Should I invite my ex boyfriend over to spend the evening with me?

[Itsmetiffany]

My parents are on a holiday for 4 days more and I have been talking to my ex lately.. I was wondering should I invite him over for tonight and how should I do that ask him if he would like to keep me company?

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Okey I decided to ask him to come tonight


Should I just send him a text with would you like to keep me company tonight?

[rdabby]

Hmmmm tell him that you re bored and wanna hang out, or that you got bunch of new interesting movies that you'd like to watch with him and he might like... or tell him that you re horny and up for some wild sex lol say whatever you like depends on how long have you two been talking, who broke up with who? do you wanna get back with him? etc etc good luck

[CloudySunshine]

well, if you ask him over, you all will more than likely end up having sex. is that what you're wanting from this? usually, people stop a relationship for a reason. however, if sex is what you're wanting, then just ask him to come over and keep you company or chill or hang or whatever else you want to say. if he wants to see you, he'll be over.

[Itsmetiffany]

I just want him back that's all and what you are saying is so true I know if he comes by that is what gonna happen I just don't know any other way to show him that I want him back

[CloudySunshine]

Having sex with him isn't the way to tell him you want him back. all that will end up in is a cycle of booty call and your hurt feelings. instead of showing you want him back, tell him. guys understand blunt comments better than trying to show them.

[Abcmsaj]

Mixed signals, much? If he still has feelings for you, he'll take it as an opportunity to get back with you - and if that's not the intention, it will crush him knowing he got his hopes up for nothing. Vice versa, if you want him back and his feelings are well and truly dead, it's going to hurt.

What was the reason you two got back in contact?

[Itsmetiffany]

Yes he broke up with me 6 months ago but he admitted he was sorry I still don't know if he has any feelings for me left but I still do have a lot of feelings for him so that's why I don't know if I should do it...

[chuckone]

Yep rdabby is right. If he broke up with you then yeah sure invite him over. If you just want to sleep with him then that's fine. But if you broke up with him and you just want to sleep with him then maybe its a bad idea. You don't want to lead him on.

[Itsmetiffany]

Im not gonna lead him on I'm scared I'm the one who is gonna be hurt cause he broke up with me 6 months ago... since a couple of weeks we started talking again I still love him so that's maybe why I wanted to ask him to come over to see if he still wants me to

[rdabby]

But also if he broke up with her he could consider this as a booty call for 4 days and nights (of course they will have sex) she might end up hurt if he doesn't wanna get back with her..

So my advice to you is to try to spend 1 night with him only, perhaps other days during day and no sleeping over, do not have sex with him at all untill "the talk", just a kiss perhaps....

But ask yourself before you go through with this, Am I strong enough to handle a 'possible' emotional rejection from him?