How do guys get such control over a girl?

[Anonymous]

How do guys do that?
My crush has power over me LOL.

I've always been scare of him for no reason.

Now that we are getting closer, I'm still under his control.

Like when i look in his eyes and see his emotions and its like he's being dominant (i see it in his eyes) then i get shy and feel smaller than him. Not necessarily in a negative way. I just FEEL it. Its potent. Its as if he injected me with something.

And he's actually scared me HARD before. He was angry at me over something.

Its like im under his spell. And its not just the scared emotion. Its other ones too. Sometimes when he talks to me i feel like i am in a movie or tv show. It feels so smooth and i feel like my words are being written by him. As if i was acting (and him too). Its surreal. Sometimes it's pretty romantic

[Aakash_Hangargi]

It's just how it works basically most women give control honestly it's not control though its about caring you gave him yourself bc you know and trust that he will do right by you and he knows you well.

Love in itself is like this you forget the egos I and you and became we so you won't feel less actually you feel small bc his big in physical sense and that scares you abit but not like killer vibes but you know he can hurt you but wouldn't at any cost.

And him getting angry on you, well both people get angry on each other for some or other reasons but imp thing how well he treats you when you are upset or want something from him that's just life

[TDeans1987]

That control is a choice, maybe a partially unconcious one but still a choice.

Honestly this whole thing sounds very unhealthy. A proper crush should not make you feel like this. You should feel safe and loved. No one who cares about you should ever scare you.

[Asker]

Good point. Wish i met a guy like that

[Anonymous]

Don’t let these 365 days, 50 shades movies fool you into thinking being controlled is true romantic lol. Maybe in the bedroom but life isn’t a movie and day to day acts of controlling doesn’t seem healthy. Feeling smaller than someone or less-than shouldn’t get your panties wet.

[Asker]

Its not that it gets me wet. Lol. Its just makes me blush when he looks at me like that. I don't know whats going on i just know his emotions are like the Queen chess piece and im a pawn.

[Iron_Man]

We’re not looking to get power over you we’re just being nice and kind being our true selves. You girls get attached to us which we like

[Asker]

True haha i get attached easy to certain guys

[Iron_Man]

Aww cute

[Anonymous]

It's just masculine Vs feminine polarity. Testosterone Vs estrogen... yin and yang. You are feeling his masculine presence, and instinctively submit with your feminine energy. I notice this sometimes when I talk to an outgoing, loud girl, or I look at her and she blushes for no apparent reason. What you are feeling is being penetrated both physically and mentally through the opposites that naturally attract. It's likely just a mere word can ruin your clothing.

[FilmGuy93]

That's definitely a feminine thing... there's something about being girly and submissive that a lot of women are just drawn to.

[Asker]

he's feminine? Lol

[FilmGuy93]

Whoops, no. I meant that a lot of women are drawn to men that make them feel girly and submissive lol. My bad

[Asker]

Oh i know i am. I dont think he's making me feel girly, he would have to be acting more like a daddy / a leader. But the submissive thing yeah he's got it down pat o_O

[FilmGuy93]

Feminine sexuality is wild thing 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Lol damn. 😳

[GnatSocks]

Haha! It's fine. Look up subs and Dom's. You may be into it.

[Lynx122]

People only have the control over you that you give them.

[764fud4jyef]

Yeah he's trash thanks mate

[OddBeMe]

Meek people seek out dominant SOs. Stop being meek.

[KrakenAttackin]

You are addicted to Alpha cock.

[Avicenna]

Only if she lets him