Why do girls play games with guys ?

[Anonymous]

she knows I like her and her friend told me she liked me. but she keeps playing games and it hurts me , does it mean she really likes me or just messing with my feelings

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+1 y

i think its only me she plays games with , is this her way of showing she's interested in a weird way

[lorahayes]

shes probably just being an idiot and 'testing' you to see how much you like her. you can either

a) go along with it until she tires of this (I don't recommend this one lol)

b) confront her, tell her you like her, ask if she really likes you and ask why she's messing you around because its not helping

c) just ignore her stupid games, and she will either come round and stop acting that way or think you don't like her anymore (which might make her more desperate to have you)

good luck!

[ChicaDelMar]

She's afraid to put her feelings out there in case she gets hurt. It also means she isn't entirely sure of your intentions or how much you like her.

[Blackkid]

Women are just as immature as men sometimes. I can't tell you what it means; maybe you should take a stand and be firm, if nothing comes of it forget it. Time isn't for wasting.

[Irrelevance]

They do it to test guys. When girls play games - don't react. Do the opposite to what they want you to do or call their bluff.

[1213lm]

Yes it is a test but if you do the opposite that is just stupied!! she wants to know how he feels and if you do the opposite then you are giving the wrong thing and she will leave! he should just ask her out!

[Irrelevance]

"if you do the opposite that is just stupied!!" - precisely the reason why guys should do it, it annoys girls to no end and teaches them NOT TO PLAY GAMES OR TEST THEM.

And so what if the girl leaves? She shouldn't be playing games in the first place. If anything, it helps the guy out because he's missed out on a girl who messed with guys heads.