I'm also fairly short, so I've definitely been used as an arm rest by some of my taller guy friends. Personally, it doesn't bother me unless they actually rest their weight on me, in which case I push them off and say 'you're heavy'. Getting picked up (and sometimes carried around school) was annoying, all of the short girls ran away whenever we'd see the guy who tends to pick us up and run around with us. At least with the arm rest, I think they did that because they were amused by how well our heights worked out for me to be an armrest. I wouldn't say these guys didn't take me seriously though. Usually after I let them know it's okay so long as they don't rest their weight on me, if they use me as an armrest they don't put weight on me, so they respected me and my feelings regarding that. The picking up, we all knew that guy had a thing for cute petite girls so we all knew why he was doing it, didn't make it better though, and there wasn't much we could do to make him stop. Try talking to them, if being used as an armrest bothers you or if being picked up bothers you. If they don't stop, avoid them (just like how we all collectively ran away from the guy who would carry us around).
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Because they see us as weak and know we can't fight back. Join me my petite sister! We shall body build and take revenge on those who dare carry us off with one arm!!
They are so cute! Imagine how you feel when you see a super cute puppy, imagine the cutest you have ever seen. That is how we feel when we see a petite girl. Not all guys do all that, some girls do things to guys because they are bigger like hit them. Do not be offended, they do take you seriously. (I am geeking out thinking about this) Also, naturally guys are bigger than girls. Guys like to feel big and like they can look after and protect women, petite girls are like the ultimate. Thank you for posting this, this is going to be super distracting all day long now thinking about it. ;)
I like a wide range of female body types, but petites are my favorite of all.
I think most guys are just kidding around and aren't being serious, but I can understand you not liking that stuff. Many do those things as a way to flirt with you, even though clearly it doesn't work with you (other girls DO like it, at least sometimes, though).
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Petite girls are the best partners a guy could have.
Guys like to get the attention of girls they fancy, in the hope that something good will happen. One way to get their attention, among several, is to annoy them. It DOES get them noticed, although it might piss you off too much to accept any date with them.Fight back lol all joking aside it's mostly because petite gals are cute and they give off a childish vibe which in no way is bad. When they are angry it's kinda. Cute because just imagine a puppy pouting
I agree if you don't want treated that way, speak what's on your mind and tell them people off. I like to patronize people it's not fair. I like petite girls who like big guys.
lol cuz you guys are really cute. I like petite girls tho. Hopefully I can find one secure enough to be picked up haha cuz it's really hard to resist.
Sometimes you have to really put your personality on show rather than just your body and looks
I take them very seriously because they are the sexiest!
We do take you seriously. When we pick you up it's out of delight at how big and powerful you make us feel.
I think they are the cutest kinds of girls and I prefer petite grils.
i take petite girls seriously, why should a girls size dictate how i treat her?
well i can tell u not all men are like that i like petite girls
Wtf lmao. Where you from, that people treat you like that. Also guys don't take anyone seriously.
I like petite girls and I don't know why. I'm a tall slender type guy too. :-)
I like petite girls, kinda like big boys playing with little action figures
Box them up.. I'll join you
Most of the petite girls I know are cute..
I love petite girls...
theyre cute esp if they have pert little butts
so cute id date one <3 so i take them seriously
I'm a big burley guy and prefer petite women.
I don't much care for pixies.
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