What are you most unhappy about in your life?

Question

For me, I really like my job, but the pay could be much better.

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend of 18 years has been pretty much down for the count for over a decade now. And now she seems to be getting worse. And it’s not something doctors understand, and they can’t really do anything for it anyway. She’s not even able to see me right now, I’ve seen her maybe six times this year so far.

So…. don't really know where that’s headed, and the course of my life is kind of contingent on the course of hers, which just leaves a lot of uncertainty. Not to sound dramatic, and I do find some happiness playing hockey and fishing, but the majority of my life is just kind of mired in this seemingly endless unfathomable sadness due to the love of my life being in the situation she is. I just want things to be normal like everyone else gets to do. Everything should be near-perfect with us, and it’s just been destroyed due to no fault of anyone but idiot psychiatrists who poison their patients.

So…. everything kind of sucks, and may suck this way for the remainder of her and my existence. Maybe it won’t, she could get better, but it’s disheartening to see a sharp downtrend this late when we just thought we were dealing with a long-term healing process, but eventually everything would be ok again. But I’m starting to lose hope, I think she is too, and that worries me, because I don’t know how much more of this she can reasonably bear. And that’s probably getting into stuff I’m not allowed to talk about on GAG, but the bottom line is there’s a lot of uncertainty about very serious things. This has probably been the worst year of my life, all told.

Even these people from the documentary about what she’s dealing with seem to be having an easier time of it, they look like they can leave home. She’s been housebound for over ten years.

So…. everything was perfect, and it just got snatched away from us for no good reason. Hard to find much to be happy about. My life was so awesome, but the back end is shaping up to be a tragedy😞

https://www.youtube.com/embed/mu2q9A5tJJM https://www.youtube.com/embed/bllr63yMszw

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

@simslover92 ... That I am no longer 22 years old.

Nick1978 · Accepted Answer

Honestly I've been sleeping on the couch for 4 years ish. No emotional/physical contact what do ever. Divorce will be finalized on Monday. I guess I'm unhappy with trying to decide if I look for a new Misses Right, or go get what I have been missing in my life.

I know sounds like BS, Or maybe a little cheesy.

LightingBugg · Accepted Answer

My life is a blur. What I have, I don’t want. What I want, I can’t have.

Advisor Smith · Accepted Answer

It's natural to feel conflicted when aspects of your job bring satisfaction, yet other areas, like compensation, fall short. Reflecting on my experiences, I advise open communication with your employer about your contributions and aspirations. Perhaps exploring opportunities within your field that value your skills with better compensation could be beneficial. Balancing joy in your work with financial satisfaction often requires aligning personal and professional goals. Continuous learning and skill enhancement can also open doors to higher-paying roles, helping you achieve both career satisfaction and fair compensation.

Makeushiver · Answer

I've had jobs where pay was great but workplace sucked& the reverse. I have had jobs where the upper management changed and what was once a great atmosphere became toxic. I'd enjoy going to work where you like it and have your CV polished so if one that has both, you're ready.

I've had jobs where I took the $ thinking, "It doesn't give me a very good vibe but it must be me & I don't want to listen to my gut because my brain is screaming, "you need the money"/ My advice- though I didn't necessarily listen to it all the time- is to trust your gut

Shiprex · Answer

I am most unhappy about the reason for me having to quit my home and move though I am here where I am going to move at the moment looking at places to stay and kinda like the idea of moving but wish it was for better reasons than why I am doing it.

Anonymous · Answer

Realizing how few really good people there are in the world. If you are lucky enough to find one of them early on then do everything in your power to keep them. But if not just use whoever comes into your life and do not give a 💩. Because I promise they won't think twice about doing it to you.

DangerouslyCute · Answer

I could have two inches more... climbing shelves in the grocery store isn't funny :D

Finchie40 · Answer

Not where I want to be , I wish I could move out of here but unfortunately not that easy to do , but I been applying to jobs where I want to be hoping one of them bites

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

My family and relatives make me very unhappy. The men I have brought into my life have also made me very unhappy. They have tired me a lot during exams and my anxiety has emerged. Now I have gluten sensitivity in my body and I cannot eat everything.

Abbycado · Answer

@circushowcowboy nips at my heels from under the couch when I sit down. 😒

jazzy34 · Answer

I’m grateful to be alive, but I wish my life were different. Long story short, I wish my life circumstances were different. I don’t know how to make those changes.

Nikki1989 · Answer

My work hours can be crazy. You can only work 6 days a week for so long before work fatigue starts to set in.

TheoreticallyGreat · Answer

Also my job. Not been a fan of how I have been treated lately.

Anonymous · Answer

My living situation apartment situation, mostly everyone i know either passed away or is gone including pets family friends, lack of money, ptsd from decades of trauma

Anonymous · Answer

the only thing i AM happy about is my job. everything else sucks! but that'd be too long to list, so i said the only thing that i'm proud of. sadly.

Valdemort · Answer

Quite content, though I wish I was a better friend to myself

LazerBean · Answer

No longer being able to eat what I want without gaining weight

Babygirl_S · Answer

Shitty people trying to be my heroes. Weak boys scared of the pressure their 2 dollar whores put on them and then running to me for support once the truth is out.

SotiCoto · Answer

Probably being made redundant is currently tied with my tinnitus at the top of pile of things that make my life unbearable.

exitseven · Answer

I am getting old and cannot do all the things I used to do.

Raam1994 · Answer

I am a writer. So i love my work but the results are not that good

RHK36 · Answer

That there is no real meaning for our existence other than to observe.

Anonymous · Answer

Lack of protection from those whose job it is to protect.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I’ve been going through a period I just want to be alone and I feel guilty with friends

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

My life is great im really not unhappy at all but I'd trade it all to spend one more day with my mother

Anonymous · Answer

I wish I had luck in love... but I don't have it :(

NathanDavis · Answer

the weather... lmao

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

im happy that trumpers are getting everything they deserve, and more

BriGinny · Answer

Lack of family, foundation and support.

Alex-Snow · Answer

The current USA president

fish5505_87 · Answer

My physical well being!

sage2021 · Answer

Most people! Period.

Blixeire · Answer

Not keeping up with friends.

ambitious_male · Answer

My life is a chaos

eagle1951 · Answer

i'm getting old

Tsmit240 · Answer

Same

Jay-_- · Answer

Social Issues

Darkest-Knight · Answer

My loneliness.

Dorothy90 · Answer

That I have to work.

Chocolatetwopointtwo · Answer

how i look

wkhan_87 · Answer

Nothing

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