Why do married guys cheat then get attached to there side chick and once she’s attached also they go ghost?

[Maybeitsme39]

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I was thinking the same thing. Thank you very much you have helped a lot 😃

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Because they are seeking validation rather than an actual relationship. It’s one thing if you cheat to find a better person that you have better chemistry with opposed to deserting them as well.


It’s some weak sauce shit if you ask me

[Maybeitsme39]

Yeah it’s just frustrating cause it’s been 7 years then he tells me he loves me and ask how I feel I tell him the Same then weeks later I message him ignores me give it another few weeks ignore me looks at my snap chats doesn’t respond and just nothing and then I think he is in the middle of a divorce because his status of fb is no longer showing his wife and they aren’t even friends anymore and all her pictures are gone same for her page …. Now I just sound like a stalker … promise I’m not though lol I just want information

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I think it’s about what you want and how you want to achieve it. I think if he’s truly into you instead of his wife then he wouldn’t go weeks without communicating. People who are in love don’t ghost one another. It’s about control and keeping you where you are because it suits his lifestyle and preference

[Shamalien]

You’re fking around with a married man…. what do you expect from this? You want him to divorce his wife for you? And then what happens? He’s a cheater, why do you even want him