Do you get along better with the same gender or opposite gender?

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Personally for me I get along better with men. Females often hate on me because of my looks and confidence. It's not my fault many females lack confidence and/or have bad genetics. All my male friends are easier to get along with and aren't overly emotional, drama filled, catty, jealous or annoying like females are. Men use logic over emotion and that's exactly what I do. I think most females are dumb bitches and if they used logic over emotion they wouldn't be heartbroken and trainwrecks when it comes to men.

Lu_loo · Accepted Answer

Opposite! Girls can be catty, undercover jealous and wishing you face plant when you all go out and look your best! Guys are chill... don’t care if you look better then them one night, and will still hold your hair if your drunk!

MasterKey18 · Accepted Answer

More for the men.

serious · Accepted Answer

The answer to your title question is: Neither. For me, given the kind of person I am, it's very tough or almost impossible for me to get along well with anyone. Gender doesn't matter.

Byakugan · Accepted Answer

Funny, i actually get along waay better with women for some reason lol

courtney06 · Answer

I think I get along better with guys but I think it’s changing slowly as I gain more life experience. I think I get bored with females or maybe they get bored with me. Plus they tend to prefer hanging out with their boyfriends or other females over me. I think it’s because I’m socially awkward and struggle with borderline personality symptoms. My confidence is still a work in progress. I am also very attractive, but I don’t really fit in anywhere. I can hang with females in short instances like going dancing with them at a music event or stopping at my friend’s clothing store, but I rarely ever had a female friend who I hung out with regularly like once a week. I think that I remind a lot of people of things that they don’t like about themselves, so they usually end up avoiding me or not really making it a priority to maintain the friendship. It takes a very strong and accepting person to want my company. If drama ever happens, I never intend for it to be that way and I usually try to keep things civil. If they were clearly awful to me I will just stay away from them.

Sujin95 · Answer

i don’t get along with any genders. cuz i really cannot stand to girls annoying conversations over boys or make up. i’m sorry for myself but that’s the truth for me. i’d like to read books over movies or listening to music over gossip.
also i cannot stand to boys. cuz my broken ass heart always making mistakes and i don’t wanna do that. who is close to me, i can’t stop thinking if they are flirting with me or not. in the end i’m in friendzone that i get myself into and tadaa heartbroken again for nothing. cuz my heart wanna feel loved. i need to learn love myself before others. if i don’t i’m getting stuck on to one who loves me and accepts me.
i prefer being alone. only me and myself lol

finweeb · Answer

I mostly get along with guys, but it's more about the personality. And about u dissing on females, guys can also be emotional im a prime example, furthermore one of my old classmates who is a girl is more "manly" than about half the guys i know, also my girlfriend is a bit "dudeish" so yea, not all females are bitchy emotional wrecks and not all guys are calm calculating machines

Twat_Twig · Answer

I get along with everyone pretty equally I guess. I don't cause drama and I don't hang out with people that cause drama. I was in a living situation and all my roommates were horrible, both male and female. I'm living with my boyfriend and I only have a few friends that I really see outside of home and work.

Ellie-V · Answer

Men seem to be overly emotional in my opinion. I would say guys are more friendly towards me just in a first impression kind of thing, but that’s only because they’ll find me attractive. So I get along better with women since most of them aren’t trying to flirt with me. And maybe it’s just the girls I know but ladies are less likely to trip over their egos.
I’ve also never really had a problem with females being jealous of me with the exception of a few girls in elementary school 😂

Engageme · Answer

Well men do not use logic when in the presence of competition or something they may fail at anymore than women do. Women aren't all like you describe either. You have a limited view and maybe men give you more attention than women which is really what you like. I know some immature women can be like that but I know plenty that are wonderful supportive mature women.

Angel786 · Answer

Believe it or not I actually get aslong with girls better than guys! I'm a girls girl anyway, if I see a girl looking good or like what she's wearing then I will tell her what's there to hate on 🤷🏽‍♀️.. one of the main reasons girls hate on each other's because they can not be happy for one another and support each other. Which grates on me because that's why men are winning 🤦🏽‍♀️

Luis-158 · Answer

umm, I think would say i get along better with males, in colleage, when i still had courses to do, i had a better relationship with women, granted, after a point i noticed they where majority in every course but when hanging out with friends, most of the friends i hang out with are men

Incognito777 · Answer

It depends on the person. I have female friends and I do get along well with girls/women, too. Sometimes talking to girls is easier than talking to a guy who is full of himself. On the other hand, talking to narcissistic girls is not only a bad idea in general, but also a lost cause since they don't listen or try to participate anyway.
It depends on the type of person really.

milesgeorgedavis · Answer

I get along better with guys, but I think it's mostly a personality thing. I'm a perverted a**hat so it makes sense that like attracts like, but I've met some really cool chicks that I didn't mind hanging out with. And I know a few guys that only hang out with girls, so.

Luke______ · Answer

Well the thing is friendships between men can get very... Physical at times. NOT THAT KIND OF PHYSICAL! I mean punching each other! But we all know it's just for fun and then we make up again and will continue to laugh about it for the next week. Women fighting on the other hand... Oh boy. The cold war is nothing against it.

What I'm saying is that friendships between males are just more uncomplicated than ones between females. More often than not anyways.

low_life · Answer

I realized long ago that guys will never become friends with me without wanting something more, so I haven’t made guy friends in forever.

I don’t have girl friends anymore either, but there’s no reason for that. I just drifted apart from them.

lexythelou22 · Answer

I feel like I get along better with men because I care more about what women think about me. I don't give a shit if guys see me negatively, but I just want to impress women so they make me nervous af 😅

YeetMama · Answer

I get along with both equally, I just have different types of relationships depending on the gender of the person. I'm comfortable around both, but I act a certain way around my guy friends and a different way around my girl friends

Salmon4056 · Answer

I believe I get along with both genders. With other girls I can communicate better with things in life, for guys I get along with playing, joking around, and etc

ichighost · Answer

Both almost equally. I prefer being around girls though.

62893 · Answer

same gender. i've always had supportive female friends & strong/deep relationships with them.

Clo917 · Answer

I have a mix of both guy friends and girl friends, so I guess both?

8sNo_one · Answer

opposite gender. As I have experienced that opposite genders were willing to listen to me more deeply. Also opposite genders are less likely to judge about the situation

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

I often get along with guys more then girls girls like to bully me

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