First date is dinner and a movie at his house?

[Anonymous]

For our first date we’re going to dinner and then the plan is to watch movies at his house. Obviously going to his house implies the idea of having sex. I already expressed my dislike towards sleeping together early on so should I still go for it? I’d love to hear what you guys are thinking.

[Adam1978]

Do you know the guy in person? If not I would refuse a none public date. If it someone that has been around in your life, you can determine if anything is fishy with him.

[Asker]

That’s a really good point actually. I don’t really know this guy in person, so after dinner I might just skip the movie (especially if something feels off).

[Adam1978]

You shouldn't go to his place, that the potential trap if he is a sicko. You should evaluate him in a public restaurant.

[OlderAndWiser]

Depends. DO you actually want to have sex but make a show of having protested, or do you want him to get the idea that you mean what you say?

[Asker]

Oh definitely want to have sex with this guy, but not right away. I want him to know that I mean what i say.

[OlderAndWiser]

Then you need to change the plans for going back to his house for "movies."

[Anonymous]

nope