Being hit on by guys (gay?)? Waist grabbing , neck touching , bum slapping wut? Should I be flattered or scared? How'd you feel it were you?

[Anonymous]

So at class there's this guy who's been seriously giving me the creeps.

Horrible pickup lines as ice-breaker.
Check.
Chummy shoulder holding.
Check.
Keep on asking if there's anything he can do for me.
Check.
Random waist-grab and bum slap at the canteen to say hi.
Check.
Found him on the same floor as I am , when I asked what he's doing here he said "I'm visiting friends , that's all" ...
Check.
Calling me - "Sunshine"
Check.

At this moment I'm not exactly sure if he's just REALLY "FUCKING friendly" or just gay.

Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say he's gay.
How'd you feel if you're a straight guy/gal being hit on by a gay/les?
https://i.imgur.com/kBLYhR2.jpg

Cos I'm not exactly what to feel right now.

Updates

+1 y

missing the sure in the last sentence.

[Blacklighthoney]

It is likely that he is hitting on you. I've experienced this before from women. Now for guys this may be one scary experience for you, because your not sure how to handle it being straight. I don't know how all women would feel if they were getting the same treatment from a Lesbian but we may take it better than guys do. You can just tell him, you're not gay or interested in exploring the idea. Same for us women. Just relay the message as clearly and firmly as possible the first time so they get the idea. I personally, thought it was interesting that a woman was attracted to me. I always get guys hitting on me, (single, divorced, separated and married) But I had never experienced this from a woman. You are right about one thing... they are subtle with it. Here and there they share comments, show up to places you hang out etc. I actually spent the day with the woman who was hitting on me and we had a casual conversation about "it", but not referencing her or myself just generalizations. At the end of the day (we were at the Fair) I realized that she was more curious than Lesbian. It didn't bother me any because I like dick and I wasn't offended that she wanted me... bi-curious, lesbian or straight. I just made a mental note that "Now you're getting hit on by women too" then I smiled. Best of luck to you.

[SpicedPumpkin]

I would say it would be flattering :) I've had a few "bi" girls "hit on me" and tell me they think I'm hot and I was flattered because in my opinion, a compliment is a compliment! Everyone loves compliments :)

BUT. All things aside, if it is bothering you then don't let him continue because technically that is sexual harassment and you don't deserve to feel uncomfortable! Tell him that you're uneasy by it and you don't appreciate it. Good luck!

[HoneyButterCup525]

Well that happened to my bro one time, he is the typical straight guy... he would freak and tell them off aggressively lol

But if it freaked you out then quietly back away in a reserved language... you know them gays guys can get kinda weird...

[BertMacklinFBI]

hahaa a gay person would never even have gotten that far with me. you tolerated the shit out of him. i encountered 1 gay guy in my life and i told him straight up, just be straight with me, he can be gay, that's cool, but be straight with me, don't hit on me or he won't even be an acquaintance anymore.

[Dousj]

Id just tell him to keep his hands off of me and stop the pickup lines. If a guy hits on me, I reply with "Im not gay." if he touches me unwantedly, I tell him "Get your hands tf off of me.", anything that persists after that merits a swift, yet thorough, ass kicking.

[Pinkbeauty]

u could tell him he should keep his hands to him self and tell him your not gay when I played the game playstationnetwork and lesbian girl who hit on me and say I was cute and she started to do a weird dance move and I got so creeped and I told her that I'm straight and she walked away as soon as I said that

[thewanderingme]

just tell him to stop. you're allowing him to sexually harrass you. fuck that nonsense!

[LovesTVDx]

I get hit on by women sometimes lol, it's the same as when I get hit on by guys, flattering and sorta awkward. 😜

[travellingtheworld]

Report him to the police he need elecro shock therapy

[Klaatu51]

i'd report him... that's harassment basically