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So me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year officially but we’ve known eachother for 3 years. There’s a couple things that still come back to me that I forgave him about & I’ve noticed some good changes in him after several conversations trying to work things out & I appreciate it but there’s still things I know he does that he thinks I don’t know that make me upset. The thing is I have brought it up to him many times & at this point I’m just giving up my energy I give ti him. He’s noticed I’ve been a little distant. I’m older than him by 3 years it’s not much but he’s 25. He’s been sweet but there things that still bother me that he does that he knows because I’m a straight up person & have let him know. But men just don’t comprehend a lot oh things. My question is why do I feel unhappy even when he tries to work on something’s? Sometimes I do want to breakup with him & I’ve tried but he still comes back & begs me to not let this go. I don't know if I’m the problem or if what I’m feeling is a sign ti break things off.

They always say hate is the opposite of love. Well if you're at an English and language arts classes, yes but if applying it to life concepts, wouldn't refusing to acknowledge someone and pretend they never existed to the point of not giving a rats about their health either (someone you once loved) be the real opposite of love? For instance if you bump into them and they want to acknowlege you, then you asked ''Who are you''? They tell you who they are but then you say ''I don't know you'' or ''I don't have one (friend, child, spouse, etc)''.

Doing that to a partner (after a break-up or divorce) or friend is blocking them from your life. Doing that to a family member is disowning them.