Every guy I like, likes my best friend?

[Anonymous]

I dont know why but every guy I like end up liking my best friend. And everytime I am into someone he just suddenly become interested in her, although she doesn't like him. It happened 6 times!!! I can't handle it no more and I'm afraid of it everytime I fall for someone. It may happens because everyone knows we are bffs and maybe when a guy pay attention on me he naturally see my best friend and just fall for her, because she is much more prettier than me. I feel depressed and I have no one to talk to. Please help me

[Anonymous]

Aww!! okay, this happens with my sister and I. But I get them as a boyfriend. they notice her, and then they chase her using me. ikr. they suck xD. but onto the question

When you first meet a guy, be the best you, you can be. Show them your personality over your looks. If a guy is good enough for you. He will see your personality over your looks anyway. instead of skipping right ahead to your best friend. Honestly, don't let your "type" get ahead of you. There is a possibility that these boys that end up liking your best friend aren't even the guy you would actually like. You have two options here. Either wait for the right guy, or go out and find him. But if you go out and find him, make sure he isn't gonna go for your BFF.

[Anonymous]

I had the same problem but I never really let it bother me. Maybe because I'm more focused on my future and career rather than depress about not having a boyfriend. Maybe you should try that. Usually when you're not looking for something, it falls right in your lap. Who knows, maybe your future boyfriend is around the corner.

[cxff33]

Omg my bff told me that the same thing happened to her, I feel so so bad :( just try do what she does, not like her style or anything but how she makes contact with them

[Marttinez]

Even though it sucks, she's doing you a favor. You want a guy that's gonna like you for who you are, not for what you look like. If they only care about looks, good for them, but you derve better.

[Anonymous]

Could just be making you jealous, and it's working, obviously. Of course that means he likes to play games with you, so is have to ask yourself if hats what you want

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Hey if he didn't like you, its his loss, you'll find someone that appreciates you gurl!

[Tomsta]

Are you showing interest in the guys, as it could be you're giving off the "i don't like you vibe"

Although you do sound little be like Cindy from HIMYM with her "room mate jealously issues"

[Anonymous]

oh this is bad your are being overshadowed by her looks not good start hanoing out without her with guys

[Anonymous]

find a new best friend.

[Asker]

Why? How it helps?