If men completely stopped approaching women, what do you think would happen?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think a more accurate way of putting it would be: Now that men have completely stopped approaching women. I think it's already happened with men going MGTOW. And with that, there is a whole host of reasons why it has happened. The number 1. reason is result of feminism. For every action there is a reaction and there has been many actions brought on by feminism, a huge list. At the top of the attraction list, feminist developed this psychotic idea that men are attracted to women's brains. Men are NOT and never will be attracted to women's brains, it should be straight forward common sense.

No 2. of attraction is, feminism has created is the idea that women can put men aside and wait until they're in their 30's and all's well ends well, which is another fraud created by feminism.

Reason 3. Feminism has taught women to look like and be like men to look macho and butch all tattooed up and exotic etc, men aren't attracted to men. Reason 4. Feminist believe that men need to have special permission to look their way or approach women and it has caught on well, men that are not attractive to women are labeled creepy.

Reason 4. Feminism has taught women that it's OK to be loose, sleep around with any and every guy they desire. And at the end of the day after they've been though all the bad boys, they can run to the good guys and settle down. Not happening.

Reason 5. Feminism has taught and paved the way to allow double standards for women and in the end men end up resenting it, rightfully so.

A very small list here, but, it should be clear why men are choosing to go it alone.

passinby · Accepted Answer

I just saw that tonight while out and I wasn't in the mood for busht or bothering some woman that probably wanted to be left alone anyways so I just went home. But no one approached anyone in a hot spot and everyone just huddled by themselves.

I think everyone is becoming accustomed to just avoiding others to respect harassment issues. If you start to watch you will notice that men in general don't look at women anymore and I think your prophecy of a question is trending already. The woman avoidance is a real thing already and progressing.

So, if no men approach women anymore, you will simply see women taking the initiative and in that case I think testosterone bound women will extinct the feminine estrogen bound ones and we will over many years, say thousands, see women become the masculine mates. The men will be small highly expendable mates that get eaten by her once he has mated her.

It is true that every woman that pursued me and asked me out was higher in testosterone and they were more aggressive. I never had a very feminine girl ask me out and I only had those by asking them out myself.

Actually I was hoping a pill would come out to neutralize desire of women, but give it a few years.

AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

Women would have to approach men. However biology can't be changed, so women would still be more selective than men, so women would approach men less than men usually approach women.

If women approached men... I believe the ways to look good for the other sex would be the same. Men would have to be in a silent passive competition which at first seems easier but is less comfortable (silent competition lead to passive aggressive competition sometimes and that's too much internal tension), while women would have to be in an active competition which might look more aggressive but never creates the tension of passive aggressive competition, however they would have to face to be rejected more often than men would have to.

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

We would have more bitter, virgin-incel girls on G@G than guys.

Logorithim · Answer

I suspect In a lot of cases, girls would approach guys through other guys, people would hook friends up, or there would be matchmaking services or family members that would do it. A couple of stories that give an indication of what might happen:

I was once standing on a street in Seoul with two other guys and an guy who was almost certainly American approached us with a very bemused look on his telling us that a Korean woman upstairs in a restaurant was interested in one of us and described what she was wearing. We were bemused too, but were too curious to merely blow it off and went up there to check it out. She was indeed interested and had another girl with her and said she had to find a partner for the third guy. It took a couple of visits to her friends elsewhere in Seoul, but we found another friend of hers.

When my wife was an exchange student in Brazil, Brazilian women would approach her and the other Germans to ask if the German guys who were also there as exchange students were single (they were) and the German girls sometimes would introduce the Brazilians to the German guys (if they felt like it).

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The planet would be populated with horny people!

Benedek38 · Answer

A question I wondered about for a while now. Interesting indeed.

Well, let's see.
First of all, this would lead to a level of sexual segregation - more than likely men would prefer to be with other men, and women would therefore be forced to be with other women.

I firmly believe that this would contribute to the rise of homosexual behaviour in both groups.

Whether women would eventually start approaching men in masses - I don't know. My money is on the "not", but I honestly don't know.

However, the female interest towards individual men would probably increase. This would incentivise men to become more attractive in order to get more attention from women. I believe this would result in the standardisation of the "bro culture" or "gym culture", where men form friendships through physical activity and betterment of themselves.
Essentially, men would invest a lot in their looks.
Conversely women would start listening more to men's ideas of beauty about the female body, leading to them ALSO spending more time with self-improvement.

See, in a gynocentric society (that is, where the more valuable sex are women), women's filter for successful and competent men contributes to social development and high productivity.
Men on the other hand don't look for success in a women, but rather beauty and ability to reproduce, meaning women WOULDN'T become more productive to get men. And since we already established that men would spend more time on their appearance, I think this would lead to a largely inefficient, pretty hedonistic society where everyone was obsessed with the physical.

Or maybe I am full of shit.

What I don't fear is gender shift. As I have already pointed out, gender roles are rooted in biology, you can't change them by shifting or fixing one parameter.

But getting back to the previous line of reasoning - there would be some hate or hostility towards the opposite gender, naturally, and since men would be in the better position, I think we'd see an actual oppression of women, where they would be denegrated to secondary positions in society.
I think a great model to look at is Ancient Greece. The Greek men had little respect for women, seeing them as inferior. They would develop deep, oftentimes sexual relationships with other men; there was an obsession with physical improvement and the beauty of the male body - hence olympics, muscle shaped cuirasses, depictions of it on pottery, etc.

Rodgerinho · Answer

No difference. Really. I mean okay, SOME times, a guy approaching a girl can just, get in there. And push. And stay. And she's easygoing, so just, whatever. But is that love?

Realistically, women ALREADY choose and 100% decide who they want to be with, you're far more discerning and picky. So if guys stopped chasing? Women would just politely, shyly pop over and say hi. And I mean, we're still going to be horny and want it, it's just the chase that's gone.

Biggest difference? Female ego nosedives and the overall self-esteem of the female gender hits virtual rock bottom, in addition to the effort to look and feel good among other women and for guys just SKYROCKETING, beyond what it already is. And as a final butt-kicker, pussies around the world are overall far less moist and tender, as women no longer feel as special, as wanted, as needed.

Let's be fair. Everyone here innately feels it would be bad. I think that's the truth, a species, human or otherwise, that stopped being sexually driven? Would have problems. The only ones who vote thumbs up and think it's great that guys wouldn't chase are

- Naive women who haven't thought too far ahead
- Sadly, sexual abuse victims
- Lesbian feminists who want to get guys to step aside so they can get better access to dominate and creep on vulnerable girls. This category is surprisingly well populated

crazy8000 · Answer

Most likely it would be a bottle neck for a while, maybe a whole generation before those females that has survival instincts for the race will gradually become the approaches. those that doesn't adapt becomes extinct mental specimens just like it have been with the majority of men.
The bottle neck is a good thing for aur species in a survival aspect since we already are overpopulated as it is.
With expectations, the majority of female's would be extremely sexually frustrated and act funny in the beginning. that will go over to geting some on their own in the form of approaching men and developing social skills to be good at it in difference from now there the majority are very bad at it when they can't use as usually like showing body parts and grab body parts or say they want to get banged really bad, even say they love him.

It's already on the way but people aren't paying attention to notice with the hypothes that less men approach and more females have no other choice then to approach and seduce to get a mate.

MM442 · Answer

Men have already stopped approaching women because of the feminist movement and the me too movement that men are targeted for sexual harassment against women, even when the man is innocent and never did anything wrong. What was consenual now is sexual harassment, and to get back at men for doing nothing when women or young women wanted the man to approach her but didn't pick up on the subtle advances girls and women make expecting guys to always know, then girls and women falsely accusing guys of sexual harassment. Instead of the girls and women just telling us men they want a relationship. It's a well known fact that girls and women become sexually aroused and active before boys and men. Girls and women used to approach boys and men first, now the women want everyone to believe the didn't partake in any sexual acts willingly. Lies to put men in jail for consensual sexual participation. To forcefully get rid of men's jobs so women can replace jobs that men had. If a man approaches a woman now it is sexual harassment. Men are damed if they do and damed if they don't approach women.

azzntittiz · Answer

Men would be more productive and successful to wards changing the world their focus. Women would focus on other things like personal growth, they'd be forced to be more ambitious resulting in higher self esteem, this would make them less catty towards each other which would lead to more focus on relevant things.

When men and women did get together it would probably be in a non casual setting specifically for matching, people would respect companionship a lot more and romantic unions will become more functional, where as in only for the purpose of occasional sexual release and procreation. I can see it now, my dream.

SnowyOwl · Answer

I think guys would still have the instinct to impress woman. Just not go to them directly.

Much like the birds of paradise, the males have to show off their abilities while the female watch. And then the female approaches the best performer.

There's many species where females are ultimately in charge of sexual selection.

Also, guys will always have the instinct to want to spread their genes and have many offspring. So if they can't approach the ladies, they'll have to lure them towards them somehow.

Look up birds of paradise, it'd be a similar situation.

And honestly, seems like it'd be just fine. Many woman are immature, yes, and so are many guys. Many woman are seen as stubborn, but that's because they know what they want. No one should agree to be in a relationship that makes them ultimately unhappy. So the freedom to choose would be nice for many girls who haven't experienced it.

nathanp97 · Answer

Online dating would become a bigger industry than it already is. Some women would ask guys out, but other than that it would be based on online dating. The world is slowly shifting this way out of fear. Some girls take it so poorly when a guy asks them out that guys could be charged with harassment or yelled at.

Blunique · Answer

That's what already is going on lol just kidding. We would switch genders and then guys would pick and choose and women will chase. Maybe the country would change so much where it's a norm for a guy to be a stay at home dad and women would have to go to work.

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

At first many women would be bewildered, then frustrated and then out of desperation many women would start approaching men.

This should happen for at least one day, that way women will understand what it’s like to be pressured into making the first move.

EX777 · Answer

Yeah well if the stereotypes are reversed i think men might enjoy the attention that women are getting and women will suffer some hardships of not getting attention and have to give attention instead and yet be ready to be rejected and ignored by men (which is i don't think possible if we talk about men generally lol). But yeah maybe approaching stereotypes being reversed is possible but at the end apart from approaching thing i think men will keep trying to impress women in other ways and typical stuff because it's biologically hard wired into us. And yeah men will still stay dominant so at the end men will get attention and remain dominant and women won't get attention and don't get to be dominant either (generally)

BeingAhuman · Answer

I am a woman and I would say just by seeing it everyday , some women believe they deserve to be treated as queens by acting like arrogant and selfish personalities. In this case a man and nobody will approach. You go and start a friendship or relationship by a smile and positivity.

rjroy3 · Answer

One of two outcomes.

1. Human kind would end.

2. Women would crave the attention to the point of becoming the ones who approach. Since there are already women who do that they would have the headstart and also be seen as the most attractive women.

jaidee · Answer

Women would be approaching men just a tiny little bit more, but not much. Then we'd go extinct.
For the record, France nowadays counts 40% of singles... And our feminist-inspired government is now about to pass laws criminalizing long stares (no joke).

Hans222 · Answer

About 70 years later it would have become very very quiet on our large blue ball!

vishna · Answer

Only women with initiative would get a man. I got my last boyfriend by talking to him first, so, I guess I'm good.

Also, online dating would increase in my opinion bc it's less scary to message a guy and set up a date vs go up to a stranger (who might be taken)

Juxtapose · Answer

Women would approach men.

I find it amusing that people think women wouldn't do this if 100% of men were fully incapable/unwilling to make the first move. Only the most stubborn women wouldn't adapt and those that can't adapt should have their genes die out.

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

"Where have all the good men gone?"
"What's wrong with men?"
"If a guy won't approach me he's not worth my time."
And other nonsense of that kind.

Another thing you see all the time is assumptions about intent like:
"If he doesn't approach it means he's not interested."
Which is *complete* nonsense but girls still like to hold onto the idea, so I honestly think you would see some instances of:
"Men aren't attracted to women anymore?"

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Horniness would skyrocket for everyone. Then we'd all bang it out at the same time and cause Earth-shattering earthquakes. The tilt of the axis would change, altering the length of each day. Everyone would scream, "OH MY GOD!" at the exact same time so loud the God might come back. We should plan this twice: June 9, 2069 (6/9/69 in North America) and September 6, 2069 (6/9/69 in Europe and everywhere else). You're welcome, universe.

Disaresta · Answer

Birth rate in America is 1.9, we aren't even repopulating. Your nightmare has come true. As a side note, I have no problems approaching women and reading their social cues, just experience I guess. Took some learning and trial and error, but success rate in the 80-90% rate.
Sometimes guys just need to be aggressive and go in for the prize, no risk, no reward.

SavageRae4Ever · Answer

Well women would have to approach them instead.
I’ve been approaching men since I’m a teenager!! It’s not that scary 😁😁 just gotta be smart ! I’ve never been rejected and it feels amazing being confident enough to talk to guys.
I’ve been approached and it’s best feeling.
I personally I just act like I’m passing by the guy and they come talk to me I just present myself. I don’t have to do much but if I want to do much I can though 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Tbh there'd probably be even more rape cases because of the whole "well she approached me first" and "as a sex driven person I can I totally assume that she only wants to objectify my body and use me for sex" not actually just want to talk and get to know me "so of course that's why what everything we did was "consensual, because she was totally asking for what I wanted to do to her body"" Change the law and make this mentality go away and then more women will feel safe approaching men.

jellyroo · Answer

Finally we will erase the human race!

Nah, things adapt over time, so women would be inclined to take initiative more.
There WOULD be a huge increase in the divide between men and women and bitterness between the genders though, I think personally. And dating would be more awkward and far more difficult for both genders.

AuroraRoseat · Answer

Good question.

I think some women would approach men. But not enough to keep the dating world going.

I would also become lesbian because I'm not approaching a man (I know that you can't "become" lesbian. Just wanted to throw that out there if (some) people think that I honestly think this).

GoodManDave · Answer

Ooh. Hypothetical!

Several things could happen.

Women would suddenly start asking guys out - if enough guys did it.

There may be less children marriages, less children being born, etc for a few years till it became acceptable to ask a guy out.

Perhaps the government would try to intervene - tax incentives to asking women out, if it became that big an issue... who knows?

Anonymous · Answer

Funny this was a scenario I wondered about. If the #metoo movement keeps spiraling out of control this might become more of a reality. Decent men will become less ambitious.

I think this would force women to reevaluate and recognize the power they have with their gender. They would have a temporary relief from the unwanted attention. But it would eventually drive them nuts. However they would better understand that although their are some creeps out there, most men are well intentioned when they approach women.

Being a single guy for the last year I have had some HORRIBLE experiences approaching women in clubs and bars. One girl said “get the fuck away from me” when I tried to say hello. I've gotten that irritated “walk away creep” more than once.

I’ve decided to stick to online dating (going okay so far) and only approaching women that are introduced through friends.

Nik1hil · Answer

World war 3

that is what will happen... each men will begin to load up their balls , testosterone level will rise...
and men are animals and they will invoke war and chaos
but if women can be kind enough to drain those balls...
they have the power to avert the 3rd world war

Unit1 · Answer

Future relationships would decrease by 80% is what i think would happen. But the birth rate would probably stay the same.
And the women would increasingly become frustrated and insecure about their looks and keep wondering why they can't find a boyfriend. And of course the legendary "WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN?". 😊

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Frustration will go up. On either side. Girlsaskguys will be shut down. We may see a rise in absurd terrorist or political activities. Feminists will have a problem: there is nothing left to babble about. Little catholic boys will not longer want to go to church. Japan's robot industry will boost like mad.

Northern_star · Answer

this would happen IF all men would be woke enough to see the legal risks of simply approaching a girl nowadays (see as: false rape accusation etc) AND if there would be no desperate simps still holdin onto the last dim light of hope to get laid (with all the respect to brethren, i mean it without any offens)

mysticghost · Answer

Yes, that will happen when Hell freezes over! On the hypothetical side, this change in behavior would could happen if women were to begin approaching men and it became an accepted norm. Men will take the easy route and let women do the approaching. If men stop suddenly, women would begin doing the approaching, in time. It wouldn't be a smooth transition, but women want a guy. They would find a way to start the connection.

Sami365 · Answer

Simple: the braver women would step up and the shyer ones would get self-conscious and think no guys like them.

And some girls from both sides would complain about it. That's always a gurantee. Humans in general love to complain.

AbdKilani · Answer

Why would that happen
Lets assume it did
Women would approach men, and that is in my case
I hardly see a woman that would make me move and approach her out of nowhere , but I can't say how many times a girl have approached me.
Mind you, I am not the guy who refuses a girl based on looks, nope, I just don't like to keep thinking about dating every woman I see, I only need one.
SO , next you will have guys like me , who never dated or never will

lomimore · Answer

More men would complain that women don't aproach them and birth rates would considerably reduce, just a little biy of the female population would start appraoching men and others would die thinking they are ugly because no man approach her.

sunsetwalker · Answer

I think that there would be a lot of hoary people out there waiting to be approached. By wemen but wemon are just as afraid of rejection as us. I think. Wemon should speek there minds to men. and stop the guying game's. Its had and you dont always win.. you hurt someone who is not sure you are interested in them. And you think someone is just fluting with you. Do juge when person tells u they have fealing for u believe that.

Astoriana · Answer

I wouldn’t miss my goddamned train in the evening so often, for one.

I don’t even see what the big deal is about asking men out. I’ve done it before. I just don’t often like a man enough to care to ask them out.

Most of y’all are mediocre.

cracklejingle · Answer

I love it when women take initiative and not stick to societal stereotypes. In this age of equality that's a must.

I'm a student of human behaviour and have observed that women send subtle body language signals to men if that are interested. And men act in those cues subconsciously. So women do "approach" men first a lot of times, just not overtly.

GingerGuy · Answer

Well I stopped long ago... lol. I'd like to think women would be "forced" to approach (and they should in my opinion), but whether they would or not? The whole thing of "the guy is supposed to approach" is stupid and ridiculous!

Guanfei · Answer

They would take the lead, but that would mean do everything they expect men to do now, and I'm not sure they'll be ready to do that. And if they do, they'll just aim at rich hot guys, leaving the majority of us aside.
Also, there are already some part of the world where it happens, such as Sweden and Germany.

djmzes · Answer

Simple As that And you know it and it is happening

skateordiesv · Answer

The male suicide rate would plummet. Male depression would go down as well. Females would have to learn to do what more should do now anyhow and be nore straight forward about whom they like or want. Would make a better world in my opinion.

TripleAce · Answer

Women would show their true colors. That veil would finally come off You know how slutty and horny women are lol. Im convinced way more than guys. For sure

Unnameable · Answer

Women as a gender would lose all self esteem. A few would adapt to ask guys out, and they'd have tremendous success, prompting other girls to mimic them, resulting in women asking me out becoming the norm.

Anonymous · Answer

Then men wouldn't be men, would they? The fact that men chase women is not just due to a made up societal rule, as many people would like to believe. I doubt women would assume that role.

Anonymous · Answer

It would just turn into Germany where women are EXPECTED to be more aggressive and make the first move to relieve German men from the worry/stress of sexual harassment claims.

LuvAsh · Answer

I've nv been approached by a guy so I don't know what would happen. I do most of the approching if anything

animelover14 · Answer

Women would start approaching men. If men stopped making the first move and all that then women would start doing it. Perhaps then they'll be the expected gender to initiate relationships.

BomberoJazz · Answer

Hmmm... Well having previously worked as a Bouncer in clubs, bars, and lounges for over 20 years;

I think that it would empower women, to not have to constantly be on guard for unwanted attention, conversations, and harrassment, from men who feel entitled to just approach a woman/women, and expect them to be immediately enamored, by the simple fact that he is "attracted" to her/them.

SirRexington · Answer

Women would be forced to actually participate for once in trying to rally a mate. Only women don't have to work as hard. Or... No one would get laid and we'd have an epidemic of depression, rape and tension on our hands.

Coldy · Answer

I think we would witness a cultural shift. It's not like women don't approach men these days, but I believe we would face a bit of a role realignment, where women take the lead in relationships. Where it would eventually lead, I cannot say, but I would assume it wouldn't affect birth rates too much like others keep speculating. People like to bang, and that won't change.

Anonymous · Answer

It has advantage that we will not see extremely horny people hitting for fun or harrassement

The other side it will be weired because this will be played by women to get the guys they like

Certain thing is that the beauty of the normal will not be

DevikaButts95 · Answer

Women would desire men, and men would have it like women have it now.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

There would be a lot less coupling of humans. There are those women that do approach men, but it isn't anywhere near the equivalent of men approaching women.

FMJ_Guy · Answer

Within 50-75 years the whole human race would be extinct, and the Earth would breath a sigh, and start to heal herself.

ManFrom1982 · Answer

... The robotics industry would make a killing... And economies would collapse after the plummet in birthrates.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I stopped approaching girls. I've enough of laughter, rejection and frustration. I guess when no men would approach girls, we humans would extinct because you girls still think you should make no move and let the men start

CuChullan · Answer

Well i don't see women allowing that situation last to long. And if guys still didn't want to know, women are very capable of doing it for themselves and each other. There's enough wankers around to ensure the human race will survive.

McKellar · Answer

Then women will be going up to men who they think is their type,...& that will be either a hit or a miss. Just like when men approach women. I think there's no difference.

... and there's no friendzone. ... Ah.. thank God.

Anonymous · Answer

End of the damn patriarchy, women would have evolve beyond judeo-christian-islamic religion, and start asking men out.  That would have been a relief for shy men like me.

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