Marriage in the 21 Century: Agree or Disagree?

[Lopezz1999]

Saw someone post this on another question and figured, would people agree with this?

Agree

Disagree

[JudgmentDay]

Not all the time but it can happen and it does happen. If you don't like the risks of things turning out to be horrible after a marriage, then just don't marry. I still think that divorces that don't involve any children are better than those divorces that did involve children. Because I think it's easier for both partners to start all over again fresh if neither partner had become a biological parent.

[hdjfhk]

I'd like to add I was the other guy Three Times, and each time the woman had hid from me her marriage or said she was already divorced. Then divorced became separated instead, and then separated was something she could decide in the fly... The other two were just dishonest sluts.

I didn't want this.

[Lopezz1999]

Wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you..

[1truekhaleesi]

A lot of this can be avoided by finding the right person and not having kids. My standards are too high to just settle and I don't want kids. So not true for me.

Also, problems can't be fixed by getting into online dating. That'll probably make it worse actually.

[Pepperbox23]

I can totally understand why men would feel this way, but I think it is just because a lot of women (not all) are selfish and catty. It think it depends on the people tbh. Some marriages last, and some divorces have nothing to do with cheating. So it all depends

[Lopezz1999]

Completely agree!

[Machiavelli]

LOL was pretty funny can tell you that. Not always how it goes but I have never been married nor do I plan to so I dunno. I can tell you though, FB doesn't ruin any relationships, if you have a good relationship to begin with, you wouldn't have time for FB.

[madhatters4]

perhaps it's funny but it's not especially true

[Lopezz1999]

I hope not.

[Unit1]

I do believe so

https://i.imgur.com/5HJOHjI.png

It can't be good.

My advise: Stay safe, stay unmarried.
That one's on the house!
It's ruining lives!

[NathanStrat]

soooo true, my friends wife cheated and she got his money and the kids... guys are screwed in court against a woman... thanks feminists!

[Lopezz1999]

Ouch.. sorry to hear that.

[NathanStrat]

he even forgave her and took her back awhile and she still screwed him in court, actually in VA if you give a "second chance" its like the cheating didn't count in court. This scenario actually come to think of it, happened to two guys I know. Dont take them back or it will be used against you.

[Lopezz1999]

Aha well I've pretty much given up on marriage for now. I've learned at a young age that I need to be careful.

[NathanStrat]

whoever made the illustration clearly had that as an experience and is right on the money (or lack thereof)

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm fifty fifty on it. You hear stories of women who leave their husbands for other men, and you hear stories of men who leave their wives for other women.

[Lopezz1999]

True, I agree

[AynonOMouse]

That wouldn't be me. If I had kids with someone and they tried to keep them from me or turn them against me, I would chop her up with an ax. Like 7 years later when I got out of prison At least I could see my kids once they were like 10 or 12. That would be better than never seeing them or having them turned on me.
It would be either equal custody or death. No exceptions.

[TiffyPuff]

I've seen that happen enough to agree, somewhat. But I've seen divorces that weren't so bad, and no cheating. And successful marriages. So like it depends. But I can understand the cartoon.

[Lopezz1999]

Very nice.

[Iraqveteran666]

Seems to be going that way. A guy is literally playing Russian roulette with 3 bullets in A 6 shooter by getting married these days. The role of husband and father has no value in soceity and is often protrayed negatively by feminists, Hollywood and the media.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Nah, it's more like playing Russian Roulette with an MG-42.

[Iraqveteran666]

@Barrabus_the_Free for the unlucky

[Barrabus_the_Free]

For the majority.

[Iraqveteran666]

@Barrabus_the_Free certainly

[JailbaitGamerGirl]

I think its a double edge sword, meaning on both sides this type of thing happens. I know for my brother in law, this sort of thing is happening at the hands of my sister as well. I think its probably due to all the media causing people to be so self-centered and sociopathic, making them not care about how others feel.

[alice55]

Not agree. In my country when a women talk about marriage and kids the guys is like "Yea.. Later... Maybe...". He just go away honestly.

[Lopezz1999]

Yeah, that was the part that didn't make any sense to me, actually.

[alice55]

I guess it depend on country but it really surprise me.

[Nostalgiasteve]

It would be quite a conclusion for someone to say that anything near all women are like this. I would think that it's very rare that you can take a template like this and prove it's accurate for a situation as complex as marriage, divorce and possible cheating.

Ignorance seems to be a great cause of tension between persons and people who say that that graphic is accurate seem to only be making the situation worse in doing so.

[EmpatheticLady]

Eh, some marriages can end up like that unfortunately, but it's not true for all people.

[Lopezz1999]

Yeah, luckily.

[think_logic85]

Accurate in most cases we see or hear these days. Due to one persons mistake, the whole new generation is going to be messed up, thinking that this is the norm.

[AleDeEurope]

My parents are still married, going 26 years strong and seems like it's gonna last forever (hopefully).
Find yourself a woman and not a cunt, and you won't have that problem.

[Noleenc]

Love how this ignored her side of the story completely. She's just nagging at him for no reason, poor guy...

[Lopezz1999]

I know right? So sad...

[EpicDweeb]

In some ways I agree, in other ways I don't. I think a lot of marriages end up like this, but I don't think all of them have to.

[AMSram18]

Everyone is living with each other before marriage and people don't realize the difference between that bond and living together. Kinda disturbing knowing that not many people want marriage anymore, because it's so much "hassle".

[Lopezz1999]

Do you still desire a marriage?

[Cloudy25]

Lol that was actually a funny read, but not all women are like that so I'm gonna have to disagree.

[Lopezz1999]

Fair enough

[cth96190]

Not all women are like that. . . until they are.

[Cloudy25]

@cth96190 oh come on🙄

[Lopezz1999]

lol.

[cth96190]

The graphic sums up modern marriage pretty well, which is why most men are no longer interested in marriage and why a significant and increasing number of men become Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) every day.

[bubblybex]

lol its too long i can't even b bothered to read it all, but i dont agree with the bit i saw i guess

[Lopezz1999]

That's a baffling reading to disagree with something.. didn't downvote you by the way.

[bubblybex]

haha i read it, and i agree that it does happen to some people, and its way harder for guys to get custody than for woman which is totally dumb

[Lopezz1999]

reasoning* and true.

[Dog19]

I don't want to be married. I don't think I'll find a guy that will actually love me. My looks don't cut it. :/

[Lopezz1999]

Nah, I've actually seen your looks before and you've definitely got what it takes. The braces look cute on you.

[Bananaman177]

There's guys who fuck horses, okay? Somebody out there will find you perfect.

Seriously. Whatever your worst feature is, guess what? There's porn of it. That's somebody's fetish. Guess what? I fucking LOVE big, thick, hairy eyebrows on girls. Even unibrows. Full Frida Kahlo and beyond, okay? Do you have any idea how many MILLIONS of women pluck and shave and trim their eyebrows every day because they think "Oh, men don't like bushy eyebrows..."

Fuck what men like, find the RIGHT man, not "men."