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Boyfriend said too much.. (I think he wants to trap me?) (Somewhat graphic warning)?

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So I was on the phone with my boyfriend earlier, when I had told him I had a story idea (I like to write) about a couple having a kid or whatever, which led him to say “I kinda want kids right now” (mind you we’re both barely almost 16), then he started saying, “I want kids with you, I feel like if we had a kid now we would stay together, but if we didn’t have a kid right now we would break up (we’ve been fighting a lot) and I don’t want to lose you..”

I stood quiet for a bit because I was lowkey shocked, then I just said it wasn’t the right time, that would be too irresponsible because we’re really young, etc. and he agreed, but then he was like, “You’ve already gone through a lot, you could go through pregnancy, I would be with you the whole 9 months,”.. We’ve been having unprotected sex lately, and we’re still trying to be careful.. but I feel like he’s gonna end up “accidentally” getting me pregnant (I feel like he’ll end up ejaculating inside me on purpose to get me pregnant based off what he shared earlier.)

I just don’t know how to feel about it.. Like, I know he means well, and I love him, but.. what he said made me feel weird. I found & read through a post similar to my situation on here, but I’m posting myself because I’d like to hear other’s advice/thoughts on this situation because I felt like I couldn’t talk about this with anyone that I know..

Please be gentle I’m new to this app, longtime lurker. Really would like to hear advice/what other people think, thank you
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Closing this question because yesterday, he came to his senses & said he didn’t mean what he said/realized it was a crazy idea, and agrees we shouldn’t have a kid now. Also yesterday I put myself on birth control :) Thank you everyone for all the feedback
Boyfriend said too much.. (I think he wants to trap me?) (Somewhat graphic warning)?
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