Some people (in particular, but not limited to the the good-looking, popular people) are selfish, self centered, and entitled, and only love themselves, and these people will always cheat. Unfortunately, these are also the people that the majority of people find the most attractive.
You also have people who are just spoiled growing up and are never told "no" or are never denied anything. Of course these people will feel incredibly entitled because they've always gotten whatever they wanted in the moment.
Finally, you have people with no morals or boundaries. They can't understand why everyone doesn't just do whatever they want to all the time, or how anyone could have a problem with them doing so.
The real problem is that most people today are not taught to pick their romantic partners based on their morals, values, and life goals, so most people pick them solely on their attractiveness and how exciting they are. It should surprise no one that this nearly always leads to disaster. But if you try to tell someone that the people they find most attractive are going to be lousy relationship partners, no one wants to hear it. Most people today won't give up the hot, exciting person to get morals and values, but then they get upset when they don't get good morals and values in their partner. They only have themselves to blame, but no one wants to take personal responsibility for their own decisions either. It's always someone else's fault.
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I have never cheated so I can only speculate based on my experience with being cheated on, and hearing others talk about it. If you aren't in a relationship with someone else and the cheating isn't "forbidden," then it is not nearly as exciting.
I don't think anyone plans on cheating. It usually happens when the primary relationship is failing.
Because monogamy doesn't work. Even "open" marriages don't work.
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Men cheat because life is short and they want sex with multiple partners, but don't want to lose the comfort and stability of a relationship with a person they probably love and care about.
"But you don't really love someone if you cheat on them! 😡"
Not always true, sorry. The connection between mind and heart is a complex issueThey probably don't get in expecting to cheat; they simply chase the feeling of butterflies, and move on when the novelty wears off. They don't, however, break up with their partner, because they want the benefits of a relationship without having to limit themselves to monogamy.
I think it was Socrates that said "man know thyself". It is good to know what you want before being monogamous.
All I need is two wives and two maids to build a solid house after the order of Jacob.Because theyvdont care about how it would effect their partner
Nobody starts a relationship with the intention of cheating. People cheat because they're given reason to cheat
Same reason people choose to go on a diet. Just because they make a decision doesn’t mean they will stick to it.
You just basically proved why marriage shouldn't exist.
I don’t really know why, but I guess they just want to be loved and have sex whatever they want
Because some people aren’t good people at all
Gotta keep up with appearances.
Because we can.
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