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So I recently saw his ex posted a photo of them acting all cozy at a wedding together (the wedding has the exact date from last Sunday) and this raised my suspicion that there might be cheating going on… I asked him about it and he seemed honest but I’m not sure who to trust.

Would you consider these characteristics/things to be a sign of potential infidelity?

• Wasn’t defensive when confronted, willing to talk about it with me the entire night
• Gave me his social media passwords
• Gave me his phone to look through
• His mom told me that he was home Sunday morning and he spent the rest of the day (of the supposed wedding) with me
• Came over the next day because I asked to talk about this again, he listened and answered all questions
• Got pissed at his ex and completely sided with me, because she has a habit of posting old photos of them

Some red flags 🚩:

• The photo of the wedding has the date of last Sunday (but then why would he be willing to take photos with her knowing that she’ll post them online, and he knows I can see her posts)
• The wedding ceremony was held early morning to noon. His mom left his house at 11 and he only came to see me at 1:30 PM
• Her ex’s friends also reposted the photo on their accounts (but his ex used to post old photos of them acting as if they were still together)
• Last year he was caught still talking to his ex, but he has sinced changed and cut her off (from what he’s shown me the past year)

Keyword=harder

I say women here's why..


1. Under every post or woman poster here, they are always angry, saying men are the problem x, y, and z. At what point will most women assume accountability? Lack of accountability is a narcissistic trait.

2. Another typical post is the stalking and harrassing men who aren't interested in you at work and on social media, yet if a man does it, he's "psycho." Lack of boundaries is a narcissistic trait.

3 . The post " I had sex with him after first meeting him and sent a stranger my nudes on dating app" hoping he will like you is manipulative, which is another trait of narcissistic.

4. If a man doesn't like you and you start bad mouthing him not telling how you contributed to an issue screams smear campaign which is another narcissistic trait.

5. When someone doesn't angry with you , you go into rage. That's a control issue which is a narc trait.

6. Bullying, stalking, harrassing and down talking women that looks better than you is envy. Ex. " did he settle for her?" No he didn't he chose the woman he wanted. Envy is another narc trait.