What would you do if this guy was your daughters boyfriend?

[Dog19]

Let's say you have a 20 year old daughter. She's a nice, 5'5, funny, and a generous person. She just got a degree in health science and recently got a boyfriend. He's 18, a high school dropout, 5'2 and looks 16. He has a GED and he's taking community college classes. One day your daughter kissed his forehead, he blushed and hid his mouth. He joked about killing your daughter and said that he's the toughest guy on the block. He says he'll protect your daughter from thugs but she had to protect him from being beaten up by a thug trying to rob him and he started crying after the thug left. ( he was scared and doesn't know how to defend himself that well) he also wets the bed sometimes and is going to therapy. He won't tell why, he just said he needs it because his foster parents said so.

Whenever they argue this dude called her fat, told her to shut her fat mouth and sh! t pours out of it. One night while your daughter was sleeping this dude stood over her and jerked off. He also tried to put his ass in her face while she was sleeping. Whenever she lets him stay over her place, he's always naked, cooks for her, but he still tries to put his butt in her face, or puts himself in a sexual position with his ass in the air and giggles. One day you heard shouting, yelling and her 18 year old boyfriend comes out with a black eye, broken fingers, and she also pushed him against the wall, he was scared. If this was your daughters boyfriend what would you do?

[D4NTH3M4N217]

Try to sort out his problems, he would have some psychological issues due to some of the description you have given. Him being with foster parents makes him the minority and is probably depressed or angry that others have parents. He thinks highly of himself in his mind but in real life is like a puppy, which there's nothing wrong with being weak. He would be very immature in the way he acts with the ass thing and that's pretty fucked up, but still there's no real reason to shun him out, if my daughter loved a man then that man whoever he is will be apart of the family. Unless he physically assaults her or mentally abuses her

[madhatters4]

i'd tell him to stay the hell away from my daughter
- for being sexual abuse, physical abuse and verbal
- for surrounding himself with "thugs"

[Dog19]

He never phyically hurt your daughter. Only himself

[madhatters4]

abuse doesn't mean you have to be "hurt" but pushing your butt in someone's face can be considered abuse, jerking off over someone who is asleep is abuse

[Dog19]

She asked if he wanted sex, he said no but one night he was horny and doesnt't know how to talk

[madhatters4]

sexual abuse:
One night while your daughter was sleeping this dude stood over her and jerked off

physical abuse
- He also tried to put his ass in her face while she was sleeping.
- he still tries to put his butt in her face

i'd be deeply disturbed about my daughter abusive behavior and address it

[jimyee]

I would wonder how I failed so miserably at parenting that my daughter would ever end up with a piece of shit like that.

[Dog19]

He also has no money, his birth mother is a drug dealer and was arrested several times for selling her body and his step father ( a sex offender and rapist) so she paid for most of the dates. He only gives her homemade gifts or uses money that his foster parents gave him to buy her gifts. He's still struggling to find a job.

He also gave naked pictures of himself to older adults when he was a minor but your daughter doesn't know that.

You wouldn't say or do anything if this was her boyfriend

[Jan_Classic]

As a father I'd beat the shiite out of the little bastard. As he's 18 already.

[Dog19]

His foster parents find out and they try to tell you how he's struggling and had a rough childhood.

[Jan_Classic]

Oh qrap looks like his parents also need a punch.

[Jan_Classic]

Definitely his parents need to struggle a real rough adulthood after messing with me

[Dog19]

He's only 5'2, what if wet himself while you were beating him senseless?

[Jan_Classic]

He should spit his urine once i show up at the horizon.

[Dog19]

What do you mean he should spit his urine once I show up

[Jan_Classic]

That means he should be very pissed off once he see me. Well, better once he think of me.

[Chiral]

I would have a serious talk with my daughter to find out what this guy fulfilled in her life, why she had him hanging around and I would try to make her see that she should let go of him as their relationship is unhealthy

[Anpu23]

I've delt with something similar. I invited him to work out with me (I have a home gym) and while I was on the punching bag (I've also got 30 years of martial arts) I explained to him that I didn't appreciate how he treated my daughter. He got the hint and things got better.

[Misterlxl]

He better get lost , or there will be a lot more than a black eye, and broken fingers. He's obviously a negative influence and doesn't have is shit straight.

[KingDio]

Nothing as someone like that wouldn't be dating my daughter to begin with

[Synttacks]

I'd sit this guy down and make sure he was more afraid of letting my daughter getting hurt and having to face my wrath than he is of dying from one of these thugs.

[Dog19]

He is scared of thugs

[Synttacks]

It doesn't matter if he fears them. As long as he fears me more.

[Dog19]

If he fears you more than thugs he will have nightmares about you, he won't be able to talk to you, he might need more therepy

[Synttacks]

Sucks for him. If my daughter wants to continue being with him that is her choice. As long as he knew that hurting her or allowing her to be hurt by his actions means a fate worse than death.

[booshlinux]

Boy I will knock your sorry ass back to high school where you belong. Freak.

[Dog19]

Nope, im out of high school now

[booshlinux]

If some asshole like that jacked off on my daughter while she was sleeping I would fuck him up bad. Pissing the bed would be the least of his 'problems' after I got my hands on em

[Dog19]

What if he said..

Okay, I'm sorry, I won't do it again, I'm really sorry sir. Please, you'll rip me apart...

[booshlinux]

Half way into that is when I would throw the first swing. Idgaf. No one pulls shady shit like that with my daughter and gets away with it by cowering in fear. Should of thought that through before getting close to my angel motherfucker

[booshlinux]

Ridding this world of sick pathetic fruitcakes, starting with you.

[Dog19]

So you'd beat him to death

[Dog19]

And you'd kill me because I'm a freak and a fruitcake? Where's the logic?

[Synttacks]

@Dog19 No he'd kill the guy who is dating (you?) the girl.

[RohitLakra]

It's a long question. I haven't read it. Anyway whatever the situation be, I would beat him up given the opportunity

[Dog19]

Your daughter hit him, broke his phone and kicked him in the balls, made him cry and he slapped, kicked and punched your daughter.

You'd beat him up

[RohitLakra]

Yeah

[eatadic]

What the fuck? I’d kick the little jackass out of my house.

[Rid1M]

Somehow cause a break-up between the 2... he's just simoly too creepy... probably get a restraining order too...

[fpmsn]

Get rid of that male bitch

[AhmadNL]

I'm more worried about him than her

[Charleslvajr]

You have a point. That guys is seriously damaged and is in need of professional care.

[AhmadNL]

The lady seems to know how to take care of her self

[Charleslvajr]

And the dude sounds relatively small and undeveloped. So yeah, I'm with you on that one.

[Dog19]

@Charleslvajr when you first met him he blushed and was a little shy. But one day he was naked and talking about his butt with your daughter. She was yelling and was a little disgusted. She told him to get dressed and he said no, that's when she pinned him against the wall and you walked in. ( he's skinnier than her by the way)

[Charleslvajr]

Yeah, professional help is needed.

[AhmadNL]

The little guy doesn't seem able to abuse her, though he can annoy her which is her choice to keep it up or leave him
Either way, I do agree that professional help is needed

[carbo]

He needs help, not my daughter.

[UsernameMadness]

They're both adults. I wouldn't do shit.

[GayHowellMeme]

I would punch my daughter

[MrMysteryMan]

He's got to go...

[Pink2000]

Tell her to dump him cause he's a pussy.

[Greaver]

I don't know what I would do

[greNader]

Private message me...