Why do guys play the crazy card when the relationship ends with their woman?

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They were talking about this in a video the other day and it's really true!
A lot of guys tell people "Ah, she was crazy" when she wasn't crazy at all.
Who knows - are you going to be the next woman who's the crazy ex when you're not crazy?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because pretty much the same reason females’ play the crazy card when her man ends the relationship. Bottomline people have become very selfish in this world , I blame a lot of it on social media and cell phones that we carry around every day a device that is a gateway to temptations. Back then we didn’t carry around these fucking thongs and people actually trusted and respected each other more , nowadays most people don’t even know what respect means. Let alone trust and honesty. When cell phones with internet technology came out , that was the start of relationships crumbling , because we became glued to these fucking phones like we would be dead if we didn’t have our phone by our side , I am not going to be a hypocrite because it sucked me in as well, for me it started with MySpace but not as bad until Facebook grabbed my attention , Girls’ that I thought i would never see or hear from again started popping up on my inbox I was married already but sadly I became tempted when I saw how beautiful these girls’ looked that I was friends with in high school , that were flirting with me and making me feel tempted. My wife was addicted to Facebook as well and that’s when our marriage started getting bumpy , on top of temptation we were also bombarded with other peoples’ lives by things they had or trips they were going on , which never really fazed me but apparently it fazed my wife and she started comparing our lives to other people , and that’s when shit really hit the fan , my wife started to get really secretive on her phone which raised my concerns , so I sat down with her and told her if we want our marriage to survive we need to stop playing on these fucking things , she agreed and things got better with us again for a while , until it sucked her back in , my marriage with my wife was amazing before social media became a thing , her and I were inseparable , now we want to rip each others heads off and we separated a few times , there is sadly so much resentments towards each other that our marriage is a 50/50 chance on whether we are going to stay married or not , The trust we once had for each other is pretty much gone , we still love each other but we both really don’t trust each other anymore , her and I decided just to be friends’ and stay legally married , Now that our kids’ are older her and I been pretty much doing our own thing , why I been open to meeting someone else. Hoping my wife and I can still remain friends whether she meets someone or I do

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Because men have the hardest time telling the truth. Maybe 1 out of 100 will say you I messed up I blew it it's my fault I was wrong.

They would rather blame the girl

And that us sad because one of the greatest feeling in the world and one of the most powerful growing moments is when you can look someone in the eyes and say I'm sorry I was wrong

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm gonna go on an insane run here and predict that the consensus from men will be that "it was because she was crazy". And they say women don't like accountability.
A relationship failing is both people's fault. But depending on the circumstances of it failing, it might be the best thing to have happened. But men love to say it was because she was a crazy bitch. Maybe she was. Or maybe they didn't give enough fucks to make it work.

Valdemort · Accepted Answer

Cause 90% of them know they played a part and don't want accountability :')

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I have never -ever- leveled the “crazy card” upon an ex for things ending. Then again, that is dating is for to filter out the unbalanced women from my relationship world. I do not get involved with “crazy”. My exes have almost entirely been very peaceful and sane. In fact, only one slipped by and I learned how to spot trouble as a result … learned from that mistake. Has never repeated ever since. I mean, I have dated women who self label as being crazy, but even they have been largely placid souls. I just think certain couples should not be together as they bring out the worst in one another. That is the last thing I want in a relationship … to bring out each other’s worst. I prefer we bring out our best in one another. So no, my exes are not, “crazy”. If things end they end. Life goes on…

Anonymous · Answer

definition of crazy is someone that sees things different than you. It's the easy way out.

But to be fair, have known a few, and they were nuts... various illnesses. Women being hormonally different, emotionally maybe more right brained... can seem "crazy" even if not diagnosed and certified.

beenherebefore · Answer

I remember my ex calling some of his ex girlfriend's crazy. Then one day that ex girlfriend DMs me with screenshots of them both exchanging inappropriate messages LOL. I guess he's also telling other people how crazy I am.

sawno · Answer

I dont know because i'm not that kinda guy. My most recent ex was amazing for example, very much worth all the love i've given her. Maybe its because we broke up on good terms so nothing happened that would make me think bad of her. Had something make me leave rather than impossible circumstances i'd just cite the reason I left.

Geo1970 · Answer

This is a kind of charade that 99% out of 100%, the emotional impact has kick is indeed a lonesome place

So to hide it from those who friends, family, work colleagues, even though some of those mentioned, or even all, see the happy go Larry man full of humour and laughter.

Anonymous · Answer

not a relationship but i had this job last year and owner an older women like literally was crazy.

not exactly sure what her problem was but she was like totally nuts and would go after me all the time when i was working there

don't work there anymore and not sure what became of her but she was fucking crazy

exitseven · Answer

Actually she really was crazy, She was an alcoholic too.

Gwendoline · Answer

Same reason women claim a guy was a narcissist when he dumps her

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

how do you know she wasn't? are you one of these women yourself?  cause these women usually live in denial

Miristheiss · Answer

Maybe the inverse of all women saying their wxes were toxic, insecure, controlling, abusive?

summerallthetime · Answer

Quite a few of the woman I dated weren't crazy but defintely acted in an irrational manner. I dont believe in lying so when they friends and family ask me why it didn't work out I tell them the truth

Malwi93 · Answer

their favorite way to discredit a person. why can't y'all break up in a civilized way

WonderingManII · Answer

Actually I know a lot of crazy women. I never got into a relationship with them either.

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never done that

Jeff51 · Answer

Maybe the guy was crazy.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess those guys are irresponsible.

AndrésC64 · Answer

How do you know she wasn't crazy?

Dongie · Answer

Guys do this?

Anonymous · Answer

Because a lot of them probably were crazy.

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