What if all if men stopped approaching women?

[Vino81]

What if they stopped making the first move, flirting, pursuing and asking out females on dates. How do y'all feel the females would react this situation?

[lualesca]

The birth rate would decline dramatically, because there are women who refuse to take the first step and approach men, let alone men hanging out with other men in places like clubs, parties, etc. The pressure to approach a man surrounded by other men will be too much to women.

Women who do approach men would learn what it is like to get rejected by 90% of the men they approach. And this happens to a lot of men, if their game is not on point, they get rejected 90% to 95% of the time. Throughout time we have learnt to shrug it off and move on when we are rejected but women on the other hand would go nuts, and start questioning themselves, "did i come off too needy?", "am i ugly?", "do i look old?", "do i look slutty or too conservative?", "what did i do wrong?", "i am never gonna pass off my genes if no man accepts me!".

Since women are forced to make the first move, they will have to pay on first dates, and they will learn what it is like to pay for dates, and then get ghosted, in other words taken advantage off.

Men would hold have the last word over sex, we would decide when it happens. Of course there are some men who already have this sort of "power" over women, but that isn't the majority of men.

[Unit1]

In the first few days it would be nothing.

After a week or a few weeks while 100% of all men ignoring women some unrest from women would rise.

After a few months the unrest growed fast and desperation would start to take place. Some if not many women would become insecure about themselves a lot and will compete each another like we men do (who is the hottest after Jessica Rabbit?).
Women would try harder and harder to look their best.

Dozens of months after some women cannot take it. While the approaching women rate would rise maybe 10 to 25% (i estimate) the birthrate would heavily decline and the death counts continues to grow faster until it reaches a peak point. Our overpopulation problem is beginning to fix itself.

After a few years the population count has taken a very noticeable drop, angry and frustrated women, who cannot get a man to look at them or paying attention to them, let alone approaching them keeps increasing.

But that is never going to happen as long as humanity exists.

[EmmyWinchester]

what about girls like me? I ask guess and girls alike, out all the time if I'm interested

[Unit1]

@EmmyWinchester Then you could get into a date with one of them.

[Whendutycalls]

I've asked my fair share of men out on dates. And in my opinion if I'm the one to ask them out then I'm the one that's gonna pay. But I've also heard from several men that it makes them feel unmanly if a woman asks them out and pays. Takes away their masculinity or something.

[lualesca]

"I've also heard from several men that it makes them feel unmanly if a woman asks them out and pays", this comes from a place of weakness deep within themselves, they are trying to prove they are manly, if you are manly you don't have to prove anything, people will notice how manly you are.

It's like the woman who claims to be strong and independent that needs no man, when in reality that is approval seeking behavior because you are just trying to prove you are strong... i mean just shut up, if you are strong and independent it will show up on itself on a daily basis, without the need to having to say it.

[Robin48]

@lualesca

When someone ask you if you what to go to eat, see a movie, travel to the beach, go camping, etc. etc. Whatever. The person who asking does not have to pay the bill. This means each person pay their part of the events. That also goes on a date which I never real did in my teens or young adults years. My relationship other others was a brother and sister time together. Being a christian. I know taking advance of others is a sin against God. This junk about mens and paying is just junk (But I've also heard from several men that it makes them feel unmanly if a woman asks them out and pays. Takes away their masculinity or something). People need to get off of this gender junk and just love each other. Try it, life will be better.

[lualesca]

@Robin48 I am by no means against loving each other and being equal, women won't pick up the bill.

"When someone ask you if you what to go to eat, see a movie, travel to the beach, go camping, etc. etc. Whatever. The person who asking does not have to pay the bill. This means each person pay their part of the events." Say that to women.

"That also goes on a date which I never real did in my teens or young adults years." Then how would you know. If you are in a position of dating multiple women, i would please ask you to go out and do it, and see how many of them will pick up the bill and say how much does each one have to pay. Out of 100 women probably 1 or maybe 2 will do it, the rest are just gonna act oblivious to the existence of the bill that's in front of her.

"Being a christian. I know taking advance of others is a sin against God." You don't need to be Christian to know taking advantage of others is bad, your parents are supposed to teach you that.

[Robin48]

@lualesca

Sorry but you are wrong. Most people who I am round with do not see what you see. Dating is use by female to bentift their self and that why you female have so much relationship issues.

[Robin48]

Just because someone ask you if you what to go somewhere does not mean they pay the events. Just like I as my neighbor if he and his two sons what to have a camping one weekend in August of this year to just spend some father and sons time. He pay his part of the trip, I pay my part of the trip. I not having a drama with you over this. I have more people behind me on what I said than you have behind you on what you said. We not having a drama.

[lualesca]

@Robin48
I do believe each one should pay their own expenses. However that barely ever happens, that's why i said, "say that to women".

[Robin48]

@lualesca

The world has come to the point is how I use someone to get free. You see this everyday.

[Robin48]

@lualesca

Well, my dear friend, if women does not want to help with the bill. She is gone. it bye, bye, and bye.

[douride2]

There would be a collective sigh heard across the lands.

[AleDeEurope]

Rate suicides in women would skyrocket for the fact they'll believe they're too ugly and undesirable. Men's attention is the glue that is keeping many women alive. Without it, their insecurities will destroy them.

xD

[TheUltimateSucc]

They would literally die. Women won't admit it but most literally need a man to take care of her and need his validation. The species would go extinct or drastically drop its number because not enough women would pursue men. Me personally Im already helping contribute, I refuse to marry and have kids, and im not approaching any women anytime soon.

[Robin48]

This is why women have so much problems in dating, or just going out. It all self center. Using others for their only needs and than they wonder why they have relationship issues.

[TheUltimateSucc]

Exactly.

[EmmyWinchester]

... and what if you're a lesbian? do they just not exist in your universe? if you're a lesbian I garentee a woman will do the approaching because if she's not it's not a lesbian relationship.

[TheUltimateSucc]

Lesbians are a myth.

[EmmyWinchester]

does that make me half a myth? I'm bisexual

[TheUltimateSucc]

No. Pure lesbians are the myth

[EmmyWinchester]

actually I know a few lesbians. they aren't together or anything but they're definitely gay

[Robin48]

Lesbian can not get along with each other.

[TheUltimateSucc]

The highest rate of domestic violence is from lesbians.

[EmmyWinchester]

@Robin48 wtf. how do you come to that conclusion?

[TheUltimateSucc]

Look it up. Real statistics show that lesbians beat the hell out of eachother more than gay men and straight women/men

[EmmyWinchester]

and you, can I have a source for that conclusion?

[EmmyWinchester]

we both know I'm too lazy and stubborn to go out and look it up

[TheUltimateSucc]

Im too lazy too look it up and link it lol. You can google it though

[TheUltimateSucc]

well fucc, were both too lazy lmao

[EmmyWinchester]

same. alright I'm looking it up.

[TheUltimateSucc]

okay lol

[EmmyWinchester]

woah. you got me bro. I looked it up and in a survey of 1,100 lesbians over 50% reported having been physically abused by her partner

[TheUltimateSucc]

Ya lol

[EmmyWinchester]

jeez. well I forfeit In this debate or whatever it was. have a good day, happy holidays!

[TheUltimateSucc]

lol you too. Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!

[Anonymous]

They'd go crazy. Girls wouldn't have anyone to give them the validation they need. They would also be pissed because they would have to make the first move and we'd probably never hear the end of their constant nagging.

[Robin48]

Most relationship that females have with men is to benefit their self.

[Opinion Owner]

lol are you part kf mgtow. Women get into relationships for the same reasons as guys. Both genders start relationships for one or all of these reasons: sex, love, money, or to build a family.

[Robin48]

I am just refer to the dating business only. Just the women who are looking for a good time. Having other pay for their activities. Some women date to have their sexual needs meet. These relationship are most one side using other for their own self need. On down the road we
Than you have the other relationship which is total differences. It a two way street. It involved each other. They both are benefit for the relationship. They not self seeking. They are not self center. They support each other. They share their money equally among theirself. Their love for each other is not lust or self seeking. Their love is balances between them. They have a more positive attitude.

[Robin48]

In college when I meet my wife that our relationship was based on God word. We were support of each other. Our relationship was not to use each other for our own benefits. Our relationship was not about sex. For we both know that sex belongs in marriage between a husband and wife. Our relationship was not for the purpose of money. Our relationship was more of a spiritual relationship. Having the love of God for each other. We both respect each other self space. Seeing each other as a human being that had a soul. We were not slaves to each other. We were brother and sisters. So the love we had was not of sexuall needs. It was a spiritual need of ministry to each other. We both pay our own activities. We did not have any basis gender rules. We did not gossip or talk trash behind each other backs. We were not a sex object for each other. Our relationship was base on God word, not the world thinking.

[Opinion Owner]

what I was saying is that guys do the exact same things as girls for the same exact reasons. guys always use girls for sex and vice versa. guys use girls for status as well. believe it or not but having a hot girlfriend is a position of high status. both genders are far from perfect

[Robin48]

I total agree brother, there no differs between gender. We all are human, same, mind, same desired. How he hang it and how we meet others is best on how we were brought up in our home. I culture (society) plays a big role in this and it cause us to have issues.

[Itsmeyay]

We would have a conversation here about how men need to man up.

[llorando]

They'd start getting off their butts and either demand men ask them out or ask men out directly.

[Kolya]

Less people on earth, way less... some countries might disappear

[Anonymous]

most men don't approach anyways. and I think girls like it. obviously because most women don't give a crap about men. most girls are actually into other girls.

[Robin48]

What if all if women stopped approaching men? Your question and this question works the same way. Have a nice day.

[rihanahir]

in most of my past relationships, I was the one to approach the guy...

[Robin48]

Male or female can ask each other out for event. There nothing immoral about that or sexists about it. Those who have issuse with this can seek counseling and get him with gender issues so you can come a better human. I was a teenager around 13 years old. My best friend family invited me to go camping. Well, I did. Guest what, I pay my part. Many people wait till someone as them out so they can get something free. I was not brought up like that. It wrong, and wrong. It like a single person I know who tell me the singles in his church had a picnic. This picnic also includes single parents with children. Well some came bring no food. They had children. We run out of food. Many who brought food never got anything to eat. Than the moms ask if they can take any food left over and take it home. That is nasty. Do you see the picture or you what me to explain it again to you. So my single friend told me he take a plate of food with him for the picnic and that the only food he eat.

[CT_CD]

No one would have sex.

[Dog19]

Awesome