I'm tired of being called cute!

[Anonymous]

even when im 21 years old people call me cute all the time. im angry and explaining myself, people say "you are so cute" in the midst of me expressing my anger.

even GUYS telling me "you're lucky you're cute cause you are such an ass hole" (not hitting on me, this is normal in my culture im not american)

and im tired of girls looking at me with puppy dog eyes as if im some sort of adorable baby i want you to see me for the man that i am.

Updates

+1 y

here we have not one but four photos. i am the best looking one in every picture so you do the math.

http://i.imgur.com/mJmIheQ.jpg

the one on the left
http://i.imgur.com/8CfQZhl.jpg

the one with the hat
http://i.imgur.com/lBZr0cl.jpg

the one in white
http://i.imgur.com/0i0e1gl.jpg

[Anonymous]

You should let us see a picture. From your description of yourself in the other comments, you sound more hot than cute. Do you act innocent in person? Sometimes when you act innocent and then start getting angry, it can come off as cute because of the way you present yourself.

[MissBex95]

If you want people to see you differently you have to make them see you differently, find out what you think makes you feel more like a man and do it! Assert yourself! good luck <3

[Asker]

EVEN WHEN I ASSERT MYSELF PEOPLE THINK ITS ADORABLE

[MissBex95]

okay, I feel you on this one because for the most part guys have called me cute and my girl friends have too and very rarely do I get pretty/beautiful which is the female equivalent to what you're talking about but you still gotta try man you obviously you have in you! Besides there's nothing wrong with being cute even if that's not what you want to hear, it's still a compliment! Try not to place such high emphasis on your personality in relation to what people say about you, it's all about how you feel!!!

[CommieDearest]

I read this in the best man-whine voice it was adorable. I'm not really sure what you think you can do here, if you're cute, you're cute. You almost sound like you want to be scary. Haha.

[otakulife]

i understand what you are saying.. i dont like being called cute either even when i am a girl.. its makes me think that they are calling me childish and silly.

[chocolateismylover]

You probably have a baby face. Cute is a good thing.

[Asker]

i do have kind of a baby face, but i do have a pretty developed face as i said below its quite masculine looking but i do have some girly features to it. like long eyelashes, nice eyebrows, my eyelashes are really dark looks like im wearing eyeliner in some pics. and my cheekbones are huge

[Annymous8]

Do you have facial hair?

[Asker]

yes i do

[Annymous8]

Goatee, beard? How much?

[Anonymous]

Aww this sounded so cute ^.^

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe your physical traits are of a child. Chubby cheeks, rounded head, big eyes...

[Asker]

actually, i have a pretty sharp face. small eyes, thick eyebrow ridges, my cheekbones stick out, strong jaw. i have a pretty bony face

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe that's what you see, but they see differently. You have to take an account for your behavior and personality as well.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey, better than ugly.

[Asker]

its definitely my behavior its the way i express myself. thats why numerous times its happened to me that while i am at a high emotional state (angry or excited) and im talking, i will get interrupted and the person will be like you are so cute

[Opinion Owner]

Then tone down the personality haha

[Opinion Owner]

Our break stuff so that they wouldn't think you're so cute.