Should I write a letter to my college crush?

[Anonymous]

I'm 18 and I'm in college. There is this girl that I like and we've talked a few times b4. I want to talk to her and trying to get her number but I'm really shy and nervous. I was planning on giving her a note to tell her I thought she was cute and giving her my number so she could text me any time but I'm having 2nd thoughts. Should I do it

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Yes, do it. If possible try to get her alone , maybe before or after a class, or whenever you happen to see her and just start a little conversation before giving her the note. I know a lot of people who would appreciate something like that. It also takes some of the pressure off, that straight up asking someone out would have. If she reacts well you could even make a joke, if that's her thing, like, 'oh well since you have my number you should probably ask me out'. I don't know, just do whatever feels right at that moment.

[MsMusic]

no note. If she's in one of your classes, play dumb, and be like hey I need help with this assignment and you really know what you're doing in this class. Can I get your number so maybe you can help me out sometime?

[bjkahlid]

The only problem with this is that it's hard to branch away from talking about school

[MsMusic]

@bjkahlid start with talking about school. then ask her if you guys can meet to go over the homework. then start talking about normal subjects like you would with a friend

[bandit600000]

About 30 years ago, a letter would have been cute. Now, sending an unsolicited letter to someone is something only done by serial killers and stalkers. You gotta talk about it in person. Besides. Giving her a letter makes it easier for her to just say no. It's a lot harder to ignore someone who is standing in front of you than it is to ignore a piece of paper.

[JLl2urik]

some people are dorks though. a surprise secret admirer note in the backpack , followed by an introduction...

[CindersFire]

If you've talked to her before just talk to her again tell her you'd like to get to know her better.

[Anonymous]

Don't do a note go up to her and ask her out!

[Anonymous]

Do it