" If you're in a formal environment though, button that shit to the top and put a tie on while you're at it."... Would you say the same about men who don't have chest hair?
Yup but that's because that's the inherent dress code of the environment you're in. If you've got a more lax environment that allows you to go business casual then sure, feel free to unbutton the first button or two if you want to until a client (if you deal with them) or an exec with a stick up his/her ass comes in.In any even a guy with no chest hair is allowed to have his chest showing, a guy with chest hair is too, unless that hair is a security/health/product risk (but in any case like that, the hairless ones are also required to cover up as much as possible so that's effectively a null point as far as I can tell).
Some chest hair?The last guy has hell chest hairsI guess it would look ugly to women
Pffft - that last pic is middling to average. I've seen way hairier chests.And why should it look ugly to women? I've known women who love it.
I don't know why it would look ugly and repulsive to women. It just is a fact. It looks messy and wild, it isn't aesthetically pleasing at all.Women love it according to your experience?
Why is it that so many people are surprised by that?Yes, there are women that love hairy chested guys.
It's obviously surprising that women Love it , because as we all know women want waxed men.You stating different thing altogether.Do you have personal experience with women and their appreciation for hairy man?
'we all know' do we? We all know that people talk out of their ass when they generalise.Yes. as a guy who has a chest that is somewhere around the bottom pic there, I have known women who love it.
Never had a woman edr poke comments on your chest hair or maybe asked you to try and shave it off because she is uneasy wiht the hairs on the body?
nope.But then, if they are so shallow that that would be an issue, they don't make it onto my radar anyway.
If a woman is really pretty and gorgeous as well as sexually appealing, but she hates hairy men and asks you to wax everywhere including groin, would you do it to achieve her love and sex?
This is a hypothetical - because I already have a beautiful wife who loves the chest hairBut no, I wouldn't.
She has accepted you for sake of love r she used to like hairy men even before as well?
She was a fan of chest hair. The beard, she's so-so on.
You even have a beard!OKAY. Why don't you shave the beard when your wife clearly dislikes it?
I said "so so on" - not dislikes. Sure she likes me shaved, she doesn't mind my beard when I wear it some ways, doesn't like others.However, it is my face, I get to choose how I have it, not others. It's not like she only loves me because of how my face looks.
Lucky enough that you got a woman who doesn't Hayes your hairiness
She likes me for me, hair or no hair. The hair really is just window dressing. And she isn't unique in appreciating body hair.
Hair is just window dressing, means?I feel she is unique in appreciation of hairy chest, other women font like it.
Well, you'd be wrong. And we discussed that. If you don't believe what I am saying, that's your perogative. It doesn't change the fact I have known lots of women who loved the chest hair.
Women or even men wearing shirt with top two buttons undone is ok / acceptable and in case of women it look appealing and beautiful as well. The hairless cleavage looks aesthetically pleasing ad erotic.But that can't be said about the thick dense chest hairs, unfortunately.Thick dense chest hairs doesn't look aesthetically pleasing or sexually appealing in any way.That's why I ask this.You can't compare it with a women exposing her chest skin or cleavage
I feel like each photo was sexy, so in my opinion they do relate. Also, in the aspect that if you are proud of your body than what others think shouldn't dictate how you present yourself.
Even the last pic and the second pic seems sexy to you?Sexy but it won't be beautiful and aesthetically pleasing as is smooth chest of men and cleavage of women, agree?
And do you feel if a man is confident of his super hairy body then even women who dislike it will be seemingly attracted to it in the end?
Yes, every single pic & no I don't agree with the second statement. I feel hairy chests are just as aesthetically pleasing as boobs are.
And are super hairy chest / abdomen equally sexy as boobs are?Are really hairy male legs / thighs equally sexy as sexy shapely smooth female legs are?What about smooth male chest and legs? ;)
http (:)//cf. girlsaskguys. com/q1812410/d6d4492a-46aa-4e2b-a362-243f2ddb3e0e-m. jpgWhat about such a chest?Use http// instead of http (:)//And see
I get it! Men & women are built differently. But YES! I love the differences about us. I find both equally appealing. I'm sorry that I'm a unicorn about my opinions & whatnot. lol :p
Bisexual? LolDid you see the link?Is that sexy and beautiful as well?
I just share my opinions... I'm sorry if I don't say what you like to hear.
I feel this thick chest hairs loke so creepy and such men should better shave it.Despite being a woman you found them sexy?
@Ooohyeahhhh Yes... fucking hell, how many times do I need to say yes before it's taken as a serious answer?
You seem to be irritated by my question. I didn't mean to do so. I am super hairy everywhere even on my shoulder and upper back, hence I couldn't believe it.Sorry. So , my level of hairiness is also acceptable?
Am sorry if I irritated you
@Ooohyeahhhh I'm sorry, I just get annoyed when I have to repeat myself.
See what @Jxpxtxr has to say :(
Why the first two are ok while others are ugly?
I never said they were ugly they just can't pull it off like the first two.
Then what do you mean by can't pull it off?
Yeah. Would you mind if I message you?
I don't have access to inbox. :-/
Do it quickly and delete post or picture from site link?
I can't post links being level 1.You don't have access to your own inbox? Mean?If you don't mind , I can follow your profile here, you see my profile and message me , I will message you back.Is it ok?
How do I do that?
Your identity is hidden and many people are following me, how do I know who you are.
I am just now following your profile and I have my shirtless picture in my profile pic. Thatd me.See and get back to me.
Did you see it?
Yeah I think its very attractive :-)
" very attractive"?😄😆Nice to hear thatCan you please message me?
Why do you want me to message you? :-o
Ok leave that. No need to message me.Just tell , would it be shocking to you to see a man this furry the first time you get to see him naked in front of you?Would you comment about his fur and ask him to groom it at the very least?
I like it the way it is. And no I won't be shocked. It probably feels like a teddy-bear :-D hahha
By the way what's your nationality?
How about you ask all this by messaging me?Don't mind, I don't bite :pTeddy bear! Oh, it seems wild and animalistic?
No the cute teddy-bear :-/ its just I thought Indian guys don't have pink nipples :-o so I asked. Sorry!!!
As if you have seen many Indian men and their nipples :( naughty girl ;)I also have hairy shoulders and sided of back as well as Very hairy legs and arms. Frrl insecure and abnormal especially when I compare myself to women i feel abnormal
I thought Indians are dark so they have dark nipples. I am really confused about life at this moment. No I actually never saw any Indian person's nipples loool :-o
You are saying hairy men to be teddy bears and then you also day they are cute and attractive, firstly you are putting them down by calling them teddy bear and then say it's cute and attractive. It's confusing me.See the last man's chest hair, it's so much.
@Ooohyeahhhh what the hell._. Teddy-bears are cute. The second guy is the most attractive guy :-) he looks like a nice person the rest are making too many faces.
Not every Indian man has dark nipples / genitals as you might assume it to be :(Do you like the second guys beard?See his chest hairs are so up and rising uoto the neck :(
Yeah his beard looks really nice :-D
If a man has hairy shoulders and backDo you see it as bit if abnormal?If you marry such a man would you be afraid that your kids might be very hairy as well?
Being a Hairy man I appreciate women like you who are rare in liking hairiness and even openly accepting it.Thanks ms. That's rare but I appreciate
@ambackatitagain :-) why is it rare?
Now I exactly don't know why women much prefer smoothness over lot of hair, I guess part of it is due to porn, movies and models. Ever seen men in all those things? They basically are bare Hairless neck to toe and are buffer up. Maybe that's what women are used to.But I am bit more hairy than that last picture shown here and I feel bit out of place in today's society because everyone else , including men and women, are obviously smooth, I don't know they are naturally hairless or are into beauty salon treatment, but most are way smoothie than me and I am quite different from other men and obviously different than women!
@ambackatitagain I like hairy men. Hair feels soft and cuddly like teddybear loool. :-oHowever, only source of internet is my phone. I hardly listen to radios with adverts, its usually chill or magic soul. I own no TV. I never buy magazines. I avoid media at all costs.
Lol what? You don't listen to radios, you don't even own a TV, and you don't buy magazine?Newspaper?So basically you aren't exposed to models, porno men and all such stuff?Interesting thing dear. What do you do and what are your hobbies?You sound interesting woman, don't mind.Bit you might have other girl friends around you and you might know through them that women dislike hairy men?
@ambackatitagain well I watch things on my phone like majority of them are thriller tv movies lol from 1980s. I do watch erotica. And porn is like curiosity or if I am killing time lool. Majority of the time I like listening to soul music, indie.I go on sites like this, to interact with people. At the moment I am in solitude mode where I don't want to see anyone. I have this mode a lot, where I go into my little cave and hide. Lol. I like to bake cakes, make bread, biscuits. I sometimes make toys from old socks lols. I made a little doorstopper.I made my partner a phone case.I clean and tidy the house. I like to organise things.I like reading a lot so I go to library and learn things like how to cook something new, or diy etc. I make my own cosmetics like scrubs and lip balms. I was saving up to get sewing machine, and would like to make projects like maybe little pillows or clothes. It will take time but I'll do it. Lol.I save my jars, and make jams and candy.
I like to make things or reuse old items and make something new out of it.I also like to dress up and look good.Then I don't own a hover I use the dustpan and brush. I can't be bothered to wait for laundry so I handwash. And this takes my time... its like I have no time, it flies by.
Quite a lot of things for you to do!Cool woman.Haven't you ever wondered why you like hairy men while the Norm is that the other girls don't, I mean do you even k ow that other girls hate hairy men, maybe you might have got to k ow this from your girl friends
@ambackatitagain thanks :-) well its something women don't talk about... only one or two of my friends spoke they liked beards. Also I come from a culture where women and men are natural as possible. We don't wear makeup and men keep beards and don't shave. So I saw it as the norm. I think it's my lack of media that's why what I like is biological not societal.For example the way I look is not the norm therefore I am not attractive to many people. But I don't even use shampoo or any makeup, that's literally how I look every day and morning. And I am happy I have confidence to walk outside with nothing on.
I think it's my lack of media that's why what I like is biological not societal!!!You mean biologically women are meant anf supposed to be higgly attracted toeards hairier men and not towards these waxed bare model type men?
Why are women meant to be biologically attracted towards hairier men over less hairy men?And what about men who don't even grow proper beard or leg hair? :/
@airishere hair has a scent, a soft feel to it, you can feel things, its like protection. There is a reason why its visible and in my eyes its because its meant to be for attraction purposes. Elderly people and children don't have visible hair. However, young adults do.I think bit different and outside the box. So I'm explaining how my brain thought of this. Also I love learning human psychology. I have learnt that we are attracted to three things:*biological*familiarity*societal pressureThese are the forces. Now our tribe is one that has conquered the whole world, western culture. If we get kicked out... really even jungle is illegal to live in lol. In UK you can't burn fire in woods or hunt. So where do you go if you get kicked out in jail. No one wants to be sexless and bullied and live with a murder for inmate. Therefore, we force ourselves to like what others like.
Elderly people don't have body hair? Says who?If a man is a hairy man as a young adult he has hairs on his body even as an old man , sometimes even he gets hairier with age. His hair turns grey on chest and stuff. Looks awful 🤓Hair is there for protection? Then what about the women? Because women have boobs and hardly have any sign of hair on their torsos.And I don't get your last lines about jungle and all.What's about that?
Therefore, we force ourselves to like what others like?Why
@airishere we have different hair. But the hair is still there if you look closely in direct sunlight.All women have hair everywhere z. Some women have very fine white hair. But its there. Baldness is a defect. Elderly people loose body hair everyone knows this. We force ourselves to like what others like because we don't want to be attacked... it happens subconsciously. I would have to talk for maybe a whole day for you to get the point. I've been researching this since a long time.Look if only me and you were in this planet... and no one else. Eventually we would fall in love. Its as simple as that. Familiarity is very important. That's why we fall in love with people who do things like our parents. It's very complex. But I will explain to you everything if you want to understand.
Don't call that very very very fine fuzz on women as body hair. Seriously, if that's hairs then the men in pics have fur? LolSo, when you say that you like hairy men do you mean those very very fine fuzz? Hardly visible fuzz?What have you been researching about since long time? This hairiness thing? LolYou mean women deep down do find hairy men sexually appealing but hide their feelings because they feel society will feel of then as weird?But, what about when a woman openly asks her man to shave off his chest even though they are in their bedroom and no one else knows that she is having sex with a hairy man? How about the way a thick hairy men looks?Maybe it feels softer to touch but the way it looks?
@airishere look the evidence is there. Women who are from older generation probably prefer hairy men. This is because men in TV were hairy. Women now prefer less hairy men because of men in TV. Really its all in the subconscious.If you and I were alone in the whole planet I tell you even if we both looked ugly we'd accept each other because familiarity is what creates love in my opinion. I have been researching about familiarity. I like to read a lot. I even do theories and studies. I am a researcher by my degree. Yes I think many people deep down prefer natural - and they train themselves to like what others like. Have you questioned yourself why you do what you do? If you were only person on this planet would you do xyz? .. I love my guys fur it feels soft and warm. :-)
If there were only two people then yeah they both would fall for eachother and probably even have intimate moments no matter how ugly both of them because they would then just want to end their loneliness and also satisfy their biological needs of sex. It doesn't mean they would love each others ugliness. I know a lot of old women who get their men to even shave legs and butt , chest shaving is pretty obvious for them. Not most older women love hairy men. Is your man a hairy bodied guy and he doesn't shave anything because you like him how he is?What if his body hair starts to turn grey as he ages?
I have hair thick dense hairs everywhere. It's so so dense on my chest and stomach that it's like a whole thick shag carpet and almost hides my skin under it. If look down at my own torso all i see I black hair cover... makes me wanna cry and cringe
@airishere why you cry *hugs*I like his hair even if it turns grey. I love all of him his pimples, his imperfections and him. :-p
@airishere I have never fell in love with love at first sight its always been... gradual. When I met my partner he was a human male. Then a friend. Then a best friend. Then a boyfriend. Then a fiancé. Then a husband. And things I didn't find attractive in him then I am slowly finding more attractive and a turn on. :-) So familiarity is important. Unless I am a rare breed lol.
I get that you love your partner because you love him and hence you love everything about him even if that's ugly.But if a man doesn't have hairy body then he won't have to worry about greying beard and body hairs. That's my point.I cry because my body is ugly because it's covered I hair. Thick desne hairs. i am pretty sure my torso is way more hairy than a woman's pubes are even when she leaves them all natural.I am that hairy TBH.I also have hairy shoulders, upper arms, butt cheeks and upper back.Arms...I can't even wear half sleeves shirt and shorts because all you will see is Curly thick coarse messy hairs.Black thick curly hair peeep out of shirt button.
What were the things that you sign liked about your man? His chest hair was one of the things that you disliked initially?
@airishere well I didn't think much of his body hair then suddenly I liked it. But I've always preferred hairier men. To be honest beasts look pretty to women sometimes :-) masculine men don't look cute, they are tall, hairy, muscular.
I don't want to be cute. But I don't like being EXCESSIVELY hairy either.Hair hair hair hair hair EVERYWHERE.Some parts less hairy and some have ton thick shag carpet.Not appealing at all.Not aesthetic to even look at.A woman's thighs are so bald. Mine, ugh fucking hairy.A woman's chest back shoulders stomach is so so so bald, mine so so so hair on it.Women would like it? No way.Can you do a poll question about this topic?I can't ask anymore now
@airishere I did.
I want ti follow that question.Did you ask it anonymously?Can you provide me with the link of that question?
ThanksI am sure hairy men would be less preferred
Hey there warm apple :pHow are you doing?Wass up!
Just a lol?No reply no hi hello or some small talk.Awww :/Anyway, how is your question doing?LooolI guess it didn't get enough answers because you don't asked it interestingly. No?
@airishere ugh why don't you ask it yourself ._.
People won't answer me now I guess.So hey did you get new response in it?
In a professional environment is it okay for smooth skinned men and women to expose lot of chest?
LOL no the opposite. It's not ok to expose that at work.
The question title asked if it is inappropriate. Yes, it is inappropriate.
Actually I don't mean expose deliberately. I mean when it's lot of hairs and its visible from the top collar button.And i don't mean professional environment.As a woman when you see this thick chest hairs peeking out of a man's shirt and you get an idea of how super hairy he can be under the clothes does it put you off?
Can you easily date and even get intimate with a man who has super hairy body and don't ask him to shave it?
Oh. It's you. Again. Maybe you should find a nice barber to date. They LOVE hair.
Sorry?Poking fun of my hairiness?
You'd like that wouldn't you? But no, it doesn't bother me, I like people for personality not looks, you won't get your humiliation fetish met here.
I don't have any humiliation fetish. I don't know why you feel so
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Being such hairy man I feel insecure and want to know what other men and women who don't have hairs on chest feel about men who grow tons of hairs
I understand, you can shave it or use an electrical hair trimmer on it, it will grow back depending on the person but i also suggest wearing a pendant or smt, i dont know something you like because if people will look at your chest and see just hair that is all they see, but if you wear smt it will distract their attention from the hair exclusively, i have orthodox crosses and a russian dogtag which people ask about more than chest hair when it is not shaved
Even I do feel girls hate when thick chest hair is visible to them publically
Lmfao this video.
Lol you can't be serious
@Warmapplecrumble Hahaha :P
@Warmapplecrumble Want to see more (of my typing)?
To be honest I prefer the typing over the video :-)
Finally answering the question:https://youtu.be/PDeY4__ez9Y
Dead bodies what? o. o I am confused by this video lolol
You can't compare big cleavage with thick dense chest hairs, come on.Cleavage has a beauty and doesn't look wild and messy as does lot of chest hair
Haha haha OK OK Don't hate this much :(What about lot of leg hairs?
And sorry, was being inconsiderate ig
Nah it's ok. I k ow Majority of women fee this ewwww for hairy men , unfortunately
What do you think makes some men pull it off while most can't?The last two pictures are tacky ad ugly and such men should wear high eck t shirt to hide it?
Yeah , that's gross.If you had this hairy problem then you would have shaved your body?
Why not so sure about shaving your body?
I shave when I want to shave. Sometimes I'm lazy
Means it's better to hide them or maybe shave them off?
Why not shave and then wear normal clothes like other people do?Why always wear round neck t shirt even in sweaty summer ad torture yourself?
Not a turn off as well?
Even SUPER hairy chest, stomach and hairy shoulders aren't a turn off at all?A waxed man and a super hairy man both would have equal sex appeal to you?
Yeah I don't mind it at all
Would you prefer it more if a super hairy man waxed it all off everything everywhere including legs?