What upsets you most in a relationship and what makes you the happiest?

[Keyspirits]

what are the pros and cons in a relationship that you like or dislike or maybe want a certain thing to happen between the two of you?

[FlyingTurtle]

Things that upset me: when my boyfriend doesn't contact me or BARELY messages me for several days at a time. When my boyfriend is legit upset about something.

Things that make me happy: a billion things now in my current relationship :) seeing him. Being with him. His touch, his kisses, being in his arms. Being called "baby" or "love" or of course "beautiful". Talking to him on the phone before he falls asleep. Listening to his breathing as he sleeps. Sitting beside him in his truck as he drives, his hand on my leg. Him making me feel wanted. Talking about a future together. His scent. Running my hands through his hair. Can't even begin to cover all the things that make me happy in this relationship.

[Anonymous]

Love when the guy can stand up for me, and just make some time for me and that he can show me his softer side.

Do not care for when they lie, then say im complaining when im really just venting because I trust him to be able to tell things to. Or say Im trying to change him when Im really not im just letting him know how I feel.

[Keyspirits]

aww a gurl like u is surely ma type ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Hehehe. Awe thank you. Be nice to meet the guys who I am their type.

What are your likes and dislikes?

[Keyspirits]

well I've never been in a relationship before so i can't really assume anything =P

[Opinion Owner]

That just means when you do it going to be a great. Im sure of it. 😊
It always when you least expect it.

[Keyspirits]

but if ur lucky to be that lucky gurl, u'll be treated like a "Princess" and i'll be ur *Prince* =)

[Opinion Owner]

That cute!
As long as I'm treated as the guy equal and respected even if we disagree. That be a win win. ^_^

[Keyspirits]

Haha yap cuz its always my dream to treat women the way they wanna be treated. Preferably u can say as a Queen or a Princess x)

[Opinion Owner]

That great then. you'll deff will be appreciated when a girl is lucky to have you as her bf. both should put each other high on top of the pedestal. You be a keeper! Shell never wanna lose you. 😊

[Keyspirits]

That would be truly amazing!

I'll be your dream
I'll be your wish I'll be your fantasy
I'll be your hope I'll be your love
Be everything that you need
I'll love you more with every breath
Truly, madly, deeply in luv <3

[Keyspirits]

I valued my woman more than anything. she's larger than life!

[Opinion Owner]

Love that song!

I will be strong I will be faithful cuz im countin on a new begining a reason for living a deeper meaning yeah.

I want to stand with you on a mountain
I want to bathe with you in the sea
I want to lay like this forever
Until the sky falls down on me

😍 haha. Beautiful song.

[Opinion Owner]

That really great. Their needs to be more people like this. I value all my love ones but I know with the guy Ill show him I care and love him. Ill see him so much more a potential life partner. Mahaha! Lol

[Keyspirits]

Lol u figured it out. U seem interesting =)
I juz gotta know ur name! Wanna sing this song to u now x)

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=W6QdnunCR0Q

[Keyspirits]

Aww u shouldn't go anonymous =P
That way i can see how bic ur luv is

[Opinion Owner]

Lol yes you pick one of my many fav songs.

Awe thank you your interesting too. ^_^

Lol wanna exchange names so it fair? Mine is victoria.
Cute song. I know his I wanna touch you. That also a good one.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol even if I dont no one can see anything hehehe

[Keyspirits]

Awesome! We have same taste in music. How about ur username? We can become best bud in the future =}

[Keyspirits]

U wanna touch meh huh..sure go ahead. Feel meh all u want =P

[Opinion Owner]

LMFAO HAHAHA. i should of known that be taken wrong =____= lol haha and maybe I will :p lol haha

And you be the 1st for me to add on this site. Lol but it be nice to have a friend.

[Opinion Owner]

But sure it misunderstoodvirgo6

[Keyspirits]

Oh cmon, so does that make meh special than? To be ur first luv on this site u say x)
Im more than happy to be haha

[Keyspirits]

But i dont think i can follow u since ur anonymous, u have to follow meh first. Than u can feel meh all u want =P

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao haha yes your special my very 1st 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Oh lol haha ok ill follow you mahahahaha.

[Keyspirits]

Lol excited to feel meh?=P

[Opinion Owner]

You know it. 😋 Hahaha. I follwed you!

[Keyspirits]

Haha shall we take our relationship to the next lv ;)

[Opinion Owner]

What kind of level :p

[Keyspirits]

Lol take it to pm =P

[Opinion Owner]

Ooo sounds like fun. Sure.

[Keyspirits]

Lol fun times =P

[Opinion Owner]

Yes! :p

[misupanda]

Upsets me most: That everything is overly sexual. Sometimes it makes me feel like I'm only liked for my body and not for who I am.

Makes me happiest: When the guy does something spontaneous and unexpected just to make me feel special. That's the best. :) Or sometimes I like when guys are protective. That can show they care.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I think every type of relationship I've been in, if one would even consider it a sort of relationship has been helpful. I've met many different types of people in my life and in the end, the one thing that made me remember some of them more was honesty. Without trust, there is no relationship.

[Imonlyhereforabit]

Since we're talking about 'In a relationship', I'm not gonna comment on things that would bother me about girls but rather things that would make me second guess my relationship and the only two things I can think of right now are if she stopped trying, or constant flirting with other guys/looking for approval from other guys. Things that make me happiest, a LOT of affection (i.e if it seems like she can't keep her hands off me thats a +++++), trust, and from time to time going out of her way to surprise me.

[Anonymous]

When the girl calls me an idiot for being original (i.e. for being myself) I love it.
I also love it when the girl chats, talks and such.

I hate it if the girl compares me with someone else all the time, nags, nay-says and bitches about things which we can't change.

[Keyspirits]

lol the last one doe

[JackKerouac77]

Upsets me: totalitarianism (not letting me be myself)

Happiest: freedom with boundaries/trust (letting me by myself and innovate with the expectation that I will be faithful, not kill myself with unnecessary risks and still be present in the relationship)

[angelstar07]

From my experience:

Upsets me - His grumpy face. He sometimes say things too harsh. Flirting with girls online.

Happiest - He called and text everyday. Laughing our ass off and eating sushi.

[Anonymous]

I honestly love just laying my head in her lap or lying next to her.
I love holding her and the way she looks up at me.

I never really had a childhood, so I missed out on the mother child bond.

[Lizzy32794]

Upset: when bf doesn't listen, acts like he doesn't care. Happiest: everything else :)

[Keyspirits]

And what do u do when ur upset? Gonna kill us? D=

[Lizzy32794]

I ignore him wheni am upset lol :/

[Taylordevine17]

Pros:
When a guy takes you out on a date
When you kiss
Spending time with each other

Cons:
Breaking up
Lying
Not enough time
Cheating
Thinking of other girls while your dating

(All of these are based on one of my relationships)

[Anonymous]

If the guy hates any part of me boobs/ass/facial piercing whatever! The thing that makes me happiest tho is unconditional love

[Keyspirits]

I luv u juz the way u are baby. No need to change a thang about chu :*

[Anonymous]

The thing upsets me
Is the arguments

The happiest
Is they we would feel about eatch other

[Anonymous]

Not feeling loved and feeling loved

[Keyspirits]

lel.. what da "L"

[Ihav2fart]

Pros:
Sex

Cons:
Cutting me off from Sex