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I'm sure many women here have heard this time and time again, about whether being a virgin male would be a deal breaker, and just as many said it would all depend on the reason... so here's mine.

I grew up watching things Like Maury, Jerry Springier, Snapped Various Shows that show what happens when a relationship goes south from rushing in to quickly or being irresponsible about it.

My Parents relationship wasn't always the most... stable either, as my father was obsessed with bills and money and would always get frustrated when it comes to the topic more often then not. Which was made all the more apparent when he otherwise kept his cool.

Not to mention the constant reminder of Deadbeat dads that ran out on their families cause they could never pay child support.

And A large part of that had to do with women getting pregnant too young, or both men and women being particularly loose when it came to relationships.

So, as a young teen, I decided to put relationships on hold and focus on my studies, I wanted to make sure that i was a responsible, dependable and reliable young man who had his own bank and once he had a family could make sure his wife and children wanted for naught.

Now I feel like i wasted my time doing so, as my desire to be a person worthy of respect is met with whispered mocking due to my lack of experience, my age, and general light mocking.

So that's it, I willingly practiced celibacy to focus on school and getting work, and my reward for it is getting blindsided by societies double standards about when a man should get his cherry popped.

So Please be honest with me, would a man being a virgin still be a turn off knowing all this?

some companies will skimp on hiring women of child-bearing age in the hopes that they won't have to deal with employees taking extended leave, or, potentially leaving the job entirely. Allegedly, one woman recently overheard a group of executives moan about female employees getting pregnant, saying "We're not hiring any young women because they just get pregnant again and again"

A third of managers would rather employ a man in his 20s or 30s over a woman of the same age for fear of maternity leave, according to a new study. A survey of 500 managers by law firm Slater & Gordon showed that more than 40% admitted they are generally wary of hiring a woman of childbearing age, while a similar number would be wary of hiring a woman who has already had a child or hiring a mother for a senior role.

So every year me and my friends throw a beer Olympics/beer fest in the summer. that was about 2 weeks ago on Saturday. while there there is this stunning looking Columbian girl. not participating in any events just there to drink and have fun. every guy there was staring at her including a guy with his pregnant girlfriend there I mean everyone. me being the second in charge I'm running around being reff and setting up the next games and then playing for my team so virtually no time to talk to her. however I some how get a few minutes in here and there. finally the event is ending and I somehow pull off getting her snap. I am definitely not the only one and a few guys got her number. was definitely not one of the ones she was attracted to. so 2 weeks go by last Friday and I hear that basically none of these guys have msgd her. sees chance. following day exactly 2 weeks later send basic." hey I don't really do this but you are too hot to not message." she gives me lol awe. I ask her out for drinks. she says she doesn't do bars. I say how about my place just the 2 of us. she says sure. say I'll send her details later. win but getting anything else from her is Nearly impossible now and haven't pushed to hard to look desperate. she is also a few years younger than me so she may be in experienced. I'm wondering if this is a pity date or she is talking to tons of guys or o got really lucky and somehow I found a dimond in the rough.

sorry for long post