POLL - Time to stop giving women MONEY?

Question

In the western world, women make a lot of money and take a vast amount things using dating, relationships, marriage, divorce etc.

Women in their 20s and 30s now outearn men and the reverse gender pay-gap is increasing.

Yet many women still expect that they're going to be paid for on a date or otherwise. Apparently there's still nothing like "girls for free" because women love taking men's money.

One of the most important things is to have a good car, a good house, a stable job etc. Even when women are the breadwinners, they keep the man as a cuck, and don't give him the money he desires like it would be the other way around... instead they take whatever little money he earns.

Women are also experts at making it look like they're in trouble and need money.

So is it time to stop giving women money?

Watermelonoma · Accepted Answer

eh i wouldn't be too worried about women reversing the wage gap any time soon. The majority of women graduate with soft degrees that have little demand according to data. Not enough of them graduate with a STEM degree, and so they are ill prepared for whats coming in the very near future. I keep trying to remind guys of what's going on in world monetary system, and how things are already changing very rapidly. Based on the changes taking place, much of the progress women have made will likely be rolled back, especially when you consider how few of them actually invest their money, least of all in assets like gold or bonds. All im trying to say is that guys are generally a little more prepared for whats coming, based partly on what they choose to major in and how often they actually invest the money they earn into very necessary assets.

I mean shit, i was just talking to a fellow 25 year old dude on here just yesterday who had started investing in U. S. Treasury Bonds. You'll almost never come across a woman doing things like that because one of the fundamental differences in my view which separates men from women is that men have an almost genetic affinity for taking risks. I've read studies on this showing it to be largely based on our evolutionary role as hunter gatherers, as we needed to take more risks and weigh them against potential outcomes in order to kill prey. So guys really need to stop sweating about what women are doing, and just make sure that they themselves are prepared for the changing dynamics. If you are prepared, nothing else will matter

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would only keep the money separate. I don't see why so many people don't do that.

Kris85 · Accepted Answer

Another bitter lonely man that hates himself and takes it out on women.

Some women, and I mean SOME , do expect the man to give them money or pay for everything but many of us can pay our own way and we expect to as well. Every date I have gone on, I make sure I have money and my share and if he insists on paying , I'm not gonna deny him. It's called being courteous. I've also paid and bought my dates drinks when we are out and about. It's really not a big deal. I had a guy come and spend a weekend with me a few weeks ago and we went out both nights and I didn't pay a dime for any dinners or drinks or entertainment. Why? Because he WANTED to pay. I offered my share and he dismissed it. If you stopped being so bitter about petty little things like this , your romantic life would probably be a whole lot happier. Don't let something stupid consume the way you look at relationships and dates.

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

I agree. Not just for your reasons. You make good points, but also because guys complain A LOT about this crap, and yet they CONTINUE TO DO THE SAME THING.
Guys complain if they don't "get anything" at the end of the date.

Also, I don't really agree with depending on someone else's money. Unless you have to, like if you're sick. Or you're in between jobs, maybe yea. Borrow money. If they want to be nice and give you it, ok. I guess accept it but still try and pay them back.

I always offer to pay for the date and I have. It's not the end of the world to pay for someone else.

Azara · Accepted Answer

so in other words yore saying women are now in the position men have been for 100s of years? earning their own and taking yours. I don't know if this is true , but i suppose a bit of poetic justice never hurt anyone. keeps people honest. ;)

as for me, I've never 'taken' money rom a guy. which somehow pisses them off. interferes with manhood or something dumb and artificial like that. mad of i do mad if i dont--make up your minds lol

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

I'm ok gifting to people. I even am known to spoil previous GFs, it's just when they try to pressure, coerce, demand, or expect you to that I get really put off.
I can't stand entitled women. I wish it was easier for me to determine entitled women earlier on too, I could have saved myself so many first dates it's ridiculous.

BreatheMe19 · Answer

wtf are you talking about? I make my own and support myself (with some help from my parents) oh plus, I used to give my ex money for his rent all the time. stop making stupid generalizations. If you're being used for money, that's on you.

HowRUbBuddy · Answer

iam not complaining about paying i really dont mind as long as its not a huge sum of money and iam getting something in return ( a girlfriend ) if iam just giving her good time and then she's like " no were friends " she can forget about it , the only girl iam willing to pay for is my girlfriend

CuriousKait · Answer

I agree that women shouldn't be handed money. However, it's not like we should be given less than men. And in reply to what you said about dating: Men CHOOSE to pay for the date. I haven't heard of anyone being forced to pay unless this force was societal normalities. I think that whoever asked for the other person to go out somewhere with them, that person should pay.

heartnthemiddle · Answer

This day in age us human have to depend on each other to make earning in order to survive. One partner earning money will not cut it when needing a little going for night outs. (theater, danceing, sport activity, etc.) I beleive it is easier for a women to beg for money then guy

apple24 · Answer

POLL - Time to stop giving women MONEY?
wow that harsh... man I need money for my future hungry kids... what if the father leaves? huh? what am i suppose to do? You made this baby with me than you can't just blame me! You pay for your own goddamn kids!

Anonymous · Answer

I just can't care about this. It's unseemly to be so concerned about it. The kind of guy I am and want for a friend doesn't try to parse the bill, he throws an extra $20 on the table rather than even look at it.

Dale1982 · Answer

They always want to go on holiday don't they? Usually to pose in bikinis all day. My bosses daughter and wife are never done taking money and fucking off abroad. He's sick of it. Women live for money and shiny things that's what makes them so weak. I can't stand people who worship money so I'll never take on a golddigger

Ulyss · Answer

Omfg the shit I see on this site who the hell actually gives money too women xD

sean1234 · Answer

I guess it happens, but is there anything that can be done about it? Voting on this won't change anything which is why I won't. I only care about getting with a good woman in the future,

ClassicRocker · Answer

I agree, if for some reason you're giving women money, then you should stop.

karahiri · Answer

you don't even have any money to give. step off your soapbox.

Anonymous · Answer

Works for me, personally. But guys won't be able to hook bimbos and gold diggers that are better looking and much younger than them without it.

q2rfasv · Answer

Where is "let people do whatever they want"? I always pay for myself, but if some guy wants to pay for a woman on a date, or a woman wants the guy to pay, it's their business, not mine.

jordan90 · Answer

My solution to this problem? Earn more money.

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