I'm almost 18 now, and when I was 11-13 sure I mean some girls wore skimpier outfits or had a bunch of boyfriends but it was usually only one girl in the class. Nowadays, I look at social media or simply walking down the street and I see 11-13 year olds dressed like grown women looking for action. These are LITTLE GIRLS! I was still playing with toys at 12. These girls are playing with boys. I'm still confused as to where these girls mothers are. They're literally all over social media showing off their bodies to grown men.
Examples include
1. Danielle Cohn. I'm sure you've heard of her, 13 years old, 1.5 million social media followers, 7 boyfriends in the last year and a half, with the last one being 16 and the current one being 18. Here's some pics from her Insta. On her Musically she swings her hips while wearing a bra and fish nets.2. Hali'a Beamer. She's 12, and has 4.43million followers. Wears bras in the majority of her musicallys, and consistently does the hip popping and rolling. 3. Loren Gray. Yes, she's a tad older at 15, but still quite underage. With a whopping 20million followers, she can't even drive yet- and here she is dressed like a Victoria secret angel. It burns my eyes to look at.4. Here's a bonus. Everleigh Soutas. She's 4. 1.1million followers. I only add this because I saw multiple videos of her twerking and thrusting and I wanted to fork my eyes out.There are so so so many more but it hurts to even watch this stuff. What do you guys think? Is this ok? Should society praise this behavior in young girls? Am I just uptight? What are your thoughts? Comment below.
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I'm updating because I'm tired of some of the comments saying I'm jealous. I'm a talented, successful college student with the sweetest, hottest boyfriend that has ever walked this planet. I don't require followers in order to be happy. For those who might mean I'm jealous of their looks, well sweetie, I have a 24 inch waist, am a natural DD with long golden hair and green eyes. I have nothing to be jealous of an attention seeking child.
Yup. And a lot of them are on here asking if their parents are being too strict for not letting them wear what they want. With most answers agreeing that the parents are too strict. "You do you", right?
Then it usually gets brought up that it's the perv guys fault for thinking sexually of little girls - completely bypassing any blame for the girl or her parents.
Girls (both young and old) show profile pics with provocative poses, showing lots of cleavage, then complain about guys soliciting them for nudes, sex talk, etc.
But none of this is new, it's just become more visible with the internet. Mothers have been dressing little girls inappropriately long before the Internet. Some parents exchange their child's innocence to cash in. Some are just stupid. Some feel it's their motherly duty to teach their child girls how to manipulate and catch a man through flirtation, sensual dress, playing hard to get, and all kind of other games.
I don't have social media so I don't really see a lot of this stuff, I think it's pretty irresponsible on the parents to allow their children to be seen in a sexual way like this and it should be stopped.
That's creepy as fuck. I was kind of a 90s kid well into the 2000s because I grew up without the internet till I was about 15, played with stuffed animals and toy horses till about 11 or 12, and didn't even start wearing makeup till 16 or 17. These kids are missing out on a lot of their childhood because they're in a hurry to be more "grown up" and desperately want their looks to be approved of. Not healthy for such young people, but apparently their parents don't care about the obvious self-esteem issues and immaturity that this breeds.
It is uncomfortable to look at but it is unhelpful for people to act like this is new - it isn't. Just because it's more easily viewable on social media doesn't mean it's a new thing. Some parents just don't care. The issue is the parents not the kids because when you're a kid, you don't understand the gravity of what you are doing. The parents should know better
If I had a daughter shed be wearing a burlap sack if she tried dressing like that. Parents need to be parents and not encourage their children to dress like strippers. Obviously most are still to young to even work so how are they able to afford these clothes? As for the 4 year old again parents need to teach proper behavior.
This was always happening, the difference is now you can see it more effectively in the past. The whole parents profiting of the child’s career aspect was also reallly common in Hollywood, except instead of juice cleanses the kids were fed aphetamine.
I don't think sex was a thought when I was 13. I used to play outside till I was 15 wtf, hell even the upperclassmen at my highscool would join in after school. This is so sad especially about the first girl, she isn't even old enough to consent and she is dating an 18 year old wtf.
I don't think it is okay but hyper sexuality is what sells. So until you convince any marketing company to use something other than "perfect" people who are scantily dressed or the ads that make regular things look "sexy" then you won't change much. Its ashame that the parents or anyone for that matter in those little girls lives hasn't tried to stop that. They are much to young to act like grown women.
3, Their language in regards to swearing. I am old and grew up in a very traditional are where it would stop traffic if a girl/woman swore. You would even get grief if you swore in front of a woman. A lot of young girls swear as if they were an old sea dog to the point of even using 'c.. t
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NO, I blame women for this bullshit because they constantly sexualize themselves and push the "Women can wear what they want" bullshit allowing young girls to think it's acceptable to dress like a prosti-tot.
Women who make excuses for girls being half-naked in public and then shame the males who look are the problem with society.
Horrible horrible parents. No way in hell will my daughter EVER show her body like these girls. They look like grown women. At that age they shouldn’t be seeking attention from grown men. I blame the parents.
I feel like girls should be able to have expression with their clothing TO A POINT. However, what young girls such as these are doing now is simply atrocious!! They need to be children while their children.
The parents need to be bitch-slapped across the head a few times.
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Their attitude is "My mom started dating when she was 11 and having sex at 12 so I can too" It is the mothers setting poor examples for their kids. How do I know? I hear it directly from the kids themselves at school. It is disgusting. And when their mom comes to pick up her kids from school, guess what. She is in a mini skirt that would surely have her underwear and butt showing if she slightly bends over and some of her stomach showing from her shirt that is too short.
Good issue. Many girls may have a hot sexual body at 15 but really don't know how to handle some adult situations. I know many girls under 18 are sexually active and giving blowjobs to boys and men a like. Yes, were are their parents?
Personally, I find it both sad and disturbing. Our generation is so cruel these days that it even gets to girls as young as 9 years old. Basically, they get the message in their head that they're supposed to look a certain way or else they won't be accepted in society. This is not true in any way. These girls are supposed to be enjoying their childhoods, having fun in their lives-not revealing their bodies to older audiences and sexualizing themselves just for attention and approval
I dont follow, but I will probably have nothing to do with large boobs in the future. If you because of some random reason wonder why is because I prefer small boobs.
It's scary. Feels like they have some entrapment plot. Like deliberately dressing older to trick a man into sleeping with you and then blackmailing him as a pedophile sort of trap.
I don’t know about 4 year olds, they are just imitating things they see, but a lot of girls as young as 8 can have a desire to want to be sexy and desired by boys or even men. I say this because girls can start puberty even as young as 8 or 9 sometimes, so they are instinctively just doing what they are hardwired to do. A lot of people will just burry their heads in the sand and keep themselves in the dark pretending that their sweet innocent little girl would never think of doing such a thing, but it’s the truth. These girls have hit puberty or are grown enough to be instinctively sexually set off, and it’s easier for them to do what they do because of the Internet. I used to know this attorney and his specialty was child porn cases, we talked for a while and he told me that in many of his cases he would see these young girls from 7 to 14 just offering to do all sorts of sexual things even as far as masturbating nude on cam. No it was not sexual curiosity, that’s something a 6 year old does, I would say that sexual curiosity is no longer curiosity after 3 years of being curious. Also girls mature faster than guys so it’s normal that they would become sexual sooner. Young girls are sexual because instinctively they are trying to find a partner, it’s nature’s intention. In the older days a young girls sexual nature was not seen as a problem because these girls were married off to a hopefully good man that could provide for a family and the rest was history just like the rest of Mother Nature. These young girls are just trying to subconsciously find their life partner, it’s just that people want to go against nature and not mentor their daughters for getting a permanent life partner, no marriage until 18 or older, but Mother Nature does not wait for man’s 18 or older rule, it simply does what it does because that’s how it’s meant to be. Just look at everything else on our planet, if Mother Nature does not do what it’s supposed to do then everything goes out of whack.
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