Would it be creepy to write a love letter to a crush?

[Anonymous]

My best friend is doing this and I'm advising him not to because it seems creepy. So is it?

[music-diva]

i guess it depends on the letter. if its one of those..."i watch you from a distance, admiring you" letter then HECK NO! Don't let him do it! So creepy. But if he wants to wrote something how bout sticking a note in her locker or better yet just give it to her in person and write hey cutie or something casual or just saying hi ;) , but put his name on it, or she will go crazy about who its from

[Starling]

Terrible idea. It's creepy, it's childish, It shows you he's too shy to say how he feels instead of writing something.

[Anonymous]

Is he good looking? Because you can't be creepy if you're good looking. Also, unless he's one hell of a writer that's probably a bad idea.

[Asker]

Dude that's not true.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I know but it's pretty close. The fact is if you are good looking you will get better treatment and people will view you more positively in a social situation. I have both male and female friends who are very attractive and you would be surprised at the special treatment they get from complete strangers.

[Littletad]

It really depends on the girl. It's old fashion, not something every girl will appreciate.

[TC123]

I've written poetry for girls and it went over well, but it wasn't traditional "love poetry" and we were already somewhat together. You can't just dump something like that on a person you don't know - they might appreciate it, they might think it's cute or they might photocopy the hell out of, title it "letter from weirdo in the next office" and paper the town with it. Better to just talk to her and get to know her.

[foshow]

its kind of childish.

[digital_haze]

Definitely not a good idea... I speak from experience.

[51255]

I concur. It's a bad idea. He will regret it.

[lolli]

Don't Do it!