Any tips from girls?
Guys are welcome too!😄
Any tips from girls?
Guys are welcome too!😄
I think looking for signs of if a woman likes you is not a good idea. If you like a woman don't waste your life trying to figure out if a woman like you, some women love attention or want another man and will pretend to like you just to show other guys around her that she is single so other guys can approach her. Shy women can pretend they don't like you and pretend to hate you to not make it obvious. Thus, from these examples, it is hard to know if someone is interested.
I think the best way to find out if a woman likes you is to give them an opportunity to indirectly say whether they like you or not. Ask a woman when chatting 'so, what are your goals in the present, are you looking for a boyfriend? she what she will say, if a woman says no she is not interested in you or already likes someone or if she is a shy woman then she lost her chances. if a woman says yes that does not mean she likes you so ask women in this scenario, 'what type of man are you looking for?' if she describes someone different to you then she is not interested in you, if a woman describes someone like you ask 'someone like me?' and if she says yes she probably likes you or is trying to be nice. You know it is so hard to know if a woman likes your, maybe, after this last question flirt and see how she responds, it should be obvious if she likes you from then on. if it's not obvious then the woman is just wasting an opportunity. If you want women then take your chances, life is too short, ask a woman if she wants to go out on a date, you won't die if she says no.
Not going to lie, it really can be difficult, and there is a reason nobody else has talked directly about which is that girls can also flirt but not really mean it. This can be for many reasons, for example, when I was a waitress I flirted mainly so I would get better tips and repeat customers. As a student I sometimes flirted with a teacher or professor if I thought it would help me somehow. I did this in all of these cases knowing, or assuming, that we both (me and the guy) were aware nothing would really happen. But it is flattering for men for a girl to flirt with them and that was what I was doing, flattering them so they would be nice to me in some other way. I did not think the guys in these situations were actually thinking we might go out. But looking back, who knows what they thought, maybe I was wrong and they were really hoping to get with me. In which case it probably wasn't fair for me to do that.
Anyway, a "friendly" girl will carry herself and talk one way and a "flirty" girl will carry herself and talk a different way, I don't know how to describe it but if you watch for 2-3 minutes obvious when you see it, the problem is that it may not be obvious in any one moment so you kind of have to pay attention to the flow of things and I don't know how to define it in writing. Good luck, guys!!
I really know it is just that complex! Thanks!
I have a simple advice... (that worked for me anyway, lol)
part one, always assume it is friendly, never assume that is flirty...
part two, always try to much the mood, the tone, the "intensity" of what she says and how she says it... don't be one to escalate or try for more too quick if you're not experienced with these things
if you can't really tell between the two yet, then just don't risk it... play it safer
if she was just being friendly, then you were friendly back and that's a good thing for both
and if she was flirty to a certain point, and you responded accordingly, then she might flirt a bit some more and it will become more clear and evident from you... so you just can take it from there
Catch the hints to see if she thinks about you. Does she remember what you say to her? Does she randomly say "I was thinking of you" or "something reminded me of you"? Does she prioritize you, especially compared to others? I've found that girls who like me get nervous or shy, talk in a softer voice. They smile the entire time and will get lost in thoughts while you're talking.
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@ChiTown33 if I don’t want you, I won’t ask you out ever. It’s too much work playing games making a guy think I’m interested when I’m not 🤣. That shit is exhausting
@ChiTown33 🤣 make it simple. If she doesn’t ask you out, she’s not interested
My thoughts exactly. 😀
Unfortunately most guys, most young guys aren't going to do that. And most young women still have the b. s. rule that if a guy isn't asking he's not interested. Listen to most the young women on here will tell you that.
I'm trying to give them advice for thier world, not mine.
@Pinay_ako I get the "friendly" list a lot
I can't remember ever seeing the "flirty" list in a long time...
The second one could also be autism.. just sayin’. lol
You can't relaiably know which it is. So, if I'm interested and unattached, I start the pursuit and then we see what happens. If she's not interested, I generally know rather quickly.
There are individual differences here, sweetheart. You need to ask question keeping in mind a particular type of woman, only then you can get a concrete answer. For even flirting is subjective experience, and there's no dictionary to define "what's platonic touching and what's something more"... My crush from last year, two of them, one boy one girl, confronted me about my feelings for them. For the boy, he joked on how he feels I'm attracted to him. I said yes. The girl said I treat her differently, even better. Something up with that?
I don't know how to reach it out, I myself can't tell if a guy is friendly or doing move on me unless he gave those naked hit eyes.
From sidelines I can see when a girl is flirting with a guy with the subconscious fixing of her hair and trying to not look indecent with her pose.
The way she glances at even her friends screams 'this guy is mine' and she doesn't drag other girls into the conversation and gives them the apologetic smile that the guy can't understand
You really can't I mean there are MANY subtle signs. But a lot of women will fake those signs to make you think she's interested to get you to ask. But the response will ultimately be no. My advice is don't over think it. Ask her out and don't put a lot of stock into it. You just asked her out, you didn't ask her to marry you. And if she turns out to be a dud move on. Likewise if she turns you down move on. Women are like blades of grass, numerous. And you never know which one is going to be worthwhile till you get to know them a bit.
you just have to be able to read the vibe… friendly and flirty can be similar and they can even get mixed and used as one, either with the intent to flirt or with the intent to be friendly…
Maybe their eyes and overall energy seems higher than other girls or than it was before
Be hot or rich, your best bet, otherwise she's just being friendly
Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference. Especially because we don't get flirted with much.
You communicate with them. It is not difficult.
@Pinay_ako answered it very well
@Pinay_ako The list that you gave is practical to use too.
When you told me to ask a question regarding this, I thought you would give a paragraph answer. But it turned out much better than that.
Flirt with her and see what she does.
Ask?
Them, not GaG
try to fuck her. if she says no, you know.
That is like, just wanting her body, not her.
Is her body not her?
Nope. That is only 50% of it. Her personality is what completes her.
i think that you will find that her personality is quite inseparable of her body and wanting her without her body is stupid.
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