My boyfriend told me this?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I was in the car with my boyfriend and he randomly told me that he wants to take advantage of me when I’m sleeping… I’ve never heard a guy say this before. Any advice?

[236color]

Well, if you're interested in helping him live out his fantasy, I'd say set up a role play scenario, complete with a safe word kill switch that stops everything if you or he needs it to. If you don't want to do this, just say sorry, this is not something I want to do. I think I would stick to role play, giving him permission to start having sex with you while you're actually asleep has a high potential to go wrong, I would think. Fantasies, especially among sexually active adults, are often things that aren't easy in real life. If it was easy you'd just do it. It is also not necessary to live out all Fantasies. Some of them are just bad ideas and need to stay in the spank bank.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Every girlfriend I've ever had has had permission to start having sex with me while I was asleep.

[Anonymous]

Don't expect many to see what's wrong with his comment because it is good behavior and righteousness that are attacked more...

Luke 6:45

“A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.”

Ask yourself whether what came out of his mouth was good and what that means since it came from his heart...

[Anonymous]

I would break up? That sounds like he wants non consensual sex and it’s not even roleplay it’s just you not being conscious… so that’s weird and concerning sorry

[BoopBoopBeep]

Nearly every woman I've been with for any length of time has taken advantage of my while I was sleeping. I thought less about that than I did of what we were having for dinner next. Very rarely did they bring it up in conversation first.

[elew4too]

He has a consensual nonconsent (cnc) fantasy. He’s just being honest with you about his fetishes. If you’re down to participate in that, let him know. If not, then don’t be pressured to indulge him

[HouseMoat]

I mean, if you want to entertain it, but, why would you

[jahaims]

It's called cnc and it is a part of bdsm

[YourSong]

Sounds like rape. Run