How do I stop being jealous of the girls my crush talks to?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy that I really like in university. We have almost every classes together to we see each other alot. But evenn if we do, I just can't help feeling jealous of this girl he talks to in this one class. They seem much closer, even though me and the guy have more classes together. He's really nice though. In that class where he always talks to his friend girl, last time I sat beside him. And even though I wouldn't ask him for help, he would willingly want to help me. Though he seems to be talking with many girls in that particular class, I'm pretty sure he's not the player type. It's just plain obvious he's not that type. We seem very similar, though at the same time, it seems like he relates with that one girl more as they interract more. Usually me and my crush would go to the subway together after class. But last time, or even any time he's always talking to that girl and not talking to me as often, I don't wait for him. I forgot, or perhaps I'm remembering it, but I think he was staring at me when I left, perhaps because we always go to the subway together. I just can't feeling hurt and angry every time he talks to that girl and not to me. I also hate feeling what I'm feeling. I don't even know if he likes me though. II feel like he may a bit, but maybe not. I'm really unsure what he thinks of me because he's extremely nice and friendly to me, but I realized he's like that with the other girls too. What should I do? I've thought of moving on, but that's kinda impossible at the moment since I like him.

[HeaviestHeart]

I'm in nearly the same shoes as you, my crush has been getting closer and closer to girls in this group and talked about this one girl that I have no idea who she is although he calls me his best friend and so do I. I find myself creeping around, trying to know who he's talking to everyday and about what. Trying to devise a plan to make him stop talking and being sweet to the other girls, but it's hopeless.

How to stop being jealous?
You can't it's pretty much human nature, but I'd say tell him how you feel, just go for it!

[Anonymous]

Uhhhmmmm no offense but what you need to do is be realistic about the fact that you have no place or right to be jealous over him so you need to snap out of it.

You are not his girlfriend. You are not even someone he is exclusive with so you can't just sit here and act like he owes you something. You're not entitled to his affection or attention.

[aylaaaaaaaa]

she didn’t say he owes her something she’s just asking how to stop being jealous

[martyfellow]

You can't help your feelings, and yoou sure can't do anything about his. When he talks with the other girl, leave immediately if the class is over, don't hang around waiting for them to finish.

He'll get the idea you don't like him doing that, and if he has special feeling for you, he will stop.

You don';t need to say anything, and it would just make him think you're silly. Since you do't even really know him, it would seem strange to act really jealous. Walking aways sends enough of a message.

[Zanzibar]

Your best bet is just to talk to him about your feelings. It sounds daunting, but it is much better than feeling jealous and upset all the time, right?

[tonamimargaux]

This has been happening to me a lot these days, trust me I'm not even SOMEONE who is in their 20's or early 30's yet here I'm jealous as f*** over a guy who is 12 years younger than me. Just walk away and try your best to focus on something else when he talks to other girls in front of you. Leave the conversation, if he stops doing that in front of you from next time, then know that he respects you if not then you got your answer.

[Anonymous]

Just outright ask him but I warn you. If you and him are not even dating then how jealous will you be when you DO date and he DOES talk to other females? Work on your jealousy girl. It seems obsessive.