Why do guys let girls use and control them?

Okay so there are those girls who use guys for money, expect them to pay for everything, expect them to spoil them, while doing nothing in return- you'd think that a girl like that would be immediately dumped, but no, there are so many guys who not only allow that kind of behavior , but actually ENCOURAGE it

It gets even worse than that, some guys actually INSIST on it, they INSIST on paying for everything, they INSIST on doing all the work, they INSIST on getting nothing in return... stupid! Just stupid!

I feel sorry for the decent, self respecting guys out there, who are stuck with girls who are spoiled and others including guys lead those girls to think that its acceptable behavior ! And then there are decent girls like me (who actually get sick at the idea...) who are still labelled with the "all girls are bitches" thing... yeah its offensive being labelled as a bitch just for being a girl but to be honest I don't blame guys for making that up

Some people use excuses like "it shows he cares" and the like, well if you had any COMMON SENSE at all you'd realize that was ONE SIDED, what does she do? A relationship should be about BOTH people making EACH OTHER feel special! It should be somewhere near 50/50! Sure- on the first date, it might be the one who asks job to "show they care" meaning that if the girl asks the guy out it is her job to "show she cares" not the guy's... and some guys say its an ego thing well WAKE UP this doesn't make you look cool at all it just makes you look like an idiot who can control you!

Spoiled girls, you should be ashamed of yourselves, and guys, for goodness sake STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! The relationship is about both people, making EACH OTHER FEEL SPECIAL, don't let yourselves be used, and stop reinforcing this behavior and making the spoiled girls think its right because it isn't! The idea that so many girls do that makes me sick, and I hate labelled as a bitch, but the guys continue to reinforce it... COME ON!

Usually this would indicate that the guy is either just after some sort of physical action, or someone planted some twisted and deranged knowledge into his brain, but yet many girls are under the false impression that "it shows he cares" when I know that's not true!
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Like I said this kinda makes me sick and to be honest whenever I'm around a guy I think "does he think all girls are bitches?"
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I find it a bit strange... there are relationships where a guy always pays (usually being used) but the couple act as if the paying part doesn't even exist
Why do guys let girls use and control them?
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