so I have known this guy for 5 years and in the last few months we have gotten really close and its obvious to both of us that we want to be more than friends, but there has been no discussion on the matter.
we would talk every night and see each other every other day. I spoke of him to friends at work, and this I realize now was a bit of a mistake.
one evening we were hanging out at my apartment and my roommate came home with one of our friends from work. as soon as she saw him she went rambling on about everything I said about him at work and how, awesome I said he was. all good things of course.
the rest of the night seemed to go well, he was more comfortable and affectionate. but I'm afraid he was a bit overwhelmed, as I haven't seen him since, and that was a week and a half ago. we still talk but the conversations aren't quite the same.
I'm not sure what to think on the matter and I'm afraid I lost him. any advice or opinions?
we would talk every night and see each other every other day. I spoke of him to friends at work, and this I realize now was a bit of a mistake.
one evening we were hanging out at my apartment and my roommate came home with one of our friends from work. as soon as she saw him she went rambling on about everything I said about him at work and how, awesome I said he was. all good things of course.
the rest of the night seemed to go well, he was more comfortable and affectionate. but I'm afraid he was a bit overwhelmed, as I haven't seen him since, and that was a week and a half ago. we still talk but the conversations aren't quite the same.
I'm not sure what to think on the matter and I'm afraid I lost him. any advice or opinions?
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It seems that he lose interest.