Do you like your opposite gender more than the same?

[Anonymous]

Do you like your opposite gender more than the same?
If your answer is yes then why.

[Anonymous]

You mean socially? For this purpose and the context of this website, when I say "guys," I mean straight guys. Gay and bi men are men/guys too though :)

Honestly, no. I don't know what it is but I've never been one of those women who has a lot of male friends. I actually wish I had more male friends, but... guys don't like me, I guess? lol I feel like as an adult I should have both. Well, I do have male friends but they are gay. I'd like to also have straight male friends, but I honestly don't know if my personality type is conducive to that. I can get along on a very superficial level, talk to men at school, or work, but for whatever reason it never goes beyond that. I have a total of zero straight guys I can call to talk with or text or hang out with, especially one on one. Now, I have had straight male acquaintances through friends who are much better with guys than I am (lol) and we all hangout in groups together. (Or used to, I moved so, not in that circle right now) But will I be the one who has a straight male friend to hang out with one on one or add to the group? Nope.

One of my friends said that I have too much "feminine energy" to be friends with guys. I didn't understand what she meant by that. She said something along the lines of, "Yeah, I'm girly, but I can kick it and hang with the boys too. I just don't see you doing that." Another friend once told me that I'm "too intellectual" to be friends with guys. She explained that one reason why she prefers guys is they're more fun, whereas a lot of women like to talk about serious things in life, and I like discussing a ton of shit so its worse. lol Another friend said sometimes I'm too uptight, and that may have something to do with it. Who knows. But these are some explanations that have been given to me.

It's hard for me though. I just find it much easier to connect with women. There are no limits as to how affectionate I can be or discussions I want to have or things I can say. It's just different.

[Account]

No, I don't. I get along with both genders. I have male and female friends who are important to me and I cherish them. Their gender has nothing to do with it.
It kind of gets on my nerves when some women say: "I like hanging out guys because they are less drama." I find it untrue. You can find decent people among both genders.
Women who claim that they only hang out with guys are usually the ones who enjoy drama and attention-whoring.
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Quite vulgar, but I forgive myself.

[Asker]

Hey,
It really so vulga, don't post such a things.
You have your own points, I will agree with that but this is not fair because some people hurt with your words

[Anonymous]

YES! I'd much rather spend a weekend with only guys then i would girls. The girls that I know are all crazy, selfish, two faced and mean. The guys I know I get along with because they don't want stupid dramas (most of the time, definitely not all the time.) Actually, I just got back from a camp where I had only boys in my class. They were all nice to me and didn't treat me like shit, whereas I stayed with girls at night (for obvious reasons) And almost all of them treated me like I was nothing. So, I generally prefer boys.

[Anonymous]

Yes !! I definitely do !!! Guys are not like girls. Girls are complicated, with the mind games and the comparing and the talks behind the backs and the frenemie kind of relationships. I mean I am like that too what girl isn't ! Hanging out with guys is easier ! They don't play major mind games on you. Even though guys make your life harder it is nicer to hang out with them !

[Asker]

Yes, I agree with you.
Girls are so complicated and very hard to understand.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they are to the point that sometimes I don't even understand myself ! I don't know what I want and I'm not the only one !

[Entrieton]

I really don't get along with guys. I like girls though and I get along with them well.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I grew up with amazing men in my life. I hate how our society pushes shame on men constantly.

I find men are more accepting of things they don't agree with.
Men don't require constant reassurance, they are more logical and level headed, Less emotionally geared.

Men are more honest in regards to most things. (Unless it's their partner and they are scared to be. Ex. Your hair looks like crap)
Women will fill you with empty compliments and cut your throat behind your back.

[CommieDearest]

Nah, this might surprise some people on here but I get along with most people regardless of gender.

[Asker]

Good one

[Anonymous]

I find get along with guys more then girls because I used to be cyber bullied by some in the past and plus I'd get hated for my spelling and grammer from them I'm not saying all girls are like that but there can be some that cause drama and that's why I tend to get along with guys more