Two of my good friends had a massive argument and I was wondering who you thought was acting worse.
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Im going to come clean and tell you that that may have been me arguing with my ex boyfriend. I got really angry at him because he was being rude to my friends again (he's even threatened one of them before) and I said that I hated him as like a sort of joke kind of thing in a group chat that we're in (just a tip. Don't ever date your good guy friend from the same group as you at school. Not good) but he's said some stuff to me in the past and put down body parts that is was insecure about.
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He's also competed me to his other ex girlfriend, told me that I was bad in the bedroom and things along the line of that while we were still dating. I just got unreasonably angry. And then when he brought up my abuse as a child and told me I was going to die on my couch even though he knew I had sever depression and have almost killed myself several time that kind of topped it off for me. So I posted it here because I needed you guys to tell me what I said was wrong to calm down my rage.
At first I was gonna say that the person in blue was acting childish, unreasonable and simply just rude but when I read your update I can see where you're coming from. Just don't let him get to you like that because in the end it's just not worth it. Just ignore him and be the bigger person because as you said you can do a whole lot better than him and continuing to argue with him and say mean things like that makes you just as bad as him and I assume that you don't wanna go there.
Also, anyone with the slightest bit of common sense and that "doesn't want to hurt you" knows that NO ONE deserves to be abused and especially not a kid so what he was saying is pure bs and please don't believe any of it.
I'm not gonna tell you that you should just cut him out of your life because I obviously don't know the whole story and that is completely up to you but maybe you guys should just wait till you both have calmed down before you speak again.
Yeah the last argument I had with him was because of that. It was almost as bad as this one although he never made a direct reference to my abuse or my depression.
Writer of the blue comments (aka B) is allowing his personal frustrations (aka sewage) out, which has to run downhill like all plumbers know. He has chosen someone he considers lower than himself that can't really do offense to him, thus not real defense challenge/consequences results from him flushing his toilet on them to make himself feel better. He dares NOT to pick on strangers and may even think forgiveness is a factor is selection of who he flushes on.
I don't see Love here certainly, not even in future and if this is a form of friendship, I think you can flush it and shop for something better ASAP without ANY further conversation/explanation to draw you back in & further exasperate you. Share this with someone older that cares to validate this opinion.
Just end the relationship, you two are nasty to each other but the person in blue sounds waaaay more of a dick than the person in grey. They sound nasty and arrogant and spiteful where the other person sounds far more rational and genuinely upset with how things are.
Go find another guy. One that's decent. One that won't push the row to further boundaries. A guy who stays calm and cool. They are about, you just have to dig a bit harder to find them.
You were too nice in this conversation. Something is mentally wrong with that guy.
But the question is, Why did you still stay with him when he was acting up (calling you bad in bed, making fun of your body, etc)? Do you not have any self-worth?
If you had broken up with him once he said those things, I don't think this conversation wouldv'e happened
Like you, I've been in a relationship with a dickhead just like him. I spoke to like 10 people regarding the situation and they all said it was the guy's fault.
You're a beautiful girl, Pretty girls should be protected by princes, not insulted by frogs like him.
Yeah it's pretty obvious that it's you dude. Would friends really send each other screenshots in this?
My question is why are the girls always the ones who act super sarcastic and never take it seriously and basically act like dicks? In every conversation or argument? Because they have no actual good points?
@DarkHumorRUs ... I may have sent screenshots to my best friend Amy... oh god Im really not helping my case here. And I swear I'm usually not horrible it's just when I get really pissed off I dont get angry and shout I just get bitch and sarcastic. To be fair he deserved a lot less attention from me but I was trying so hard not to hurt his feeling at first. This is the second time that we've been at each other's throats. Ugh we just didn't work in a relationship at all and I regret those two weeks so much because it completely ruined our friendship... or at least u ruined our friendship because of it. Anyway I think I needed a good rant to total strange to get some of this crap of my chest.
Ugh I want to headbutt him... because whenever we talk we always butt heads Hahaha. ... ha... get it? Ha... ha... ha... oh god whoever let's me tell jokes should be locked up. Wait that's me? Ah well at least I tried right?
Here we see the typical girl trying to be funny by trying to be weird. She uses the popular "tell an unfunny joke and laugh at self" method. It does not seem to be very successful.
And here we see the male using the commentating method of communicating. It is quite fainting as now David Attenborough is the only thing the "typical" girl can think about.
Just another example of why I want to bang my head on a wall! You don't have to be with someone who talks to you like that, you made the choice to say in the relationship. Make the choice to leave and choose a better partner next time. Jeez
The girl. I think that he sincerely felt bad in the beginning but she pushed it a little too far. It would have been better if she was mature about it.
I should cut it off and take it home with me Hahaha don't think it would be that bad though considering he doesn't exist... unless of course you count my loving relationship with food xD
Naww :( I'm sorry. I only just started dating this year and so far I've had two breakups and a guy who bailed on me so I figure it might be good to take a break from relationships for a little while you know?
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