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Why do guys let girls use and control them?
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I've never wanted a man to take control. I prefer being the dominant one in my relationship
"I"? What's wrong with girls. How come I can't ask a question about girls without you guys attributing it to yourself.
The question was based on a tiktok where a guy said he never had his first kiss, and the girl he told was shocked. So she asked him "do you want your first kiss" and he said "sure". Then she said "go ahead take control!"
It was at this point my brain started to realize the problem, girls are passive (most girls obviously not you) they want guys to lead the interaction. But guys are naturally rambunctious and do things by themselves. But when society forces men and women together e. i school and the work place. They tell men they need to be more passive and act like women. In class they tell us to raise our hands and sit quietly. And in work they say don't talk to your female coworkers because it's considered sexual harrassment.
So it's funny that women are raising and telling men to be the exact men they will reject. If you can't notice that's happening well then maybe your bubble only includes yourself.
Your asking us a question obviously some people are gonna respond about their own lived situations and not just facts.
Many women are bossy and like taking control. It's in our nature to be that way
Many? The vast majority of woman want men to be confident enough to lead a relationship. This ain't even up for debate. It's like a million to one ratio of women who want to lead a relationship.
They say they want a leader but their actions go against that. Women spend the whole relationship trying to control everything. It's honestly just women projecting what they do back on men
No there controlling things as a test of the mans manhood. Girls leave guys they can control. And stay with the guys who tell them to shut up. It's just a shit test girls don't want to lead anything.
That's why they never know where to go for dinner
Lol women say they don't know where they wanna go but then say no to everything the guy says till he says the place she wants. It's another way of being bossy without coming off that way
Yeah that what guys refer to as shit test. If they guy said screw that where going to where I want to go and if you don't want to come I'll just find another girl. Do you think the woman will leave? No.
Because girls want guys that don't listen to them and have options. Think about it why doesn't every girl have a story about a guy that cheated on her. It's because toxic guys are there preferences. It's ain't that hard to find a guy that's not good with girls and will never cheat. But that boring to girls
That's probably true. The bad boy types are cheaters/controlling. I don't see the appeal of those type of men
You do, your just not honest with yourself. If I played a DVD of your life I would with out a doubt see you respond to guys that are confident and want to have threesome with you. Your just saying you don't see the appeal because women have two side too them. The part that makes them looks wholesome and great people which is the side that you want the world to see. But you guys also have the side where you want the guy to slap you and pull your hair during sex. Explorer sexuality with men and women. You don't want people to see that side because if you're judge negatively, you won't be protected by society. And it's in a woman's best interest to have people think she's not a bad person because you guys can't protect yourself.
Nah i def prefer simps. And I'm pretty open about liking rough sex but especially with that I have to be the boss and give orders
That's an oxymoron a guy who's a simp isn't gonna be rough with you, just because you gave him instructions. I don't know why girls don't do the most obvious things, you guys would rather take the long way around and then be shocked when nothing works out for you. That's why you guys can't lead relationships. The way you think is the opposite of wisdom.
A simp is gonna follow ant instructions a woman gives him lol
any*
Do you think it's wise for me to get a girls that's submissive and docile and tell her to put on a strap on and peg me?
Being submissive in regular life vs the bedroom is different so depends which one you are talking about
To me it's the same. Men are the same in life. It's only women that think you can change someone. Especially when they show you who they are. And that's you guys are always shocked by a mans actions
Men can change up too
I wouldn't get with a girl hoping she changes, it would be smarter to get someone you already like how they are so you don't try to change them
Big difference between a leader and a dictator.
Not really, if you like a guy and he want to kiss, he's gonna have to take control because women are passive by nature. So telling men they should take control is only gonna end up hurting women who are passive and that's most of you.
Nobody should be controlling anyone.
Stop every guy you've every been with took control. You just don't realize it