Invite him over to watch a movie - in my bedroom?

[Bananasplit]

I invited this guy over to watch a movie. I live with several others, and the sofa and the TV is in the kitchen, where people casually walk trough all the time.

I also have a TV in my bedroom, so we could -possibly- sit in my bed and watch the movie from there, if I turn my bed into a "sofa" (pillows in the back, etc.). I have absolutely no intention of having sex with him, but will he get the wrong idea?

[Anonymous]

Will he get the wrong idea? He's a guy. He'll at least consider the possibility.

But if he's a good guy, he'll respect if that's not where it's going. (If it's a first date, don't feel obligated to do anything! If you've been with him longer, a kiss might be nice... just so he knows you aren't "frigid" or anything.) A good man will respect you for stinking to what you planned. A immature boy might have a temper tantrum because he didn't get some. Whatever happens, you'll see his true colors.

Good luck. :)

[coffeeeadddict]

He will most likely think of it. But if you want to avoid a misunderstanding, why not try leaving the door open? He probably would get it. Also try to wear modest clothing (high shirts, jeans that aren't to tight or to short) so he doesn't get the impression you are trying to seduce him. If the doors open and you are wearing modest clothing, he will understand you have no intention of having sex. Also, make sure other people are in the house (or apartment) at the time.