Guys, why do guys take a woman out and then decide that he is done with them?

[Anonymous]

[JamesDiaz11]

Listen to what you're asking:

Why would a guy take a girl out, to get to know them, then (once he's got to know them) decided to not see them anymore?

I've been on dozens, possibly over 150 dates, which ended after the first date. There was no chemistry, the conversation was meh, or it was just a one time thing.

Chances are, if a guy stops pursuing you after taking you out, he discovered that he doesn't like you.

[Asker]

Guys be only wanting sex.

[JamesDiaz11]

No, guys want respect, friendship, fun, and someone who will love and commit to us, but when dealing with women in the dating world (at least from 15-25) we're primarily MOTIVATED by sex.

[Asker]

Yeah that stuff happened to me before I was 25.

[JamesDiaz11]

How does that invalidate what I said?

[Asker]

Because I am telling you a lot of that immature stuff happened when I was in my early 20s.

[FilmGuy93]

Something about the personalities didn't mesh. Maybe it's something she said/did. More likely, the problem is that the woman, even if we got along well, literally didn't give me anything to connect with her on. It's not that I don't like her or think she's attractive; I don't know anything about her.

[OlderThanILook]

Because she turned out to be a cunt or just simply very uninteresting.

[Iron_Man]

He’s either a player that wants to score and did or he’s not getting any of that so he’s moving on. Be glad that you didn’t get caught up in his trick

[Emanon25]

He might realize that she’s not the right one for him.

[Asker]

That's dumb I think they already knew they didn't want anything serious.

[Emanon25]

I agree, I don’t think these people are who you need to be in your life.

[Asker]

It happens more times than you want it to in life.

[Emanon25]

Be patient when it comes to dates.
You can follow me

[CuriousMufuxka]

She probably did terrible on the date. Perhaps put out and achievement unlocked or didn't and jerking off ensues.

[Asker]

Or probably because guys are douches.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yes some. Are you actually questioning or just letting off some steam?

[Asker]

Just talking about how rude some people are they already knew from the beginning that they didn't like you

[CuriousMufuxka]

That's just life. I still get that aroma sometimes. People have become less shitty, mainly due to smart devices but less attentive. Others are just straight up assholes that give zero fucks. This is merely my estimation.

[maximumpower]

He's obviously seen something he does not like.
It happens. Should happen more.

[Asker]

Clearly they aren't too flattered if a woman drops them.

[AndrésC64]

Same reason girls go out on a first date and then decide not to go on a second.

[Anonymous]

Same reason do with guys. This really isn't hard to answer. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Same reason women do with guys*

[Asker]

It is disrespectful when people do do it.

[Opinion Owner]

Kind of. But unfortunately not everyone treats others with the same respect. And some people unfortunately are downright exploiting.

[Luckycharms12]

Clearly feels didn't work between you too

[Asker]

They felt that before taking you out.

[Luckycharms12]

Ya probably shouldn't went on date

[Asker]

It happens all the time getting ghosted.

[Luckycharms12]

Do you ever ask them why

[Luckycharms12]

So you can learn if you did anything you can fix. Or they could just want sex

[Asker]

I think most people know from the beginning that they don't like you before the date. I'm just saying that it is rude because if I did that to a guy who would not like that. But when a guy does it it is normal behavior. I'm not complaining about them ghosting. I'm complaining about how guys get away with being douches.

[Luckycharms12]

Guys do it a lot of girls do it to common nowadays

[Asker]

I guess people don't have nothing better else to do but be toxic because I know what they be doing it doesn't take that long to know if you like someone or not. You can save time for not going out with someone you know from the beginning that you didn't like them.

[Danny_dan92]

Change of mind. Women do it too

[kareka]

Yeahh