I am all for women initiating when we want to see someone lol so if you want to hang out and watch movies at your place, then ask him to hang out and watch movies at your place. I'm a little afraid of the whole Netflix and Chill thing cuz he might think you're tryna fuck (and if you are that's great and totally fine too) but as long as he respects boundaries then it should be fine.
I have done this in the past, slow down your horses. Reserve that invitation for date numero six or seven. That is if you are looking for a serious relationship. On the other hand if you aren't go ahead, but be mindful he may be expecting sex so you should let him know before hand if you do not want to. Be careful it wouldn't be nice to get raped at your own place
Like everyone else already said, that implies sex. So if that is what you are going for. Otherwise keep your dates in public. I know sometimes you just want to chill and cuddle with someone at your place but sex is what it means to them.
Depends. A lot of men would interpret that as they are going to get some action. If that is not your intent then I'd say a neutral setting is better to avoid any misunderstandings. If that is your intention then I see nothing wrong with asking him over. As far as you asking him on the second date I see nothing wrong with that.
u An invitation to a lady's apartment for a second date suggests that she can't wait to get him between the sheets. If that is what you want, go for it. . . but if you want more than just a roll in the hay, you should wait until you know him better.
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Well, if you do that, he will most probably think that you really want to sleep with him. So if you don't want to leave that kind of impression, think of something different to do on your second date.
Asking a guy over for the second date might make him think you want more. If thats not what you want maybe ask him to the movies?
I would wait & see if he asks you. But if he doesn't for a few days, hit em up & see how he reacts :)
I'd say no because he might think you want to have sex with him which I'm assuming you don't at this point.
Ask him to go out to the cinema perhaps
I don't think that's too forward at all. Go ahead an do it. I bet he'd love to do it.
Sure, that's a great idea, FYI tho. Sex is probably assumed unless you tell him otherwise. Fun first date!!!
It's what ever you want. Usually an invite back to the apartment means sex, so if you're comfortable with that go for it.
Sex would be assumed, or at least fooling around, if you're not aware.
make your intentions know before hand. worn him at the very first sign of him crossing your boundaries, if he does it again, ask him to leave.
Asking him for 2nd date isn't forward and is fine but to come watch a movie he might think it could lead to more.
Do not invite him over
If you're that horny, I guess it's fine :))
Yeah remember ladies apartment means sexy time.
Are you thinking about having sex?
seems fine to me
Sure, go ahead and ask
no, too soon.
Don't. That leads to sex.
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