1. This phrase is intended to be used to talk about friends you've had for YEARS longer than you've known the person in your relationship, and who will continue to be part of your life even if/when the relationship ends.
2. It's a phrase that is generally used by people who are DATING rather than those who are looking for a marriage. The relationship is expected to be temporary, so friends aren't to be completely abandoned or ignored, just because the new partner would prefer not to be (or for the other person to be) around them.
Outside of that context, this phrase shouldn't be used, or judged.
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Personally, I have friends I've know since I was five. Buddies that have been apart of my life for decades where as the longest relationship I've had lasted for about a year. The way I see it relationships tend to to come and go but friends seem to last.
So for me it's Bros before hoes/Chicks before dicks every day all day...
"friends come and go" - for me they don't. My friends are my family, and I put family first.
But really, I don't see why you should have to choose anyway. You can easily balance friends and an SO.
They are just sayings and not true at all, especially with guys. The majority of the time they will choose their "hoe" over their "bros". Usually said girl is not actually a "hoe", though.
Whom ever provides me with the most comfort
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A phrase used out of context.
It applies only in certain situations... when a girl/guy you are talking to or are with is not really important to you. They are just casuals... then you choose your friend over this 'partner'.There is evidence amongst guys that bros before hoes is a thing.
Whereas women will stab their own BFF in the back for a man.I think the term bro's before hoes is more about not letting a woman come between their friendship. It isn't intended to be used for a woman the guy is in a relationship with already.
Fuck that shit most of my friends are gay males or just male !!!
I would chill with a cute girl over my friends any day.
Girlfriend first 99% of the time. But there can be exceptions at times.
Bros before hoes if she's trying to get me to stop kickin it with them.
Hoes before bros if she's marriage material.I actually agree with you.
I say "Yourself over everyone else".
Glutes for the sloots?
Obviously B.Whoever has my back over the ones that don't.
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