could be.
compare that to a girl touching your waist, stomach, chest, etc. is that flirting since those areas are way more private?
That’s one of the differences between guys and girls , A girl can just be friendly and most guys will take it as she is flirting same goes for a guy being friendly and the girl takes it as he is flirting , why it’s best to have an opposite sex friend that can tell you whether someone likes you or not , the only other way I can tell if a girl is flirting with me is if she is showing body language or making eye contact while smiling , if she is nervous or shy she will look away but secretly keep looking back your way , that’s probably the best time to approach her if you are interested in her, it’s better to take the chance and then not know at all , cuz it can be tricky lol it’s easier have a girl friend that can tell if a girl is into me or not , a girl is pretty spot on and knows if another girl is checking me out , even though I am sitting their dumbfounded my friend will be like watch how she giggles and becomes more talkative when she comes near you , usually I am like get the fuck out of here but then she proves me wrong , so trust your opposite sex friends for the most part
For the sake of argument, let's say a woman wants you in 99% of cases if she touches you. It doesn't really matter because you shouldn't be letting women pick you and you ignore what you want. What signals she sends shouldn't actually matter. I mean, obviously in today's world you can't even think about giving a closed mouth kiss without a handwritten contractual invitation but that's another story. Bottom line is, think WAY less about females and more about life goals that will take you to the top. Then you get whatever you want much easier. And not simply because others want what you have but because you will have earned the confidence needed to go for what you want & reject what you don't.
You’re single aren’t you?
@Subarugirl Nope... and any man taking advice from you is a fool.
@Subarugirl Hey, if you need to keep lashing out to make yourself feel good about your sad life, it's fine by me. I mean it's not helping you improve your life but I do enjoy the entertainment.
I'm not lashing out, just making an observation, the way you talk down about women is horrible, and the fact you feel so comfortable doing that so publicly makes me concerned about how you treat the women in your life behind closed doors.
If I touch a guys chest I'm 100% flirting
Arm/shoulder not so much, I might just feel the need for stability in that moment.
Hair touching, definitely flirting.
Thigh touch is beyond flirting, be ready for marriage lmao
Face, depends on if we're close.
What about the abdomen/stomach?
Flirting in my opinion
So what is a "bonk me now" type of touch?
I almost never get propositioned, but at least I'd prefer to not be clueless if it did happen. That way, if I have to let her down easy, I at least don't make us both look foolish.
If she touches her stomach she’s either pregnant or she’s uncomfortable
To top it all off there's also the question with what their intentions are if they are flirting.
Like is it because they like you? Because it's fun? They're a natural flirt? For affirmation and a confidence boost?
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You need to ask her... hey are you flirting with me? In a funny sexy tone then let them respond... if they are they will say maybe... if they aren't they will say NO lol
My guy friends allways misundersyand kindness and flirting i really hate that bc now i dont have any guy friend bc of that.
I m a very open person and I like to know about everyone and some times I m touchy but immediately when I know someone is devloping feeling i stop. But when i flirt i usually am kinda shy not to much and I watch him the hole time also I m kinda a stalker if he s with me in school or in a building i will try to be in the same place. I m also a gift giving person it s small at the beginning like candy’s or offering to pay something it sunds kind of childish but yeah
Maybe the question asked by me helps.
lead the direction you want to take it and accept the rewards and consequences if you are wrong, so be wise and classy. you can't, they are emotionally complex, hormonally variable creatures that change their mind all the time. good luck decyphering their communications.
Extroverted women flirt, it's there way of being friendly.
Introverted women don't know how to flirt. They'd say something silly then spend 40 years wondering why they said that lol
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
You’re single aren’t you?
@Subarugirl why do you ask?
Just the things you say.
@Subarugirl ah.. sounds like you're still holding onto a grudge from the other day. I did say I wish you the best in life.
I’m not sure what you’re talking about, I’m referring to what you said here.
@Subarugirl okay. Well my relationship status is rather a private issue. Sorry.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
It’s okay I wasn’t really asking just making an observation.
@Subarugirl it's not good for your. Psychological health to hold onto grudges. Live and let live.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
Your concern is touching hon, but I have no idea what grudge you are talking about.
@Subarugirl I think we're pretty much done here.
God bless.
Well if you don't know what grudge you are talking about either, apparently we are haha
The best way to know if someone would be interested in you. Is just asking her out.
It’s hard to tell. Some people might like you but not in that way…. Others might be flirting. You never know unless you ask.
You can't. Half of women complain men don't pick up on their hints they like a man, and the other half complain they can't be friendly to guys because they'll think she's flirting. See the problem here? Everyone would be happier if women just stopped expecting men to read their minds.
It's mostly an art rather than a science. Body language, facial expressions, especially the eyes. Doesn't always involve touch.
In my experience, if she talks to you despite not having a real reason to, it's generally flirting.
Yes that's flirting. It should show in her eyes extra energy than when she talks to others
Make a move on her and try to kiss her. If she's flirting, she'll let you. If she's just being friendly, she'll pull away.
If she smiles and touches my arm, she is probably being friendly. If she straddles me and starts kissing my neck, she's flirting. In between I'm lost.
This all depends on the individual, like for me, if a girl does anything to me that could be seen as flirting by anyone else, it's just her being friendly, I'm sure for others it varies but must mostly be flirting.
It all comes down to social skills.. if you have social skills you know, if you don’t, you don’t know/
There is no definitive way unless you ask her directly. Always assume she’s just being friendly. Let her make the first move.
All flirting of done together in ant combination.
Watch everything she’s doing. If she’s acting flirty, she probably is.
I would just ask the girl if she is being flirty with you or being friendly. Doesn't hurt to ask then be confused by her signs.
You can't. And she ain't going to tell you. But it's been my experience that if she sits down on your lap and starts grinding on you. That's usually a good sign.
The eyes... They all have the same I want you look where their eyes get really big lol
That's something most of us have wondered about many times. Perhaps by noticing if she repeats the behavior more than once
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