If a cute girl asks to be your friend on facebook and you don't know her, is that creepy?

[idontunderstand]

so lets say a girl see's you on FB she thinks your attractive and adds you... is that creepy? ... so then what if he adds her then writes do I know you? should she lie and say "oh I thought you looked familiar" or just say "nope." or is this a creepy move no matter what

[Meetmeonthequinox]

No! Guys just plain don't have the "creepy" radar up like girls do. We just don't have the fear of people stlaking us or anything. I think it jsut stems from us usually being stronger than the opposite gender and not frearing assault/rap eor anything. The ONLY way I would worry about it is if like I thought it was a spammer or virus or something. Sometimes people use profiles with hot girls to spread viruses/do hacking. Mostly I suspet this if the girl is from some far off state...unless she has discussed soemthing with me on a group page or something. But if the girl has several mutual friends, id from a nearby school...could have heard about me through the grapevine, seen me at a party..etc...then its totally cool...plus if She's cute...HEYYY! definitely welcome that ;)

[idontunderstand]

No we have mutual friends ha that's how his profile came up as suggested friend, so I guess it shouldn't be to bad

[Meetmeonthequinox]

O..yea..Go for it!!!

[top_cat]

If you just add, the guy will think you're a sex bot so I'd avoid that. He'll think you're spam or something haha. Sure send a message but don't randomly! Some guys like that though but know that it will lead to something sexual like webcams and so forth.

[Belleast]

Well, FB is a social networking site not only for people that you know personally but also for new people. So, I think you should check her profile first then decide.

[Anonymous]

don't know about guys. but I wouldn't accept a request from a hot guy I've never laid eyes on.

[superdudeman]

Most men don't even know what the word "creepy" means.

You are thinking like a woman. Because if a man did that to you, then OF COURSE it would be creepy.

To answer your question, no, its not going to be creepy for most men because most men will either like it, or not care either way.

[GakieBarks009]

If that person adds a guy who has over 500 more friends(which half of them he don't know ) then it won't be creepy for the guy. Heck he won't even notice her because some people just add friends just to get reputation. If she does something special to get his attention he might talk to her more than often.

[Brando]

Not really creepy, but just random. I don't know those types of people and so I don't really care why they added me. I won't turn them down, but I don't ask them who they are. If they want to say something to me, that's fine I'll talk to them. The same thing happens on this site. I'm not a hateful person or anything, but if someone adds me, then they should at least say Hi lol

[dreamishobby]

nope...!

if a girl adds any random guy on FB => NOT CREEPY AT ALL...she just wants to make some new friends!

but...!

if a guy adds any random girl on FB => CREEEEEEPY!...he doesn't have manners...he's a stalker/player/bad-man etc etc!...i don't know they even look at his picture or check out how handsome he is! lol they are ridiculous!

[Mastermind]

Yeah talking about facebook and strange things would it be creepy like I like a guy in my school and his friend knows mine and they usually stop and talk...so this guy knows me that way but he never says hi when I see him for the lunch break...so recently I added him on fb and he accepted my request and I was wondering if it would be odd to like his pictures and even maybe write to him( he liked a group " Congratulations for the girl which wrote first to the guy" )

[Mastermind]

Also my friend says I should smile to him when he passes by me or say hi first...What should I do to make him notice me?

[dreamishobby]

I would say follow your frnds advice......those things really work!

and don't start talking to him on fb w/o speaking a word in real......that way u'll bcom 'ONLY FB FRND'

[Mastermind]

Ok...thanks :)

[Searnd_Giddon]

Just be honest and say you saw the pic and thought he was cute and thought "why not" and said hi. I know I'd love it so don't worry. It's usually guys that have to worry about being creepy.

[freedomx10a]

I don't know about you but I tend to decline people I don't know... so unless you add a message along with your request then I'll probably just decline.

[dr_stan]

I as a guy never had stuff served to me on a platter.

So if this happens, it does get odd for me and I am extra cautious in my approach.

[WeaponZero]

Usually it's a spam bot or something like that so I decline it.

[snackeyg]

No but I would decline if I've never spoken to her. If I haven't had a least one conversation with a person I won't add them. Also you should just say nope and give a real reason.

[davishere]

Nope, I don't think any guy would find that creepy.

[barkmoon]

Im gonna be honest, the truth is, if the girl is pretty, hot, most guys won't decline. And no, I don't think its creepy, nothing wrong with getting to know people, right? :)

[Desires]

No it's not creepy! Anyway you're hot so I'm sure no guy would mind

[emzy-89]

i never add people that I don't actually know.