Asking a guy out to a concert?

[Anonymous]

Um, so yeah. How do I do this without sounding like a fool? ha ha.

I find him cute and all but want this to be casual and not awkward. Nothing has gone on between us or anything like that.

I just tend to get really nervous with guys who I find cute and asking them to hang out or whatever.

So how do I ask, as simple as that sounds?!

Thanks :)

[ShesMygirl]

Welcome to our side little lady *grins*

Guys learn to deal with this from the start...or they don't have girlfriends.

If he likes the group, just ask him. It's not like you are asking to have his children.

What's the worst that can happen? He says no? I don't think it's going to crack the planet in half, or deplete the ozone layer. It's not going to kill you.

This is the way of the world...nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Or you can spend the rest of your life looking back and wondering what might have been...

[Asker]

Gah, true... I don't wanna end up wondering what might have been...

Would face to face be more appropriate than Facebook? I'm looking way too much into this. lol

[Asker]

Ah and I know he's into it... it's A7X. I already did mention it to him that I'm gonna go see them with one of my best friends.

Maybe I'll mention that I just bought their new album and that he should listen to it and ask what he thinks... if he liked it then I'll ask if he'd be down to go.

[ShesMygirl]

ROFL.....just ask him. The 'ol "wanna come over and listen to a new album?" is an old trick in the guys handbook.

Being up front is going to be a lot easier on you. Believe it or not, most guys find it a nice change to be asked out. Just don't fll at his feet and beg him to go *wink*

Just ask him. If he asks "Like a date?" let him know there are no laws against girls asking cute guys out. Face to face is harder but always the best way to do most anything.

[Anonymous]

Just ask him. Even if a girls asks me out and I don't want to go, the worst thing that happens is that I feel better about myself that a girl actually asked ME out. Do you talk to him often? If so he'll probably say yes anyway.

[Asker]

Yay!!!! I did, and he said yes! :)

[cjwright79]

If you can't bring yourself to do it, then you ought not do it.